I shouldn't be surprised since I went through this with DD - however I am, yet again, struggling to find bedding i like for baby girl #2. I was wondering where you ladies are getting yours from or what you are getting. DD1 has the Kids Line Bella Collection. I did find one that i liked but it's been discontinued so it obviously won't work. My sister offered me her daughter's bedding..i would still need to buy the sheets/lamps/valances, pettty much everything BUT the mobile, comforter and bumpers. Her daughter's bedding is also butterfly themed but it was "pieced" together...so i dont know..what do you think? Part of me wanted to get DD2 her own since she'll have hand-me-down clothing, toys etc...but part of me is like just take sissy's bedding set and save the $ but how much would I actually be saving is the question? and YES, DD1 is still using her "set" since she's only 19 months old we haven't upped her to a "big-girl theme" yet. Any help is appreciated since I'm quickly running out of time.
Re: Bedding
After much debate over bedding (DH wanted over the top girly and I wanted a more toned down nursery) we decided on the bedding I linked below from Land of Nod. They have some other colors and other classy sets.
https://www.landofnod.com/crib-bedding/kids-gear/lavender-with-a-flourish-crib-bedding/f6142
I actually posted on my craigslist today! And a lady emailed 30 minutes later. Feel like I'm selling for too cheap though!!
I hope you find your bedding. I am struggling finidng baby boy bedding I love...
We have our A/S tomorrow. But, I've looked online at a ton of different options for bedding. I have my heart set on gray walls and I had been struggling to find bedding for either sex that would work well. But, after finding this nursery online, I'm in love with the color scheme. So, i think we'll paint the nursery these exact colors either way.

I think I found bedding on babybedding.com that could work with these colors.
Girl:
Boy:
I got paint samples already and ordered fabric swatches for both sets. So, I guess we'll see how we feel when we see them in person.