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Thoughts and prayers for my dad please

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He is having bypass surgery on his leg today.  The blood flow is compromised in his left leg and he needs the surgery or he will lose his leg.  The problem is that he is weak from all of his other health problems of late and I am really worried about him making it through.  So any thoughts and prayers you can spare I would greatly appreciate. 

As for me, I have gotten nothing but BFN's, so it looks like this IVF was a bust.  I went for my beta this morning and they will call this afternoon.  We can't afford IVF OOP and the little bit of IF insurance we had covered the one cycle.  So I don't know where we will got from here.  I will update later, once I get the confirmation for sure. 

 

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  • ohbabyohohbabyoh

    I'm so sorry about the IVF  Sad

    You and your dad will be in my prayers.  FX everything goes smoothly for him.

    ((hugs))


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  • jen629jen629 member
    Many thoughts and prayers for your dad {{{HUGS}}}
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  • julesjbjulesjb member
    I read on +6 and didn't know if I should post over there....I am very sorry for what your going through. Tons of t&p for you and your family! Update us on your dad when you can
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  • obxjs09obxjs09
    thoughts and prayers for your dad. Hope all goes well.
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  • tootlebugtootlebug member

    cutebride im so sorry about your BFNs. 

    and i will say a prayer for your dad. i hope everything goes okay.

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  • jerryliljessjerryliljess member
    My thoughts and prayers are coming to you! 
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    Surprise!  Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due.  Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!  

                                                        
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  • OatoaOatoa member
    I am so sorry for the BFNs.  I'll be keeping you and your dad in my thoughts and prayers.  Hugs to you.

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  • smallfry5909smallfry5909 member

    Hugs to you, T&P for your dad :( So sorry you are going through this.

    I hope you get some good news really soon.

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  • roadstarroadstar

    Cutie I'm sorry about the BFN :(

    Your dad will be in my thoughts today.

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  • passion_fruit08passion_fruit08
    Sorry about your BFN. I will keep you and your dad in my T&P

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  • mizdiz444mizdiz444
    Sorry about the BFN.  (((hugs))) to you and sending prayers to you dad.
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  • vlong4vlong4 member
    Thoughts and Prayers for your father. I am so sorry about the IVF cycle.
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  • xnbridexnbride member
    I am so sorry to hear your news regarding your dad's surgery and your IVF cycle. Big hugs. I hope everything turns around soon. T&P headed your way.

     

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  • TapatioTapatio
    I'm so sorry about the BFNs ((hugs)). My T&Ps are with your dad and your family. I know you have a lot going on right now but try and take care of yourself Smile ((extra hugs)).
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  • stillbakingstillbaking member

    I'm thinking of you and your family today. Hope your dad's surgery goes well. (((HUGS)))

     

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  • Temp878586125009588Temp878586125009588 member
    I'm so sorry about the IVF. T&P are being sent for you and your dad! Hang in there!
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  • rosenb2brosenb2b member
    I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with all of this!  T&Ps to you and your Dad!  Keep us updated!  {HUGS}
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  • jerriesgirljerriesgirl
    I'm sorry about your BFN.  I hope your dad's surgery goes well today.
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  • ltdgrl01ltdgrl01
    Praying for you and your dad! My dad had a triple bypass last month and is on the road to recovery! I am sure your dad will be on that same road in no time Yes
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  • MuffinhbMuffinhb member

    Im sorry about the IVF

     

    I will be praying for your dad and you! (((Hugs))) 


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  • sgrobstesgrobste member

    I am sending many thoughts and prayers that your dad's surgery is successful and he makes a speedy and healthy recovery.  Also ((HUGS)) I am sorry that your IVF cycle was not a success.

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  • smalltowngirl99smalltowngirl99

    Sorry about your BFN's :(  I will keep you and your Dad in my prayers. I hope things get better. (((hugs)))


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  • shootingstar0724shootingstar0724 member
    Sorry about the IVF Sad T&P's for everything.
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  • christyjoleechristyjolee

    I am so sorry about the IVF.  Big huge ((hugs)).

    I will be thinking lots of positive thoughts for a successful surgery and quick healing for your dad.

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  • glitterfish 213glitterfish 213
    Many thoughts and prayers to you and your family. I hope your dad's surgery is smooth and recovery is fast. 
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  • karma79karma79 member
    You and your family are in my T&P.
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  • jertiejertie member
    I will be sending positive thoughts to you and your family.  I am so sorry that all of this is ganging up on you now.  I was following you and hoping that the IVF would work out for you.  ((BIG BIG HUGS))

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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    Sending T&Ps to your dad and family.

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  • BarooGirlBarooGirl member
    Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

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  • JThomas221JThomas221
    I'm so sorry for the BFN. You and your dad will be in my thoughts.
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  • Eris-AlexisEris-Alexis

    I'm so sorry about your dad and the IVF.  You have got a lot on your plate right now.  I will be keeping you, your Dad and family in my T&Ps. Please keep us updated.

    Also, keeping my fx that you get good news from the betas today, and if not that something falls into place and you can continue the IVF.  I think someone posted the other day about various financing options for IVF. 

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  • LoriJ11LoriJ11
    Big prayers for your Dad and for peace of mind for you.
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member

    Best wishes that your dad pulls through just fine and I pray that that surgeon has steady hands and the wisdom to get him through.

    As far as IVF goes, this just can't be the end of your journey.  You have come too far to end it like this. Something will open up from this, maybe in a way you least expect it *hugs*

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  • LDW80LDW80
    I am so sorry for all that you are going through.  My t&p's to your family and hoping your dad has a smooth recovery.  ((hugs))
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  • celinegcelineg
    So sorry for what you are going through. I hope your dad's surgery goes well, and that he recovers quickly. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    Lots of T&P heading your way!


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  • hugs&hissyfitshugs&hissyfits

    Hope your dad's surgery goes well. I am just getting on for the day but I will keep him in my prayers.

    So sorry about the BFN! I will keep you all in my T&P!!

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  • MrsMeMoMrsMeMo member
    Thinking of your dad AND you! ((HUGS))
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    ((hugs)) T&P's headed your way.
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  • corndog8corndog8
    So very sorry hon for all your going through.   My T&P's are with you and your family.
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