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So, I am the one who has to plan the shower...

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...for my co-teacher who is completely obsessed with her pregnancy.  Of course, she wasn't even trying and her PG works out perfectly so that she can finish out most of the school year, then leave for the summer.  Just to add to the bitterfest, she and her husband and both families are $ loaded $ and are over-the-top showering her with gifts, custom furniture, etc.  And she just announced that she is not returning next year, so I will be working with someone new and training her replacement. 

And here I am, planning her shower, scraping money together to buy a gift, paying for IF treatments and DH and I are broke and from broke families.  Needless to say, I will be here working away next year and even when I do get my BFP, I'll be back in 6 weeks...  IF, you are so cruel...

:::vent over:::

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TTC since March 2009 // Me and DH - 28
Testing Summer/Fall 2010 - Unexplained IF
IUIs #1-4 ~ Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
IUI #5 ~ Femara/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ BFN
IUIs #6-9 ~ Research Study Meds/Pregnyl/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
IVF Consultation, More Testing
Diagnostic Cycle ~ Mucinex/Progesterone/TI ~ BFN
IVF #1 ~ Menopur/Bravelle/Ganirelix/Novarel/Progesterone/Lupron
7R, 6F // 2 transferred // 3 frosties ~ BFN
FET #1 ~ Estrace/PIO/Lupron
3 thawed // 2 transferred // 1 lost // no more frosties ~ BFP!!
Beta #1 - 456 // Beta #2 - 1176 // Beta #3 - 2933 // Beta #4 - 6753
EDD: May 16, 2013
Threatened MC at 6w2d
Bedrest for SCH // 6w2d through 10w1d
Elevated TSH and Lazy Thyroid DX @ 10w - Started Synthroid
Finally released from RE at 13w
Charles Everett ~ Born 5/20/2013

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Re: So, I am the one who has to plan the shower...

  • MelicakesMelicakes member

    UGH that sucks !!!!! You are a wonderful person to have to deal with all that !

    BIG HUGS !

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  • abbe19abbe19
    O for crying out loud! That is too much for anyone to handle!! I give you so much credit!! 

    SAIF/PAIF Always Welcome!
    TTC #1 May 2008
    6 Rounds Clomid, 1 Round Femera-BFN
    4 IUIs (1 Clomid, 1 Femara, 2 injectables)-BFN
    February 2010-Laparoscopy
    4 months of Lupron
    August 2010-IUI #5-BFN
    October 2010-IUI #6-BFN
    IVF #1 November 2010-BFN
    IVF #2 March 2011-BFN
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  • AmberB75AmberB75
    That's hideous...I'm so sorry
    DS born 10/2008 TTC #2 since 8/2009 MFI and natural killer cell activation diagnosis IVF #4 = BFP!! Due 10/12!!
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  • MarriedinCaliMarriedinCali
    Wow- that just sucks all around. I'm sorry :(  (((HUGS)))
    Don't worry about tomorrow. After all, today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday. Take each day as it comes...one at a time. Midnight Baking Adventures Blog
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  • softbalangelsoftbalangel
    That is awful. I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
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  • jamielynnohiojamielynnohio member
    Big hugs!
    Married '02, TTC May '05

    Dx -Ute cancer, DOR from cancer treatments, and embryo quality issues. NOV 2010 CANCER FREE
    2005-2011= 3 Rounds of Clomid, 5 IUI's, 3 IVF's- ALL BFN's
    After 7yrs TTC, 5yrs of ute cancer, and 11 failed IF treatments, we got a surprise BFP! So thankful!

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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    What an awful situation. Hugs!
    m/c 7/17/10
    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
    IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

    FET: Medicated FET moved up to 5/23 due to ovulation
    Transferred a 6BB hatched blastocyst- genetically normal female embryo
    BFP! 5/28- 5dp6dt      
    6/1 Beta #1- 223! 6/3 Beta #2- 567!

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  • naybirdnaybird

    WOW...  You get a whole lot of credit for doing it too!  That's a whole lot to handle.. big big hugs to you!!!!

    Renee*

    Renee- 37 DH - Chad - 39
    2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
    3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks 
    5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
    D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
    Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
    5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
    FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
    1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
    IVF - May - BFN
    6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
    9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
    10/13 - BFP!!
    It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    So sorry you have to deal with her and planning her shower.

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

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  • daisies916daisies916

    (((hugs)))

    You're a kind person for going through with the shower.

    After 3 1/2 years of hope and prayers, our sweet baby girl is here! Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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