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Thanks for your T&P's (and update - PIP)

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. I have a minute and would like to post a quickie update on me and Isaac.

Went in Sat morning for low movement, started NST and his heart was decelerating for no reason and I was having lots of contrax.  They admitted me and said they would continue monitoring.  First sono (old machine) showed low fluid and no diaphragm movement; better sono (with MFM) showed normal fluid and diaphragm movement.  So, the BPP was good, the NST was not.  We just couldn't get him to move around.  The thought was the decels were due to cord issue.

Eventually the call was made to deliver and he was born via c/s at 7:58 pm.  Cord and placenta seemed fine.  He was very pale upon delivery and they found his blood gas came back abnormal and he needed a blood transfusion.  He had his second one this morning.

I have yet to hold him.  I've only seen him once.  I'm starting to get annoyed but I know it's for the best.  I've been pumping and got a tiny bit with a syringe that they can feed him.  I feel really hopeless but I know he's in good hands... 

He's on some oxygen and here's how he looked last night.  He's SUPER feisty and a fighter and is a big crier so we're hoping it will strengthen his lungs well.  I (think) he has a strawberry blonde curly hair. :) 

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DS born at 35w1d in February 2011
Twin girls born at exactly 36w in February 2013
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Re: Thanks for your T&P's (and update - PIP)

  • Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy. He is so precious--look at that mouth!

    Hang in there. I'm sorry things have been rough. Sounds like you've got a tough little cookie there and that is a good thing. I'll keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. 

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  • From apreemie mom to another. BIG HUGE HUGS and hang in there...this will be the most stressful time for you. The constant worry and hopelessness. Everything will work out I promise! The nurses and Dr.'s are wonderful. Be forceful with information, DON'T BE AFRAID TO ASK QUESTION AND DEMAD ANSWERS!!

    DOn't give up on the BFing you will be able to do it soon. Just think positive and keep pumping! Big hugs to you momma. I am so proud of you and love that baby!

    PM me if you have ANY quesions. BTW what week is he?

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  • Congrats on your little boy!  He is so precious and looks like a fighter!  I'm sorry you've had quite a rough time with your delivery, but I hope that he pulls through quickly so that you can all be united as a family.  Lots of prayers being sent your way.
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  • Awww look at him, he's beautiful! What a gorgeous boy.  Congratulations mama!
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  • He's beautiful, Leneae!!  Thinking about you and hoping you get to hold him very soon. 
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  • Im sorry he had to come early but sounds like he is doing as well as can be expected. Congrats on a beautiful baby boy, Issac is lucky to have you as his mommy!
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  • He's adorable, Congrats! Glad to hear he's a good little fighter, I hope he gets there soon and you and finally hold him.
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  • Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy!  I hope you get to hold him soon.
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  • Congrats!!  i hope he's on the mend soon!  (((hugs)))
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  • Congrats!  He's just adorable.  I'll be thinking of you both, and I hope you get to hold him soon.
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  • Congrats! He is such a cutie! Sounds like you have a ROUGH 24 hours....hope things get better and you get to hold your baby boy soon!
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  • Congrats... what a cutie!!!  Hope you have him in your arms soon!

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  • Congratulations on that adorable little boy!  I'm so sorry that you haven't had a chance to hold him yet; my heart breaks for you.  However, in the longrun, it will make him a healthier boy and that is what is most important.  He sure is strong and I am so glad things have been improving.  Stay strong mommy!
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  • What a little sweetie pie! I'm sorry you guys are having it rough. Just concentrate on healing and keep on pumping. :) You two will be strong and going home together in no time! ((HUGS)) Congrats hon!
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  • Congrats momma! You and Isaac are both fighters. Don't give up on BF, once you start seeing him regularly your milk will come in.
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  • Congrats!

    I hope you get to do kangaroo care soon with him!

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  • Congrats, he is adorable! Hope you can hold him soon.

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  • Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy!  I hope you are able to get your hands on him soon.  You'll both be in my thoughts and prayers.
  • Oh my gosh!! He's here!  ..and he looks perfect!  I know the NICU sucks major donkey balls and no mother wants to have to wait around while their new baby is undergoing any kind of treatment without them.  BUT, it really is the best place for him and he is in such good hands in there.  Soon you'll have your chance to hole him for the very first time and it will be amazing!!  I'm so excited for you and your family!! Congrats!
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  • Congrats sweetie!! He's gorgeous. Hang in there. I am sorry that all this is happening. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • Congrats!!  He's so beautiful!  I know how scary it is to have your baby come a few weeks too early.  If you have any questions or want to talk, please let me know!  And if not me, then there are lots of other mommas here that have similar experiences too.  Don't feel alone.

    Also, speak up to a nurse when you get to go see your baby and mention you haven't held him yet.  Unless there's a specific reason they won't let anyone hold him yet, I bet a nurse finds a way for you to get to hold him, if even for a minute.  I didn't get to hold Z that first day he was born and when I mentioned it to his nurse, she picked him up and plopped him in my hands to hold while she changed his blankets.  Best moment ever.

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  • He's so handsome!  Congratulations!!

    Praying he's off those machines and into your arms very soon. 

  • CONGRATULATIONS!!  He's adorable!!  I hope Isaac's doing super-well now, and that you get to hold, hug and love him up even more VERY soon!
  • It sounds like the right call was made to deliver, he'll be home in no time with you and DH, congrats T!
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  • Continuing good thoughts to you and Isaac.
  • Congrats leneae - he is so adorable!! Hang in there, I am praying you will get to hold him soon.
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  • Wow what a rough 24 hours you have had. Your baby boy is gorgeous, hang in there, I hope you get to hold him real soon
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  • I hope you get to hold him today. He is so adorable!!!


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  • Congrats!  Praying hard for you guys!
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  • Oh my goodness... I wasn't on yesterday and just saw this on FB... Sending you tons of T&P's that Isaac continues to get stronger!  He is just adorable... I hope that you are able to hold him soon!

    Huge ((((hugs)))). 

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  • He is beautiful!

    Congratulations. I hope you get to hold him soon. Sending prayers.

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  • Congratulations on your little bundle of joy, he is absolutely adorable! I hope you get to hold him very soon! ((hugs))
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  • He is beautiful! I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers! Please keep us updated as much as possible!
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  • He is so pretty!!! Look at those lips!!!
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  • Congrats on your baby boy. I'm glad they are taking good care of him.
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  • Your little guy is here!! I hope you get to hold him in your arms so very soon...big hugs and t&p for good health.
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  • Congrats on your beautiful boy!  I know it's very hard right now, but he's on the path to getting stronger.  I hope you get to hold him soon. 
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  • Congrats, he is beautiful! I hope he's in your arms very soon!
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