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Does the worrying ever end?

mizrunzoumizrunzou
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Good Evening Ladies.  I'm mainly a lurker - especially in the past few weeks.  But, I need an outlet...or I think I may go crazy.

I have been spotting since week 5, and even with 1 ultrasound to make sure everything was progressing okay at 6 wk 4 d, and another appointment where we heard a strong heartbeat this week (at 8 wk 3 d) I am still worried sick.  The spotting has never really gone away for long, and this evening I wiped and it was much brighter (more red than pink and brown) than it has been in the past.  I don't know if I can handle this stress and anxiety for the whole pregnancy (or even trimester) - I am in a constant state of fear that something is going to go wrong b/c of last time and just when I start to feel positive my spotting picks up.  I feel overwhelmed b/c we haven't told anyone - and I have no one to vent to.    Does the worrying ever end for us PGALers?  Did you start to "enjoy" your pg. at 12 weeks?  I hate to wish away time, but I wish the next 3 weeks would pass quickly - and be uneventful. 

Thanks for listening :)

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  • SheLovesMrHipSheLovesMrHip member
    I just want to give you a big hug!!!
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  • Nikki1219Nikki1219 member
    I'm sorry to say that I don't think it does.  :( I'm glad you heard a strong heartbeat and I hope your baby stays healthy and your pregnancy gets less eventful.
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  • FmrAFBratFmrAFBrat member
    ((HUGS)) I don't think it ever does go away.
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    BFP #1 10-11-10 ectopic discovered 10-22-10, 10-23-10 methotrexate & emergency surgery, lost right tube BFP #2 12-1-10 Found to be tissue dropped from salingectomy or missed heterotopic pregnancy from BFP #1 BFP #3 1-30-11 DS arrived on due date 10-10-11 BFP #4 Surprise 9-3-12 EDD 5-9-13 DS2 arrived 5-5-13 BFP #5 5-14-14 Emergency D&C 6-16-14 9 weeks
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  • mizrunzoumizrunzou

    Thanks Ladies, I appreciate the support. 

    *sigh*

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  • boxtonmom1014boxtonmom1014 member

    I have had really severe anxiety this pregnancy- it's like I keep waiting for the other show to drop. It's gotten as bad as panic attacks when I'm on my way for a heartbeat check because I'm so afraid that it's going to be bad news.

    I talked to my OB about my anxiety and she gave me some suggestions, as well as referring me to a prenatal psychopharm specialist.

    I hope you can find some strategies to get some relief from the anxiety. It is so overwhelming, and I am right there with you!

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  • unizlinzunizlinz

    No, I don't think the worrying ever stops completely.  Passing milestones helps, but then you worry about different things.  I think I'll worry until the day my little one is born...and well into her childhood, teens, adulthood.  I think it's part of being a mom.

    In the meantime, take a deep breath and try to enjoy every moment you baby is with you.

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  • mizrunzoumizrunzou
    imageunizlinz:

    No, I don't think the worrying ever stops completely.  Passing milestones helps, but then you worry about different things.  I think I'll worry until the day my little one is born...and well into her childhood, teens, adulthood.  I think it's part of being a mom.

    In the meantime, take a deep breath and try to enjoy every moment you baby is with you.

    Taking a deep breath...thank you ladies :)

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