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Poor DH

Izabella22Izabella22 member
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I've been trying to hold off on the heavy duty fwp until it looks like I'm close to Oing, which could be in the next couple of days or in a week so I don't want to wear him out early like we did last month. So he got shot down last night... Huh? I hope I didn't ruin his confidence but... yeah. He needs to save it up! lol! Anyone else withhold the goods before O? I feel like a bad wife but I'm hoping we can manage at least EOD in the next couple of days then ED when I get a +  This whole scheduling fwp thing is a real PITA!

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  • HadleySHadleyS member
    Aw, poor DH.  I shot down MH one time too, but I just told him that I was extremely tired and he bought it!  Your time is coming soon though, do you have a good guess as to how soon O is coming?  CM changes?
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  • TapatioTapatio

    I *think* guys only need 24 hours to get their "stuff restocked" so I don't worry too much about timing out our sex sessions. My DH and I haven't even started! I feel like a slacker. He's been working really long hours and I feel bad for the guy so I figure I'll wait until I get a +OPK.

    I like your plan of action! Yes

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  • MommyandKateMommyandKate
    Can't say I withhold it, but I hear you on wearing them out :)  That's why I got the OPKs this time- so I wouldn't be worried about whether I'm a late-O or early-O.
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  • Izabella22Izabella22 member
    Yeah I'm just worried about tiring him out. I feel bad shooting him down but we both rain out of steam for fwp so early last month I don't want a repeat. I am glad I just decided to stick to OPKs though, they're stressing me out enough as is.... I keep thinking I'm going to miss my surge and then I forget to not drink or not pee for a while. *sigh* No ewcm yet, but I didn't really get any last month either so... who knows. My body used to be pretty plain and clear about O time and now its a mystery. Hopefully the OPKs will tell me clearly what's going on... but I seriously hope I get a + soon cause yeah... I'm ready for FWP! And clearly so is DH!!!
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  • Froggy76Froggy76 member
    I did withhold it for a little over a week before O.  We'll see if it worked...
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