I am sorry in advance for posting this but I am going crazy!! I am 4 days overdue with my first baby and feeling like she is never going to come! I read all these posts from first timers who delivered at 38-39 weeks and feel upset somehow.
We were supposed to induce today but after my H has severe flu and that made me not sleep for 2 nights. He is still really sick and I am afraid to do an induction. I want to go in to labor naturally to be honest. But I feel like nothing is happening! I have no water breaking, barely contracting, no nesting, etc. Blah. I don't even answer my phone for the 20 calls i get a day asking when baby is coming, was my due date wrong, why isn't she here???
MH asks 2-3 times a day, are we having a baby today? IDK!! I am starting to feel a little upset about it. Technically I know she can go 2 weeks overdue right? Is that reallly common?
Re: How far were you when you delivered baby #1
BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10
BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15
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I was having contractions for 2 full weeks before my water broke. I was 5 days past due when my water broke and she was born 6 days after her due date.
I was getting tons of phone calls and e-mails and texts and it stressed me out SO much I started crying and DH confiscated my phone so I could relax a little.
FWIW, my water only ended up breaking when I had resigned myself to an induction. The major thing for me was that I just couldn't relax enough to let things happen. Take a bath and have a little glass of wine and I bet things will get started. (Although there's something to be said for waiting until your H is feeling a little better.)
Thanks ladies. I know that I am not that far overdue. I think I am letting other people stress me out which is silly! My mom keeps telling me that babies come when they are ready and never sooner.
I keep trying to tell myself to enjoy these last baby free moments. I know that soon I will be looking back wistfully on all these precioius hours, lol! I don't really feel like going anywhere but that doesn't mean I can't enjoy a nice book, bath or movie. I am not that uncomfortable either, so I can't complain too much. I am not sleeping much though. Not sure why but just can't seem to do it.
Thanks for the encouragment and stories. It makes me feel a whole lot better.