anyone else? sex painful during O time..

Re: anyone else? sex painful during O time..

• doozer1345 member

  February 2011

  I have, and my doctor said it is due to a cyst. I happened to have a cyst burst which is why after sex it was so painful. I'm not sure if that's what is going on with you, but that's my experience. GL I hope it gets better for you!

  
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• PitterPat11

  February 2011

  I would wait to talk to your dr. and see what they say. Also if it's too painful for sex I have heard of some getting busy in other ways then just inserting the penis tip, I actually think one of the girls here got pg this way because she had a medical procedure that prevented them from bding, but she was oing and didnt want to skip that cycle..well sure enough she got ku.

  Finley Belle 12/27/07 Ezra Bennett 10/02/09 Josephine Pearl 12/31/11

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• Babybear70 member

  February 2011

  I have pain during sex while O'ing so you are not alone. I know how it feels and it hurts really bad. It was so bad for me once it wrapped all the way around my back...I thought I was going to die. But I have found a way to not only have a good time with sex, but also stiffle some of the pain.

  While DH and I are going at it, I will raise my legs like in a 90 degree position, and squeeze my knees together a bit to make it so he doesn't go quite as deep. That usually takes care of most of it. I know that is a little TMI, but it works for me and it might give you some relief too. Good luck!

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• JSRICH

  February 2011

  Usually sex is more enjoyable for me because I'm pretty much horny all the time and all my ewcm makes it easy to just start. The only thing that hurts sometimes is if we really get going and he hits my cervix. That's not always comfortable. I'd talk to your doc! Gl!

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• BuckeyeBabymaker

  February 2011

  How do you know you are O'ing if you do not temp? A +OPK doesn't mean that your are ovulating.....just saying.

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• bigbear

  February 2011

  If it's that painful a doc visit may be a good idea. You may have a cyst. Which doesn't have to be a big deal but it's worth checking it out.

  I sometimes feel pain, too and so we do the stroke and poke in those cases

  Toys may help too or positions where he's not going in as deep....

  good luck!

  

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• AndBabyWouldMake5

  February 2011

  Babybear70:

  I have pain during sex while O'ing so you are not alone. I know how it feels and it hurts really bad. It was so bad for me once it wrapped all the way around my back...I thought I was going to die. But I have found a way to not only have a good time with sex, but also stiffle some of the pain.

  While DH and I are going at it, I will raise my legs like in a 90 degree position, and squeeze my knees together a bit to make it so he doesn't go quite as deep. That usually takes care of most of it. I know that is a little TMI, but it works for me and it might give you some relief too. Good luck!

  When I'm Oing I literally feel like my ute is going to drop out of me.  So bad that the first few months of bcp I thought I was having another cyst.

  I too find that certain positions alleviate the pressure of the thrusts seem to cause.  My go to during O is DH standing on the floor in front of the bed and me on my back.  Basically what Babybear was describing. 

  It is a conundrum to have b/c I'm usually more in the mood around O.  I just save the fun stuff for other times and the down to business positions for O.  After 10 cycles its gotten easier and easier to see O time sex and sex for fun differently so DH doesn't mind.

  Keep growing preemie ballerina!

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