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Anyone else fighting with the hubby?

OK so my husband and I had been trying for several months with two mc's but now were pregnant in the first trimester, and I thought we would be so happy and in love and it turns out not! It seems like were at each others necks all the time. I dont know if its me and my hormones but I feel like he's not being supportive and of course my new sensitivity to EVERYTHING  is not helping. We didnt have these problems before the pregnancy I definetely wanted to make sure we were in a healthy stable relationship before we started trying so now im at a loss. Any advice? Sad

Re: Anyone else fighting with the hubby?

  • Pregnancy hormones can make you WAY sensitive and sometimes men just don't know how to react. I don't really have any advice, but just wanted to let you know I think it's fairly normal. You guys will get into the swing of things dealing with the hormones, morning sickness, ect. Try having a talk with him and explain how your are feeling, what kind of support you need, and if he can bare with you and try to be extra sensitive to your feelings right now.
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  • I just want you to know that i know what you are going through. I feel the same way right now!! And a lot of people say to talk it out, but i've tried that and sometimes its just not enough. I really do believe that it does have a lot to do with hormones, because when i look back on our relationship before i got pregnant things were fine. Pregnancy does a lot to us, so maybe just explain to him that your attitude no longer belongs to you, but to your hormones, and think of the greatness to come when baby arrives :)
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