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Breastfeeding and late...

Hello, So I am nursing my 10 month old daughter and she is only nursing 3 times a day and eating A LOT of big people food. I got my first pp cycle startign Jan 7th, 2011. It is now Feb. 12, 2011 and I am now 8 days late. Before pregnancy I was extremly regular, to the day and time, never late! I have been nauseous, starving, soreness in my uterus, increased urination and had light spoting on the 1st of Feb, thought it was implantation bleeding like my first pregnancy. Have taken several hpt and all negative. Is pregnancy still something to consider or should I just attribute the symptoms to irregularity with my cycle?
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    My periods changed dramatically after both of my kids. If you don't want to get pregnant you should chart-- that's the only way of knowing if you're "late".
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    Your cycles will likely be irregular for a while, especially after weaning from breastfeeding. 

     

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    I wouldnt worry about it. If you are 60+ days late and you took a PG test (negative) talk to your OB if it is of concern to you. Is there any possibility you may be PG again?

    I would guess that just like comming off BCP your cycle will go a bit wonky for a few months. 

    I still havent gotten mine back, not that I'm complaining!

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    imagesourapplemartini:
    My periods changed dramatically after both of my kids. If you don't want to get pregnant you should chart-- that's the only way of knowing if you're "late".
    If you dont want to get pregnant ypu should use birth control.
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    imagesourapplemartini:
    My periods changed dramatically after both of my kids. If you don't want to get pregnant you should chart-- that's the only way of knowing if you're "late".
    If you dont want to get pregnant ypu should use birth control.
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    I don't mind getting pregnant, I don't think I said anything about being worried or not wanting to be pregnant, just looking for some insight to see if there has ever been anyone in my shoes. My husband and I use condoms, but I would rather chart and get pregnant without planning rather than use a pill designed with the intention of genocide. Thank you.
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    imageStephiJ5:
    I don't mind getting pregnant, I don't think I said anything about being worried or not wanting to be pregnant, just looking for some insight to see if there has ever been anyone in my shoes. My husband and I use condoms, but I would rather chart and get pregnant without planning rather than use a pill designed with the intention of genocide. Thank you.
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    Used BCP for a year, went off for 1.5 year, went back on for a year when I got married never had an irregular cycle in all that time, decided to stop taking BCP after research, had a perfectly normal cycle 1st month after and got pregnant 2nd month after stopping BCP. Not complaining either:-) Just trying to understand all these changes that happen after the first baby. 

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    imageStephiJ5:

    Used BCP for a year, went off for 1.5 year, went back on for a year when I got married never had an irregular cycle in all that time, decided to stop taking BCP after research, had a perfectly normal cycle 1st month after and got pregnant 2nd month after stopping BCP. Not complaining either:-) Just trying to understand all these changes that happen after the first baby. 

    Genocide?  Really?

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    So BCP was fine before and now it's genocide? Hmm
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    Holy crazy newbie, batman. To think I though you seemed normal. We are pretty good at sniffing out the crazy around here. Tricky tricky tricky!
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    once I did my own research on BCP I decided it was not for me. I'm not forcing my opinions on anyone, just looking for information. I don't need to be told what to do, if you're interested in sharing a similar experience to help me out, that would be appreciated, but if not just move on.
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    Wow, really thought I was dealing with adults that were interested in sharing and helping out fellow moms. If you have nothing that specifically helps me out I would perfer you didn't respond.
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    You were fine until you decided to talk your BCP=genocide craziness.
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    imageStephiJ5:
    Wow, really thought I was dealing with adults that were interested in sharing and helping out fellow moms. If you have nothing that specifically helps me out I would perfer you didn't respond.
                             You must be new here? :)  Eh, it's a message board you really don't have any choice about who responds or what is said.                                                          I did have similar experiences with nursing both DDs.  My cycles were very irregular until a few months after they were completely weaned.  To be sure, like another poster said, I would chart.  I used the mini pill, so I knew I wasn't pregnant, but I also in no way shape or form wanted babies very close in age.  I would have went nutty and had to attempt another type of *cide instead of genocide. 
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    I would like a link to something that says BCP is genocide
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    Wow, OP.  At first you were just mildly annoying, but now you make me feel like this:

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    (I'm the one on the right, btw.)

     

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    I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt that you haven't looked genocide up in a dictionary...
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    https://www.dianedew.com/sanger.htm

    Sill not my main point. Again, anyone in my boat would love to hear from you.

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    if I'm annoying, then wander elsewhere.
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    Genocide is a very strong word.  If you wanted that little tidbit to be ignored you should have left it out. 

    Now, that is all we are going to pay attention to.  If you want to find someone else that has been in your situation, this is not the place for youl

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    imageStephiJ5:

    https://www.dianedew.com/sanger.htm

    Sill not my main point. Again, anyone in my boat would love to hear from you.

    I'm sorry, I don't see any peer-reviewed articles there that lend any credibility to your statement.

    And as for YOU telling ME to wander elsewhere... I can only chuckle at that. 

    ::pats OP on head::

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    imagehippotree:
    imageStephiJ5:

    https://www.dianedew.com/sanger.htm

    Sill not my main point. Again, anyone in my boat would love to hear from you.

    I'm sorry, I don't see any peer-reviewed articles there that lend any credibility to your statement.

    And as for YOU telling ME to wander elsewhere... I can only chuckle at that. 

    ::pats OP on head::

    Is it time for noogies and swirlies yet?

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    appreciate your response. Just assumed I graduated from the message boards I read in high school.
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    imageStephiJ5:
    appreciate your response. Just assumed I graduated from the message boards I read in high school.

    You did find a message board that is different than those high school ones where one believes and exaggerates everything they read.  Unfortunately, you appear to still fall into that category.

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    They are direct quotations from books and papers written by Margaret Sanger. Who was the main driving force behind the BCP.

     Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize I was dealing with someone who spends massive amounts of time posting. Now I'm impressed. My baby is awake now and I perfer to spend my time with her. Hope you are paying more attention to your children then the internet.

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    imageStephiJ5:

    https://www.dianedew.com/sanger.htm

    Sill not my main point. Again, anyone in my boat would love to hear from you.

    Confused really? Can we say taken out of context... not to mention, she didn't invent bc. Go away.

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    imageStephiJ5:
    if I'm annoying, then wander elsewhere.

    Says the newbie.

    You are following a absolutely ridiculous theory because you read it on the Internet?  There is no credibility to that statement, yet you still believe it. There is no proof and  we  are the immature ones? Why because we think for ourselves and form opinions on a little thing called proof?

    as for your last statement about spending time with our kids? CLASSIC annoying stupid naive cop out. Good job! Let me guess...you feel bad for my husband and child? Am I right?

    Not that its any of your business but they are both napping and cuddling together.

    You got some very good and helpful advice before you went crazy. Im kind of regreting being nice to you now.  

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    imageStephiJ5:
      Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize I was dealing with someone who spends massive amounts of time posting. Now I'm impressed. My baby is awake now and I perfer to spend my time with her. Hope you are paying more attention to your children then the internet.
    I honestly wonder if this shiit is in a handbook or something somewhere.  It might be titled "How to Respond When a Post on The Bump Hurts Your Feelings" or something similar.
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    imageStephiJ5:

    They are direct quotations from books and papers written by Margaret Sanger. Who was the main driving force behind the BCP.

     Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize I was dealing with someone who spends massive amounts of time posting. Now I'm impressed. My baby is awake now and I perfer to spend my time with her. Hope you are paying more attention to your children then the internet.

    Your next line should read as such "I feel sorry for your husbands and children"

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     I would love to spend time with my children, oh wait I don't have any.  Now I guess that makes me a bitter woman. 
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    Holyfuckinghell.  I was nice to you. 

    And then you go all psychotic and claim BCP are genocide?  WTF?  Go back to the batshitcrazy hole you came from.

     

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    imageStephiJ5:

    Used BCP for a year, went off for 1.5 year, went back on for a year when I got married never had an irregular cycle in all that time, decided to stop taking BCP after research, had a perfectly normal cycle 1st month after and got pregnant 2nd month after stopping BCP. Not complaining either:-) Just trying to understand all these changes that happen after the first baby. 

    Oh and this?  Your cycles were "regular" because they were hormonally induced and controlled by your genocidal birth control pill.

     

     

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    Yo dipshiit -

    Genocide, as defined by Merriam-Webster:

    Definition of GENOCIDE

    : the deliberate and systematic destruction of a racial, political, or cultural group 

    Are you opposed to BC because you're afraid you'll have a black baby, democrat, or perhaps a communist?  

    If you're going to say that prevention ovulation or implantation of a zygote is "murder", at least use the correct term. 

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    imageStephiJ5:
    I don't mind getting pregnant, I don't think I said anything about being worried or not wanting to be pregnant, just looking for some insight to see if there has ever been anyone in my shoes. My husband and I use condoms, but I would rather chart and get pregnant without planning rather than use a pill designed with the intention of genocide. Thank you.
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    imageStephiJ5:
    I don't mind getting pregnant, I don't think I said anything about being worried or not wanting to be pregnant, just looking for some insight to see if there has ever been anyone in my shoes. My husband and I use condoms, but I would rather chart and get pregnant without planning rather than use a pill designed with the intention of genocide. Thank you.

    You are a moron...that is all.

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    My point was that my cycle was that regular for 8 years before I started BCP and the year and a half between. Nothing I posted indicated that I did not want to be pregnant. I was simply looking for advice. Wasn't interested in being told what I should do to not get pregnant. It is ridiculous to parade your posting status to prove that you are better or have any more right to be here. No Margret Sanger did not invent BCP but she was the driving force that got BCP on the market in the US. Her intention behind the BCP was to eliminate "undesireable" races. No I do not base all my beliefs on one thing I read on the internet. That was just one source. I don't care what you do, but sorry I have no interest in supporting that movement. You are all horribly ridiculous and am ashamed that I participated in your naive game.
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    imagehippotree:
    imageStephiJ5:
      Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize I was dealing with someone who spends massive amounts of time posting. Now I'm impressed. My baby is awake now and I perfer to spend my time with her. Hope you are paying more attention to your children then the internet.
    I honestly wonder if this shiit is in a handbook or something somewhere.  It might be titled "How to Respond When a Post on The Bump Hurts Your Feelings" or something similar.

    We should write this.

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