Wow! Those people are Klassy!!! These are the types of people I don't think should be allowed to have kids..... karma will get them! Keep your head up - you have SO many supporters here on the bump - we are all praying for you and Mason!
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Like it or not, this is how people raise their children to behave, and the society we live in.
I personally will never be a blogger. Putting my business out there like that just isn't my style.
Granted, that's not how all people feel, but when you put yourself out there, you are allowing for people to make nasty remarks and judge you.
The world is a better place when people think differently and have differing opinions, but it's not better when people are cruel about the way they present them.
This person clearly was just out to rattle your cage, and they succeeded or you wouldn't have drawn more attention to it by posting it here.
Way to be helpful
I blog to express my feelings.. Not to be attacked by harsh comments.
In the old days we called that a diary and we kept them private.
Like I said, if you do it in a public forum, expect this to happen.
Helpful or not, It's the reality of the world.
Or maybe you were just looking for a pity party so everyone could tell you how horrible it was?
You know what? You are not being helpful. Of course there are risks with putting your thoughts out in public, and I am sure Mrs. Hooper is aware of them. And yes, she was looking for sympathy. If your DH was seriously hurt in a car accident and you came on here looking for T&Ps, how would you feel if someone said, "Well, them's the risks of driving, he should have known". Or accused you of asking for a pity party? FFS, have some compassion!
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Like it or not, this is how people raise their children to behave, and the society we live in.
I personally will never be a blogger. Putting my business out there like that just isn't my style.
Granted, that's not how all people feel, but when you put yourself out there, you are allowing for people to make nasty remarks and judge you.
The world is a better place when people think differently and have differing opinions, but it's not better when people are cruel about the way they present them.
This person clearly was just out to rattle your cage, and they succeeded or you wouldn't have drawn more attention to it by posting it here.
Way to be helpful
I blog to express my feelings.. Not to be attacked by harsh comments.
In the old days we called that a diary and we kept them private.
Like I said, if you do it in a public forum, expect this to happen.
Helpful or not, It's the reality of the world.
Or maybe you were just looking for a pity party so everyone could tell you how horrible it was?
You are a douche canoe. STFU.
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There are some very ignorant people out there. They should just remember anything can happen to their children, a car accident can cause their child to need a wheelchair for the rest of their life, would they have aborted them if they knew that was going to happen.
You and your family have a very special gift that you will love and cherish for the rest of your lives and these people will probably end up lonely and wishing they had been nicer to people.
Loving life with two boys who are 10 months apart and can't wait for team green baby to join us and thinking daily about our angel who was with us for a very short time. (CP at 4 weeks and 5 days)
Like it or not, this is how people raise their children to behave, and the society we live in.
I personally will never be a blogger. Putting my business out there like that just isn't my style.
Granted, that's not how all people feel, but when you put yourself out there, you are allowing for people to make nasty remarks and judge you.
The world is a better place when people think differently and have differing opinions, but it's not better when people are cruel about the way they present them.
This person clearly was just out to rattle your cage, and they succeeded or you wouldn't have drawn more attention to it by posting it here.
Way to be helpful
I blog to express my feelings.. Not to be attacked by harsh comments.
In the old days we called that a diary and we kept them private.
Like I said, if you do it in a public forum, expect this to happen.
Helpful or not, It's the reality of the world.
Or maybe you were just looking for a pity party so everyone could tell you how horrible it was?
Yep...thought it would be a great time to throw a party....geeesh! I posted this because I couldnt believe that someone would post something like that! But now I see what kind of people could write that kind of thing...people like you.
It is because of people like that, that our world is full of so much hate. Hopefully someday they will experience the miracle of children/carrying a child and regret those hateful comments/words.
Honestly I hope they burn in hell for hurting you like that....I know very un-christian of me but I am hormonal today.
People are absolutely f'n rediculous...I mean seriously I feel like someone can't have their space to freely discuss whatever they want or need to without someone always ruining it for everyone else. I'm so sorry that someone would be so disgusting. Is there any way to block anonymous people? I have 2 blogs and it's by invite only for this exact reason...I just can't believe how nasty people are...
There really is no words for that. I dare someone to say that to your face. Like a PP said, people are so brave behind their computers. I'm sorry you have to deal with stupid.
Mason is a miracle.
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It's that type of person that just enforces one of my favorite sayings, "What goes around, comes around and I'll pay good money to be there when it comes around to bite you in the..."
Like it or not, this is how people raise their children to behave, and the society we live in.
I personally will never be a blogger. Putting my business out there like that just isn't my style.
Granted, that's not how all people feel, but when you put yourself out there, you are allowing for people to make nasty remarks and judge you.
The world is a better place when people think differently and have differing opinions, but it's not better when people are cruel about the way they present them.
This person clearly was just out to rattle your cage, and they succeeded or you wouldn't have drawn more attention to it by posting it here.
Way to be helpful
I blog to express my feelings.. Not to be attacked by harsh comments.
In the old days we called that a diary and we kept them private.
Like I said, if you do it in a public forum, expect this to happen.
Helpful or not, It's the reality of the world.
Or maybe you were just looking for a pity party so everyone could tell you how horrible it was?
That is absolutely disgusting. Some people just have no empathy in their cold heart. That person is pure evil in my opinion. World would be better without THAT person. He/she is probably miserable and has nothing better to do but try to make others feel the same.
Like it or not, this is how people raise their children to behave, and the society we live in.
I personally will never be a blogger. Putting my business out there like that just isn't my style.
Granted, that's not how all people feel, but when you put yourself out there, you are allowing for people to make nasty remarks and judge you.
The world is a better place when people think differently and have differing opinions, but it's not better when people are cruel about the way they present them.
This person clearly was just out to rattle your cage, and they succeeded or you wouldn't have drawn more attention to it by posting it here.
Way to be helpful
I blog to express my feelings.. Not to be attacked by harsh comments.
In the old days we called that a diary and we kept them private.
Like I said, if you do it in a public forum, expect this to happen.
Helpful or not, It's the reality of the world.
Or maybe you were just looking for a pity party so everyone could tell you how horrible it was?
You are a douche canoe. STFU.
TOTALLY AGREE! GO AWAY JERK
There is absolutely no excuse for the comments that person left, that's bs. Obviously there are some b*tches on here also who have trouble empathizing with people. "It's the reality of the world". Ya, tell that to someone who is raped, murdered, suffering from cancer, lost a child, etc.
People are horrible and I'm so sorry that you've even had to read those things. I'm going to guess that the people that wrote those things know little to nothing about Down syndrome. I mean, 40 years ago people thought children with Down syndrome were "mongoloids!" But anyone person with any experience with a children with Down syndrome knows the truth.
My cousin has Down syndrome, and he is amazing. He was born early, with a hole in his heart. But now he's 13. I honestly think he's one of the smartest kids I know. He has an absolutely amazing memory for music. He's so happy-go-lucky and loves family so much. He's just like any other child. He just doesn't learn as quickly as other kids. But all kids learn at a different pace anyway! How boring would it be if every kid was the same?!
I'm going to be honest, I'm not a huge follower of your blog but I have read Mason's story. And although I have never been in your situation and have no experience raising a child, I hope my saying this is not uncalled for: when Mason is born and as you raise you, he will be a wonderful blessing for you and wonderful addition to your family.
WOW!!! Sick, Demonic people in this world!! I am so sorry they targeted you and your family. Your precious BEAUTIFUL baby boy is made in the likeness and image of Christ and he is Perfect!!! There is much evil in this world and sadly, oh so sadly the evil one is targeting you during this time but I know you have Faith in God and know you are leaving it all in God's hands and His will, will be done. How dare someone imply that there are choices to be made when it comes to human life? There is only ONE God and He alone gives and takes away. You and your baby Mason are an inspiration. You are in our prayers and thoughts. God see's all, and we know that this life is not the end. Praying for your baby always
Hi I stumbled across your post, it has saddened me I cant even imagine how you and your family feel.
I took a brief look at your blog, and I wasnt able to get past your very first entry as I started tearing up reading your experience from the u/s. I want to read it, but I do feel like it will take me some time to get thru it.
Either way your family is blessed, and little Mason is so loved already. Keep strong, stay healthy do not let these internet trolls bring you down.
Like it or not, this is how people raise their children to behave, and the society we live in.
I personally will never be a blogger. Putting my business out there like that just isn't my style.
Granted, that's not how all people feel, but when you put yourself out there, you are allowing for people to make nasty remarks and judge you.
The world is a better place when people think differently and have differing opinions, but it's not better when people are cruel about the way they present them.
This person clearly was just out to rattle your cage, and they succeeded or you wouldn't have drawn more attention to it by posting it here.
Way to be helpful
I blog to express my feelings.. Not to be attacked by harsh comments.
In the old days we called that a diary and we kept them private.
Like I said, if you do it in a public forum, expect this to happen.
Helpful or not, It's the reality of the world.
Or maybe you were just looking for a pity party so everyone could tell you how horrible it was?
Please do not give those horrible comments another thought! Let God judge them, and you just focus positive thoughts on your precious baby : ) I read your blog for the first time today and sobbed my way through it, stay strong and congrats on the recent good news, I pray it only gets better!
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I don't even know what to say...I'm so sorry that there are people out there that are that rude, inconsiderate, and just downright immature. I hope you know that none of those comments are true...God blessed you with Mason for a reason and he IS beautiful!
I am so sorry that you had to even look at those comments. Some people only know cruelty and I feel sorry for them. You have been an inspiration to me and many others.
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UNBELIEVABLE!!!!! Stay strong, you are an amazing woman with an amazing family. Many people are not as strong as you are and they should be ashamed! Feel lucky that you don't have to go through life with their AWFUL disposition on life.
Like it or not, this is how people raise their children to behave, and the society we live in.
I personally will never be a blogger. Putting my business out there like that just isn't my style.
Granted, that's not how all people feel, but when you put yourself out there, you are allowing for people to make nasty remarks and judge you.
The world is a better place when people think differently and have differing opinions, but it's not better when people are cruel about the way they present them.
This person clearly was just out to rattle your cage, and they succeeded or you wouldn't have drawn more attention to it by posting it here.
Way to be helpful
I blog to express my feelings.. Not to be attacked by harsh comments.
In the old days we called that a diary and we kept them private.
Like I said, if you do it in a public forum, expect this to happen.
Helpful or not, It's the reality of the world.
Or maybe you were just looking for a pity party so everyone could tell you how horrible it was?
You know what? You are not being helpful. Of course there are risks with putting your thoughts out in public, and I am sure Mrs. Hooper is aware of them. And yes, she was looking for sympathy. If your DH was seriously hurt in a car accident and you came on here looking for T&Ps, how would you feel if someone said, "Well, them's the risks of driving, he should have known". Or accused you of asking for a pity party? FFS, have some compassion!
People are rude and while it's an open blog those comments were NOT necessary and very hurtful!
It makes me so angry that there are people in the world that are like this. I'm sorry that you had to read comments like that, know that these people are wrong and completely ignorant. I haven't been following you blog but I read your initial post when you heard the news and that really touched my heart and I hope that you know my thoughts and prayers are with you, Mason and you're family. You are an amazing women and Mason is a blessing and will be loved no matter what anyone says. Stay strong.
Just started reading your blog. Please take comfort in knowing that your son will have more ability to love freely and show compassion than those posters (or that poster if it was indeed one sad, pathetic individual) obviously ever will.
Putting your family in our prayers.
Mama of 2: one who grew in my womb, both who grow in my heart.
Like it or not, this is how people raise their children to behave, and the society we live in.
I personally will never be a blogger. Putting my business out there like that just isn't my style.
Granted, that's not how all people feel, but when you put yourself out there, you are allowing for people to make nasty remarks and judge you.
The world is a better place when people think differently and have differing opinions, but it's not better when people are cruel about the way they present them.
This person clearly was just out to rattle your cage, and they succeeded or you wouldn't have drawn more attention to it by posting it here.
Way to be helpful
I blog to express my feelings.. Not to be attacked by harsh comments.
In the old days we called that a diary and we kept them private.
Like I said, if you do it in a public forum, expect this to happen.
Helpful or not, It's the reality of the world.
Or maybe you were just looking for a pity party so everyone could tell you how horrible it was?
just my opinion, but I think most of us come to these boards looking for support. may you keep your diary and find solace in yourself when things go seriously wrong in your life. but please don't belittle those who reach out to others. it's not appreciated.
and if you don't care whether or not your opinion is helpful or wanted, then perhaps keeping off the boards would be for the best? if you want to keep your business to yourself, I'm not sure what you're doing here.
Mama of 2: one who grew in my womb, both who grow in my heart.
Re: Mason's Blog..some comments...WOW
You know what? You are not being helpful. Of course there are risks with putting your thoughts out in public, and I am sure Mrs. Hooper is aware of them. And yes, she was looking for sympathy. If your DH was seriously hurt in a car accident and you came on here looking for T&Ps, how would you feel if someone said, "Well, them's the risks of driving, he should have known". Or accused you of asking for a pity party? FFS, have some compassion!
DD #1 born 9/07 ** DD #2 born 7/11 ** Operation Take Back My Body has begun 10/11
Upcoming Races
Gobble Wobble 5K 11/24/11 - Abington, PA 29:40
Superbowl 10K 02/05/12 - Allentown, PA 54:28 PR!!!!
Broad Street 10 Mile Run 05/06/12 - Philadelphia, PA 1:30:44
Rock and Roll Half Marathon 09/16/12 - Philadelphia, PA
Philadelphia (Half?!?) Marathon 11/18/12 - Philadelphia, PA
You are a douche canoe. STFU.
There are some very ignorant people out there. They should just remember anything can happen to their children, a car accident can cause their child to need a wheelchair for the rest of their life, would they have aborted them if they knew that was going to happen.
You and your family have a very special gift that you will love and cherish for the rest of your lives and these people will probably end up lonely and wishing they had been nicer to people.
Yep...thought it would be a great time to throw a party....geeesh! I posted this because I couldnt believe that someone would post something like that! But now I see what kind of people could write that kind of thing...people like you.
It is because of people like that, that our world is full of so much hate. Hopefully someday they will experience the miracle of children/carrying a child and regret those hateful comments/words.
Honestly I hope they burn in hell for hurting you like that....I know very un-christian of me but I am hormonal today.
They are SCUM!
There really is no words for that. I dare someone to say that to your face. Like a PP said, people are so brave behind their computers. I'm sorry you have to deal with stupid.
Mason is a miracle.
The nerve of some people!!!
It's that type of person that just enforces one of my favorite sayings, "What goes around, comes around and I'll pay good money to be there when it comes around to bite you in the..."
TOTALLY AGREE! GO AWAY JERK
That is absolutely disgusting. Some people just have no empathy in their cold heart. That person is pure evil in my opinion. World would be better without THAT person. He/she is probably miserable and has nothing better to do but try to make others feel the same.
There is absolutely no excuse for the comments that person left, that's bs. Obviously there are some b*tches on here also who have trouble empathizing with people. "It's the reality of the world". Ya, tell that to someone who is raped, murdered, suffering from cancer, lost a child, etc.
People are horrible and I'm so sorry that you've even had to read those things. I'm going to guess that the people that wrote those things know little to nothing about Down syndrome. I mean, 40 years ago people thought children with Down syndrome were "mongoloids!" But anyone person with any experience with a children with Down syndrome knows the truth.
My cousin has Down syndrome, and he is amazing. He was born early, with a hole in his heart. But now he's 13. I honestly think he's one of the smartest kids I know. He has an absolutely amazing memory for music. He's so happy-go-lucky and loves family so much. He's just like any other child. He just doesn't learn as quickly as other kids. But all kids learn at a different pace anyway! How boring would it be if every kid was the same?!
I'm going to be honest, I'm not a huge follower of your blog but I have read Mason's story. And although I have never been in your situation and have no experience raising a child, I hope my saying this is not uncalled for: when Mason is born and as you raise you, he will be a wonderful blessing for you and wonderful addition to your family.
Hi I stumbled across your post, it has saddened me I cant even imagine how you and your family feel.
I took a brief look at your blog, and I wasnt able to get past your very first entry as I started tearing up reading your experience from the u/s. I want to read it, but I do feel like it will take me some time to get thru it.
Either way your family is blessed, and little Mason is so loved already. Keep strong, stay healthy do not let these internet trolls bring you down.
I am so sorry that you had to be on the receiving end of such foolishness. All we can do is pray for them (along with Mason).
You really suck.
DD born 07/2011 DD due 11/18/2013
UNBELIEVABLE!!!!! Stay strong, you are an amazing woman with an amazing family. Many people are not as strong as you are and they should be ashamed! Feel lucky that you don't have to go through life with their AWFUL disposition on life.
I am so sorry - that is just so unbelievable. How horrible!
People are rude and while it's an open blog those comments were NOT necessary and very hurtful!
Just started reading your blog. Please take comfort in knowing that your son will have more ability to love freely and show compassion than those posters (or that poster if it was indeed one sad, pathetic individual) obviously ever will.
Putting your family in our prayers.
just my opinion, but I think most of us come to these boards looking for support. may you keep your diary and find solace in yourself when things go seriously wrong in your life. but please don't belittle those who reach out to others. it's not appreciated.
and if you don't care whether or not your opinion is helpful or wanted, then perhaps keeping off the boards would be for the best? if you want to keep your business to yourself, I'm not sure what you're doing here.