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My heart is singing with joy

The hospital priest just stopped by. I told him how I felt Quincy gave up his life so that I might live and his sisters needed their mommy more than him so he sacrificed himself for us. He compared my son to Jesus! I was blown away. What an honor to have him as my son and what a faith filled little boy! We are truly blessed to have him in our family forever. I hope this doesn't offend anyone but it really makes me happy to share this.
Momma to 2 sweet girls here on earth and a precious baby boy in heaven
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  • Share anything you'd like to panda.  I am glad your priest was such a comfort to you tonight.
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  • No offense taken here. I think it is a great comparison as your son gave himself so that you can be here for his daddy and his sisters. There is no better gift. Continued T&P for you.
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  • What a beautiful thought...I love that.

    (((Hugs)))

     

  • I am thrilled that the priest was able to bring you a sense of peace and joy about your sweet boy. He is a true hero and you and your girls have a guardian angel for life.
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  • I don't think you would offend anyone. That's absolutely beautiful. I'm also happy the priest was able to give you some comfort. You, Quincy, and your family continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
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  • I couldn't agree more! So proud of your little guy... I have been thinking about you all day. Continued prayers...
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  • I am amazed by you, your strength and your willingness to share these precious moments with us. Thank you. I think it's wonderful that you had conversation with the priest. I believe you are right about your son!
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  • Those words must have been music to your ears...I'm so glad he was able to bring you joy.  I think it is a wonderful sentiment.  Thinking of you, panda.
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    LO #1 - 1 unmedicated/self-monitored IUI w/ donor sperm.
    LO #2 - 1 m/c, 2 BFNs, 4th IUI worked (unmedicated/self-monitored with new donor sperm).
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  • Your faith and heart are amazing!  Continued prayers coming your way.
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  • How beautifully touching.  I'm so thankful you had a visit that left you smiling.  Thinking of you.
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  • What a beautiful comparison, and it's true. Your strength is admirable.
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  • What a beautiful sentiment. Your Quincy was an amazing little guy.
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  • What a beautiful (and true) statement. Your strength amazes me.

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  • I am so glad that you were able to get some comfort from your priest.  I am thinking about you.
  • Your faith is so inspiring! What a beautiful and perfect comparison....And now I'm crying again. I wish I could scoop you up in the biggest hug right now.
  • That is so beautiful. I'm glad you found some comfort tonight.
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  • That is so comforting.  I'm glad you are finding peace in this difficult time. 
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  • imageTheSkimmy:
    I am amazed by you, your strength and your willingness to share these precious moments with us. Thank you. I think it's wonderful that you had conversation with the priest. I believe you are right about your son!
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  • How wonderful that your priest could help you find comfort in such a sad sad situation. I think he's right. You were truly blessed with an angel. May your baby boy be soaring with his wings tonight. I am so truly sorry for your loss and prayers to your family.

  • No offense at all. I am so glad you found some comfort. Continued prayers.
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  • I am actually crying tears of joy right now!  You are amazing!
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    After 21 cycles, and severe MFI, we finally did it with IVF #1 w/ICSI! Nico arrived 12/3/08!!!
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    IUI #2 1/10/11-BFN; IUI #3 2/18/11-BFN
    IVF #4 w/ICSI & PICSI ER 5/13/11, ET 5/1/118-BFP!! Natalee arrived on 1/23/12!!!!

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  • Sending so much love to you!  You are an amazing example of strength.
    Years of trying and treatment, IVF#1 brought us our darling C!
  • Thank you for sharing that. What a beautiful thought in the midst of this tragedy! I am so happy that your conversation with the priest brought you such warmth, comfort and peace. (((hugs)))
  • This post has brought me to tears. How wonderful for you to find such joy in a time like this, and what an amazing little boy you have. He truly is a blessing, and I know that he can feel the love you guys have for him. Thank you so much for sharing this with us.
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  • You have an amazing way of looking at things, and I'm so happy your priest confirmed your feelings. Don't ever worry about offending us with what you are thinking. I think we all feel honored that your are sharing so much with us. Huge hugs coming your way!

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  • What a peaceful and joyful thing for you to be able to hold on to.....I'm smiling for you right now....
  • I am SO thankful that the priest was able to give you such comfort at a time like this...what amazing words...so many continued prayers with you and your family 
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  • You share whatever you want! I am so glad the priest was able to bring you some comfort and happiness. It is a truly remarkable gift that your son gave you.
    IUI # 1 on 1/19, Beta 2/1 = BFN, Hysteroscopy on 2/15= 5 polyps removed, and cervix cleared, IUI #2 on 4/15 = BFP, Beta#1 on 4/30 @ 15 dpiui= 279, Beta #2 on 5/9 @24dpiui = 10,154, U/S on 8/5 = TWO GIRLS! Born 10/16 at 28 weeks. Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • imagemrsolsenk12:
    No offense taken here. I think it is a great comparison as your son gave himself so that you can be here for his daddy and his sisters. There is no better gift. Continued T&P for you.

    This. 

    (((HUGS)))

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  • You are an amazing lady.
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    IVF #2 = BFP - Betas 194 (14dp2dt), 366 (16 dp2dt), 841 (18 dp2dt)
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  • please feel free to share anything and everything that you like with us.

    what a wonderful thing for the priest to say--what an honor for your little boy. 

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  • I can't imagine how your joy could possibly offend anyone, honey.  That's an amazing way to look at things.  I'm still praying for you and your family.
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  • You just continue to amaze me.
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  • What a wonderful wonderful beautiful thing to share with you. Wow. I am so sorry about your loss, I just am now catching up. Sending lots of love your way.
  • This is a beautiful thought and I'm so glad it brings you comfort during this difficult time.  Quincy is in my prayers.  
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  • Angel Baby Quincy is getting so much love right now!!!  We're all sending him wonderful thoughts and I'm sure he's smiling over you!
  • I'm so glad you got some comfort from your priest.  Quincy left a legacy!
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  • I'm glad your priest was able to bring you some joy and peace.  Thinking of you.
  • imageLucyPevensie:
    Share anything you'd like to panda.  I am glad your priest was such a comfort to you tonight.

    Ditto - God blss that little guy & your family. :)

  • God bless you and your family! I'm praying that He will continue to give you peace and comfort.
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