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Pretty sure I have the worst SIL alive (pregnancy mentioned)

She keeps tagging me in her picture of her damn pee stick! WTF!!! ARE YOU KIDDING ME? (yes caps were needed) If I wanted to be in the darn picture I would of put my face next to it and smiled! I don't think it would be rude to block or un-friend her at this point.

 

::::Grabs the bottle of wine and heads for the bath::::: 


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Re: Pretty sure I have the worst SIL alive (pregnancy mentioned)

  • Eep. I'd hide her...but that's me.
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  • ((hugs)) that's ridiculous
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    She keeps tagging me in her picture of her damn pee stick! WTF!!! ARE YOU KIDDING ME? (yes caps were needed) If I wanted to be in the darn picture I would of put my face next to it and smiled! I don't think it would be rude to block or un-friend her at this point.

     

    ::::Grabs the bottle of wine and heads for the bath::::: 

    seriously, I think some people just lose their minds when they get pregnant. WHY would she post a pee stick anyway? I'd probably write "dude, the pee's still wet"
  • Oh wow. That sucks. She sucks. I can't believe that.

    And you made me laugh with "if I wanted to be in the damn picture I would have put my face next to it and smiled!"

    Enjoy your wine and bath, you deserve it. 

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  • Why the F*CK (again caps were necessary)would she do that!?!?!? I would like to punch her in the face for you. That is so rude! Im so sorry ((hugs))
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  • Wait, you've untagged yourself and she keeps retagging you?  How dense is this girl?

    I'm sorry she's so insensitive.  ((Hugs))  Wine sounds like a great idea. Smile  Enjoy!

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  • Seriously!  What an a$$! 

    I would untag myself and talk to her personally. Does she already have that PG brain where she forgets everything? Including the fact that you had a loss!? 

    Sorry you have to deal with that.

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    Seriously!  What an a$$! 

    I would untag myself and talk to her personally. Does she already have that PG brain where she forgets everything? Including the fact that you had a loss!? 

    Sorry you have to deal with that.

    Even if she forgot you had a loss, why would you tag ANYONE on your pee stick picture. I mean why post a pee stick on facebook anyway? Was this her clever way of telling everyone? "Why am I tagged in a photo of a pee stick? OMG SIL is preggers! YAY!" Ick!

    What are people thinking?!
     

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  • Even if I had not had a loss, I'd be kinda grossed out by being tagged in a picture of something that someone peed on.
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  • Yep...she had lost her mind!!!  What a B!!!  She definitely needs to be hidden.

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  • Why would she tag you?? Weird and annoying.
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    Wait, you've untagged yourself and she keeps retagging you?  How dense is this girl?

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  • yes she is an idiot! I would love to call her up right now and lay into her. Luckly for her she & her husband & IL's are all in Russia right now. We only have email, facebook & skyp to get ahold of them. Needless to say I think blocking her should help for now. 

    This just made my good day awful.  I really think she is in the i love drama stage. She just turned 20 a couple weeks ago. 


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    imagePachita:

    Seriously!  What an a$$! 

    I would untag myself and talk to her personally. Does she already have that PG brain where she forgets everything? Including the fact that you had a loss!? 

    Sorry you have to deal with that.

    Even if she forgot you had a loss, why would you tag ANYONE on your pee stick picture. I mean why post a pee stick on facebook anyway? Was this her clever way of telling everyone? "Why am I tagged in a photo of a pee stick? OMG SIL is preggers! YAY!" Ick!

     

    No she didnt forget. She knows all about it. Still makes comments about it. And i guess its the cool thing to do. pee on a stick and post it. I wont be following that trend anytime soon.  

    What are people thinking?!
     


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  • I am sorry, that is crappy...((HUGS))
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  • aww.. Im so sorry ((HUGS))
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  • What a big ol B!  And who posts pictures of that on FB?  Eww!  She sounds really young and immature.  I'm sorry!
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  • I would definitely hide her!! What a no good, not nice thing to do!! Like everyone else said why in the world would you post a picture of a pee stick! that's gross, who cares if your pg that much that they would want to see that. Sorry she's so dense!
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  • Untag yourself in the photo and hide her.

    Did she know of your loss?

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  • Hold on - she posted her pee stick on Facebook? Are you serious? I think I need to go back and read that again. And then she tagged you? Wow. What an idiot.

    I'm so sorry you have to be related to someone like that.

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  • It's a little soon after your m/c to be rubbing her pee stick in your face.  Why does she need to tag you in her pic of her pee stick anyway?

    Sorry, but she must be a complete dumb twatwaffle fvckhead... WTF is she thinking??

    Sorry hunny (((Hugs)))

    Idea: Take a pic of some dog poop and tag her in it.  Maybe she'll get the hint.


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    Untag yourself in the photo and hide her.

    Did she know of your loss?

    This. ((hugs)) Your SIL sounds like a giant turd.

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    It's a little soon after your m/c to be rubbing her pee stick in your face.  Why does she need to tag you in her pic of her pee stick anyway?

    Sorry, but she must be a complete dumb twatwaffle fvckhead... WTF is she thinking??

    Sorry hunny (((Hugs)))

    Idea: Take a pic of some dog poop and tag her in it.  Maybe she'll get the hint.

    Now that's a good idea!!

    I like it too!  Your SIL sounds like a total weirdo.  And completely insensitive.

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  • I'm so sorry.  That is ridiculous and beyond insensitive.  I would untag yourself, hide her and then email her telling her that you don't appreciate her tagging you. 

    Enjoy your bath and wine.  You definitely deserve it.

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  • I just have to remember I married my husband not his family right now.

    Her response was "i just thought you would want to be included in knowing whats going on with my life"

    Gee thanks.

     


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  • Wow. I just keep thinking of mean immature ways to retaliate. Like posting a picture a flaming pile of sh*t and tagging her repeatedly. I told you it was immature.

    I am not in my usual state of mind though either. I would definitely un-friend her though.  She at least deserves that.

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  • People are crazy.  I am sorry that she is doing that. 
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  • imageMuffinhb:

    She keeps tagging me in her picture of her damn pee stick! WTF!!! ARE YOU KIDDING ME? (yes caps were needed) If I wanted to be in the darn picture I would of put my face next to it and smiled! I don't think it would be rude to block or un-friend her at this point.

     

    ::::Grabs the bottle of wine and heads for the bath::::: 

     

     

    Wowo and I thought my SIL was a biotch? But mine only tried to talk my DH out of marring me 10 day before our wedding. You should unfriend her on FB and say something to your DH, that would just send me over the edge!!! Big Hug!!!

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    Wow. I just keep thinking of mean immature ways to retaliate. Like posting a picture a flaming pile of sh*t and tagging her repeatedly. I told you it was immature.

    I am not in my usual state of mind though either. I would definitely un-friend her though.  She at least deserves that.

    I have the urge to TP her house since she is gone till the end of the month. Trying to reframe from that is hard right now. 


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    imageMuffinhb:

    She keeps tagging me in her picture of her damn pee stick! WTF!!! ARE YOU KIDDING ME? (yes caps were needed) If I wanted to be in the darn picture I would of put my face next to it and smiled! I don't think it would be rude to block or un-friend her at this point.

     

    ::::Grabs the bottle of wine and heads for the bath::::: 

     

     

    Wowo and I thought my SIL was a biotch? But mine only tried to talk my DH out of marring me 10 day before our wedding. You should unfriend her on FB and say something to your DH, that would just send me over the edge!!! Big Hug!!!

     

    Oh my word I cant believe she did that! Maybe they know each other some how? 


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  • that is just ridiculous. i'm sorry you have to be going through this. you def. deserve a glass of wine!
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  • That's just wrong.  I'm sorry you had to go through that.  I'd hide her and have a little talk with her.  Some people just don't think before doing stuff on FB. ((Hugs))
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  • Wow!!! That is just weird and so rude! I'm sorry!

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  • ICK!  Definitely block her!  I'm so sorry.
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  • I am still trying to comprehend someone posting a picture on FB of a pee stick.  That is sick to me and then tagging someone who didn't even pee on the stick....that is just effed up and disgusting.  I am sorry you married into that.

    But then I saw you posted that she just turned 20 so that explains ALOT!! 

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  • Wow! That's just lousy!

     I would totally hide her from my feed at a minimum.

     Sorry for this latest challenge.

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  • imageMuffinhb:

    I just have to remember I married my husband not his family right now.

    Her response was "i just thought you would want to be included in knowing whats going on with my life"

    Gee thanks.

     

    Didn't she also come over with the pee stick just days after your loss?  She's a real piece of work.  I wouldn't block her; I'd delete her.  Your MIL may say you aren't being loving enough or something again... UGH!  I want to punch your SIL and MIL for you.  They are a special kind of stupid and insensitive.  Big, huge ((hugs)) to you.  Sorry you're dealing with that.

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  • Yes Ambs that would be the same SIL. She is a sweety huh?

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  • Wait- she posted that pic on FB?  Ew to begin with, and super-ew for tagging you.  Why would you tag someone who's not in a picture to begin with, except to AW?
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