TTC After a Loss

finally making the step to get help

So after talking with my PCP and OB I have decided to start prozac.  They both assured me it was safe but I am still nervous taking it when we start TTC.  I am going to start on a low dose and hopefully not need any increase.  I am going on Monday to meet with a counselor who deals with PPD, which I am hoping will help too.  I am just having a hard time accepting this loss and each week it seems to get worse.  I keep thinking "well if I was just pregnant again I would feel better" but I don't think or know if that is the right way to go about all of this.  I think I need to get better first before we try again.  I just pray it gets better.

Thank you for listening/reading! 

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Re: finally making the step to get help

  • Its wonderful that you are taking the time to take care of yourself.  I really hope the meds help you to get through this hard time.  :: hugs ::
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  • I think it's great that you took that step.  Good luck!
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  • Good for you taking the steps you need to feel better.  Starting anti-depressants is a hard decision for some people.  I hope Prozac works for you.  If it doesn't, remember there are a lot of other medications you and your Dr can try.  GL!
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  • Asking for help is the first step to healing. You did the right thing. I hope things get better for you soon.
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  • Getting treatment is definitely a step in the right direction.  I hope that it's very successful and you start feeling better soon!  ((HUGS))

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  • I had a form of PPD after DD was born called PP Anxiety Disorder...I dealt more with anxiety than depression but I waited until DD was 14 months old to do anything about it.  I went on a low dose of Celexa and within 9 months I weaned off and my hormone levels were back to normal.  I think you've made a good move and I will keep you in my T&Ps!!
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  • I'm so glad you're taking care of you! ((hugs))
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  • debating doing the same thing right now....i think that i just need a little something to help take the edge off of this. good luck

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  • Thats great. I'm glad you're taking time to take care of yourself. :::HUGS:::

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  • Good for your for taking that step.  FWIW, I too feel like nothing will make this better until I get pregnant again, so I can relate to that feeling.
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  • Hey Buddy! I am glad you are taking care of yourself and hoping and praying it helps you! I just sent you a msg before I read this, and I am heading out now. But I'll be back tonight if you want to talk, you know how to find me :)
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  • (((((hugs)))))) I'm so happy you made that step Laura! I know how scary it is. I just recently went on Zoloft and it was a really difficult decision for me. I can't tell you how amazing I feel now though. I hope the same for you. If you ever need to talk I'm here for you!
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    Asking for help is the first step to healing. You did the right thing. I hope things get better for you soon.

    This.  (((hugs)))

  • I'm proud of you for realizing you needed a little help.  I hope the meds start to work quickly for you.  ((hugs))

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  • I'm glad you're doing this.  You need to take care of you first.  ((Hugs))
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  • That is great that you are taking steps and action towards feeling better. I hope it works for you! Hugs.
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  • It takes a strong person to take the steps forward in order to feel better.  I am so happy for your.  If there is anything that we can do to help, just let us know.

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  • Good for you for trying to take care of yourself and having the courage to seek help.  I hope it works out for you!
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  • I'm glad you are looking out for yourself and taking steps to make yourself feel better.  I hope that the meds and the counseling do the trick.

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  • Oh ladies, seeing all your responses means so much to me.  THANK YOU all for your support and words of encouragment.  I wish my IRL friends were this supportive.  I love this board so much because of you all.  I know I am not alone.  Hugs to all of you too!!!
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  • It is so great that you are taking steps to help yourself feel better....I hope that talking to a counsler and with the medication, you are able to feel better.  ((HUGS))
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  • I am so glad you are getting help. Depression should be taken very seriously. I hope the medication and the counseling helps.
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  • Good Luck, its so hard to get it together again, glad you are taking care of yourself.
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  • I think it's great that you've taken this step for yourself.  It's really hard to do.  I think it's great you're meeting with a counselor as well.  I have been seeing a therapist for several years now and it has been a tremendous support through my losses.  (((hugs)))


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  • Good for you, for taking care of yourself. I hope this helps. You deserve to be happy. (((HUGS))))
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  • I hope the medication helps.  (((Hugs)))
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