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I totally called it!!

Way back on December 19th, a friend on FB wrote something... I made a post about it here: http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/46777626.aspx

Well... she came out that indeed she is pregnant and due September 3rd... meaning, she would have found out about the time she made that post.

I am happy for her. I grew up with her DH and worked with her in the summer. BUT. Even her husband has the ultrasound picture as his profile picture. Ugh. Someone shoot me now. I see some future hiding!

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Re: I totally called it!!

  • Bleh....it is never ending.  Every time I think I know who is "at risk", someone else pops up.  Heck, a FB friend just posted a birth announcement and I didn't even know she was pregnant....I guess it's better that way? :)

    Another friend posted a black and white picture of her kitten and I only saw half of it and I thought it was an ultrasound picture and I was like W. T. H. 

    I am happy for my friends, truly...because one day it WILL be us in their shoes...but for now, it's just like a little stab in the heart and reminder of my m/c, etc.

    Here for ya, girl.

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  • I hate FB for that very reason, everybody and their college roommates best friends cousin seems to end up on my FB page telling me they are KTFU 5 seconds after they have peed on the freaking stick

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  • i'm sorry...but it sounds like your heart is in the right place for them!  Maybe in a few days you'll have some good news of your own!!!

    {{hugs}} 

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  • Ugh. I hate being right in ways like that. Good for them for being pregnant, but now they can STFU about it. Sorry Cashew. I can't wait until you have the chance to write obnoxious pregnancy statuses on facebook- though I know you won't. 
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    Hysteroscopy Oct '13, not enough progress 
    Hysteroscopy Jan '14, given an end-of-the-road diagnosis
    Joined International Asherman's Association April '14 
    Not ready to give up yet.
    Hysteroscopy with Dr. Isaacson (an expert in the USA) 6.2.14: Good prognosis, at least 50% of cavity open.
    Repeat hysteroscopy scheduled with Dr. I on 6.16.14. Great progress. Unbenched!!!!
    Discussing actively TTC with DH after the heartache of the last year. We're both reeling.
     
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    i'm sorry...but it sounds like your heart is in the right place for them!  Maybe in a few days you'll have some good news of your own!!!

    {{hugs}} 

    This. You've got a lot of people thinking & praying about you, Cashews!

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    I am happy for my friends, truly...because one day it WILL be us in their shoes...but for now, it's just like a little stab in the heart and reminder of my m/c, etc.

     This...But It def sucks.

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  • Yeah I feel like everyday I go on facebook, I either have to read a PG status update or see an ultrasound pic.  That's why I have hid a few people on facebook!  That's also why I am on this board now more than facebook!!
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  • Ergh.  You are wise Cashew.  I hope she has a H&H 9 mos - but that still doesn't take the sting out of it.  I would hide her (and her husband) ASAP.

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  • I would hide her and her DH right away to avoid pg updates.
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    Ugh. I hate being right in ways like that. Good for them for being pregnant, but now they can STFU about it. Sorry Cashew. I can't wait until you have the chance to write obnoxious pregnancy statuses on facebook- though I know you won't. 

    You're so right. I won't. I'll be the one where you'll get the birth announcement.... that is it. I might throw some hints up there, but untelling on FB was the hardest part.


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    image MrsAtch:
    Ugh. I hate being right in ways like that. Good for them for being pregnant, but now they can STFU about it. Sorry Cashew. I can't wait until you have the chance to write obnoxious pregnancy statuses on facebook- though I know you won't. 

    You're so right. I won't. I'll be the one where you'll get the birth announcement.... that is it. I might throw some hints up there, but untelling on FB was the hardest part.

    Agreed. Especially because not everyone saw the first post- so I was still getting all of the pregnancy questions etc. I had to post about our loss twice and still got pg comments afterwards. People can be really dumb sometimes.  

    After two losses, a rainbow arrived! DD born 11.5.11
    Dx with severe Asherman's syndrome after a botched PP D&C (pursuing med mal)
    Hysteroscopy Oct '13, not enough progress 
    Hysteroscopy Jan '14, given an end-of-the-road diagnosis
    Joined International Asherman's Association April '14 
    Not ready to give up yet.
    Hysteroscopy with Dr. Isaacson (an expert in the USA) 6.2.14: Good prognosis, at least 50% of cavity open.
    Repeat hysteroscopy scheduled with Dr. I on 6.16.14. Great progress. Unbenched!!!!
    Discussing actively TTC with DH after the heartache of the last year. We're both reeling.
     
    Please, please, please. 
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    image MrsAtch:
    Ugh. I hate being right in ways like that. Good for them for being pregnant, but now they can STFU about it. Sorry Cashew. I can't wait until you have the chance to write obnoxious pregnancy statuses on facebook- though I know you won't. 

    You're so right. I won't. I'll be the one where you'll get the birth announcement.... that is it. I might throw some hints up there, but untelling on FB was the hardest part.

    Agreed. Especially because not everyone saw the first post- so I was still getting all of the pregnancy questions etc. I had to post about our loss twice and still got pg comments afterwards. People can be really dumb sometimes.  

    Everyone knew with me. Unless they hid under a rock. I was a stupid FH who's every post was about being pregnant and being tired, and painting the room and so on. I don't think I ever had u/s pics as my profile pic though.


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  • You did call it!  She needs to be hidden!

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    image MrsAtch:
    Ugh. I hate being right in ways like that. Good for them for being pregnant, but now they can STFU about it. Sorry Cashew. I can't wait until you have the chance to write obnoxious pregnancy statuses on facebook- though I know you won't. 

    You're so right. I won't. I'll be the one where you'll get the birth announcement.... that is it. I might throw some hints up there, but untelling on FB was the hardest part.

    Next time around I am not telling anyone! FB WAS the hardest to untell.

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  • BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!  I'm sorry chica!  Here's to hoping this LP doesn't end for 9 months for you!
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  • I remember when you posted this!  Good call! 

    Yeah, if you need to hide her, go ahead. 

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    Yeah I feel like everyday I go on facebook, I either have to read a PG status update or see an ultrasound pic.  That's why I have hid a few people on facebook!  That's also why I am on this board now more than facebook!!

    This exactly.

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