I had my son a little over a month ago and I don't feel like I've bonded with him the way I should. I'm a SAHM right now so I spend lots of time with him, but sometimes I feel like he's not really mine. (does that make sense?) It's weird, I love him very much and don't feel sad or anything like that. And H doesn't understand when I try to talk to him about it. =( Is this normal?
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I am glad you will speak up about it. At my 6 week PP check, I lied on my questionnaire for fear of being judged. And I just didn't want to admit to myself that I had a problem. Here I am 8 months later with an official diagnosis. You are doing the right thing. Good luck to you!
my PPD was I was so moody and irritable, nothing soothed or satisified me and I was a major biiitch to DH. I did not want to work, all I wanted to do was stay home and sleep with DS.
everyone is different, if you think you have PPD, talk to your dr.
fwiw, I wasn't diagnosed with PPD until DS was 10 months old...that's when I started feeling like craaaaap. It wasn't until DS was about 3 months old that I started bonding. At that age, they don't really do much, just sleep, bathroom, and eat. It's quite boring.
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Im glad you are getting help also. The more I talk about it with other moms and support groups, the better I feel. I'm starting to connect more with LO and not feeling so alone or guilty for feeling this way. H is starting to be more understanding as well.