My DD ( almost 13 mon.) is comforted by the bottle of 1/2 milk and 1/2 formula in the AM when she wakes and then at night b4 going to sleep. Ped made it sound like he wanted her off the bootle this month. I forgot to ask then and there---if there would be anything wrong w. con't w/ my present routine (of bottle).
Re: the harm in con't w. bottle?
We did a bottle until about 18 months. She's 2.5 now and there has been no problem. I don't think she remembers using one, never wants one even when she sees DS with it. She pretty much self weaned, and that was fine.
peds don't know everything. Different things work for different kids. Do what feels right for your DD.