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anyone else taking a 'snow day'
I am and I don't plan on getting out of my sweats all day 
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Re: anyone else taking a 'snow day'
::Raises Hand:: There's already 2 inches at work and I'm not driving 52 miles to take 1/2 day when the second storm blows in.
I am snuggled by the fire with the kitties and loving it.
Since your taking a snow day shouldn't you be heading over to m/c pg loss board and deleating your post?? Then when your done with that maybe spend some time writing up an apology to those ladies?
OMG what are you stalking me? It was a simple error in posting and I thought that group of all people might have some sympathy or empathy for my concerns! You have some issues.
Ya okay "coco" - Why dont you stop being such a B!tch and smarten up. Go apologize and be done with it.
Who is going to have sympathy or empanthy for your concerns when you wont even own up to your own stupidity? Ya you made a mistake but you wont go delete your post or apologize. Grow up.
BC IT WAS A MISTAKE IN POSTING! I am new hence the 'newbie' status I didn't realize how many different categories there are and that there was even a PGAL category. If anyone is being a b**** it's you sweetheart, I'm not the one calling people names and following me around thebump picking a fight. If you paid attention you would see that I deleted that post awhile ago bc I didn't mean to cause such an uproar. If you get this upset over a simple mistake I'd hate to see what you would do over something major. Get some therapy you clearly need it.
Why would they have sympanty on you?? I mean seriously are you even thinking??
You posted on the Pregnancy loss board asking them what your chances of losing your baby would be.. Right after you post about how you heard the heartbeat. Are you freaking out of your mind?
If anything you should feel ashamed and dumb for even thinking of going over to a place where people lost their children, some recent and asking if you think your's will be ok.
:::Facepalm::
LOL this is just funny at this point how much I keep defending myself over AN ERROR IN POSTING. Why would I not ask women who have experience with pregnancy loss about the statistics? They would be the most likely to know I would think, over a group who has no experience whatsoever with loss. I have experience with a complete miscarriage early on, but none whatsoever with missed mc which is what I was concerned about, and was hoping someone could give me more concrete answers on that! Apparently I was wrong, I won't be back on that board ever trust me, they are the most rude bitter people I have come across.
1. People apologize for mistakes if they are sorry.
2. If you can't figure out there is a Pregnant After A Loss board in the time it takes to rack up 200+ posts, maybe this isn't the website for you. You aren't that new so don't even try to use that as an excuse.
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
Let me ask you...when you had your loss, as you said you did...would it have helped your mourning process for a pregnant woman with a healthy pregnancy to ask you about what she's going through? Not only can the women on mc/pl not relate to what you're going through, because your baby is healthy, but you're just rubbing it in. Would you go to someone else's funeral and tell the family you're worried you might be sick?
Honestly, Coco, you're just coming across as crazy. And if you feel like people are "stalking" you, maybe you should think about why what you said would have them shaken up like that.
Hehe, aren't you just trying all the boards on for size today?
I notice you can't be bothered to a) apologize for upsetting people and b) then calling the people you upset "rude" because they called you on it.
May I suggest your next board visit be to Baby Gaga?
You want satistics.. I gave birth at 23 weeks. Both my children are dead.
You are never safe in pregnancy.. NEVER. I had a friend 2 weeks ago lose her son at 40 weeks. I've had friends lose them at 10 weeks. I also had a friend who lost her son to Sids.
Is that what you wanted to hear? Did you really want a bunch of people telling you that your children might die? I mean common sense. Internet strangers can not tell you what your chances are. Your doctor can, and if you were that concerned they are a phone call away.
Actually when I had my miscarriage I worked with 3 girls who were also pregnant and went on to have healthy babies within 2 months of each other. I attended all of their baby showers and they were great helps to me, and I was encouraged by them especially one who had had recurrent miscarriages so no they did not bother me at all. I hope that following me around and posting on other posts that have nothing to do with the topic and bullying me does to make you feel better. Like I said you aren't good people.
Yes after the mod had to edit it because you left it there overnight.
I hope that following me around and posting on other posts that have nothing to do with the topic and bullying me does to make you feel better. Like I said you aren't good people.
Uhm, hang on. You're aware that some of us are in our second trimester, and therefore have as much right to be here as you do? I'm not sure what kind of bubble you live in, but I sincerely hope that you manage to pull your head out of your @ss sometime soon. It can't be comfortable.
It also must be nice to know someone IRL who went through a similar situation. The girls on MC/PL often do not have IRL people they can talk to, so when you come on that board, you're barging into a safe haven--a place where they get comfort and relate to others who have had a similar experience and thoughts/feelings.
I was still bleeding from my miscarriage when I attended my SIL's baby shower. It was only 3 days after I was told I no longer had a viable pregnancy. Don't lecture ME about being a "good" person. Of course, it's a lot easier to judge others when you're no longer in that situation. And while we're on that topic, does judging others who are grieving the loss of their babies make you a good person?
Oh absolutely please point out where I said you have no right to be here? That's right bc I never said or implied that I simply suggested that you find more to do with your day than acting like a 15 yr old and ganging up on someone else.
You implied that people are 'stalking you'. It's not stalking if we're regularly on this board.
I've actually been pretty nice to you, even though you don't really deserve it. You suck as a human being. Have fun on your snow day!
So is selfishness and insensitivity.
1. If the link is there and people are choosing to "attack" you, it's on their own accord and because they decided what you said is an issue. And actually, it's not even so much what you said as the fact that you continue to defend it. That's the bigger issue.
2. You posted about your pregnancy worries on MC/PL. Do you think people care what you think is mature?
*So proud and so lucky to be the mommy of two beautiful little girls
and one handsome little man*
RJ~5.17.2005~born @ 37w due to IUGR~4lbs 15ozs
Al~4.5.2008~born big and healthy @ 38w~7lbs 9.5ozs
Lil man~5.20.2011~born big and healthy @ 39w (after one he!! of a pregnancy)~8lbs 1oz
Just tell me why you cant just admit your wrong suck it up and go apologize..
Is it really that hard??? Here I'll help you to start your apology.
I called them that bc they won't let a stupid post I put in the wrong category go and are creating links from other categories to harass me, if that's not a little psycho and rude I don't know what is.
You know I was going to apologize until I started getting called a b**** and everything else you all felt it necessary to say. There is a much nicer way to tell someone they were wrong than to result to bar room style insults. And to the women who did express their feelings in a mature adult manner I am sorry, but not to people like you.
First off...When I asked you to apologize intially I did not call you any name what so ever. You insisted on calling me a stalker and whatever the hell else and thats when the name calling began..
Secondly... As mentioned before we are a tight knit group. I dont give a flying rats @ss if you dont want to apologize to me or not. Its those other poor girls that you made read your stupid insensitive post.
Oh I wish I had the original post now so I could copy all the names I was called. I am so happy you are a tight group and support each other, maybe you should stick with them instead of egging on such negativity.
Coco, take my advice and stop trying to defend your actions. You made a mistake. OWN THAT SH!T.
FFS.
Umm I have posted a few times now that I realize it was a mistake, and that I posted in the wrong category.
That's funny b/c I've been lurking this morning and all I see from you are excuses.
Whatever. You've pissed enough people off for one day. More advice....find the red x and walk away.
this. i was planning on going in for a few hours, because it was supposed to start as rain, but it's been snowing pretty steadily here since before 8 am, and we have about 4-5 inches on the ground, with a total of 12 expected before all of this is over. in previous years i would have no problem going in, trekking over a mile to public transit, but not this year. baby's safety is more important than losing a day of work.
This post on the PGAL board which is in titled " Hoping for less Rude people"
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/48310461.aspx
Was after you posted on the Loss board, than came to PGAL to b^tch about how you were run out for asking an innocent question.
And yes you didn't say your sorry to the girls you continued to say they should be happy for you, and on other boards the girls would be happy for you.
I have said that previously in this post, and I stand by what I said about ourmiscarriage.com. Please see previous posts in this same question, which BTW has nothing to do with what you all keep trying to beat to death.