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Can I ask for T&Ps?

I rarely if ever ask for it, because I think it's way overused, but I need good thoughts. I have my CVS tomorrow and I am a wreck. I can't stop Googling and I am convinced I will be getting nothing but bad news. My mind is racing between the m/c from the procedure, to the 1/145 of DS, to heart defects, to other trisomies. And to think just last week I thought the only milestone would be making it past when I lost our last bub at 16w :(

I'm not asking that you pray for good news. Whatever news is in store for us was decided at conception. I guess I am just asking for good vibes and thoughts of strength. I'm not doing well and I hate myself for it.

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Re: Can I ask for T&Ps?

  • You are absolutely in my thoughts and prayers.  I will be thinking about you tomorrow!
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  • Massive truckload amounts of good thoughts and vibes coming your way.

    Remember you have a 144/145 chance that everything is absolutely 100% totally fine.

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  • Good vibes and thoughts of strength coming your way.  And a big ((((hug)))) too.
    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
  • Sending good vibes and thoughts of strength your way.
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  • I'll be thinking of you tomorrow hon. ((hugs))
  • Sending you lots of love and vibes, hon. :::Hugs:::
  • You'll be in my thoughts.
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  • Sending you loads of hugs and prayers. I am so sorry you have to deal with this stress. You'll be in my thoughts tomorrow.
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  • Absolutely, hun!  Sending you all I have!!!  ((hugs))
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    BFP#2 - 7.22.10 DD born 3.16.11
    BFP#3 - 8.11.11 DS born 3.27.12
  • TONS of good vibes and positive energy for you today!  I'll be looking for your update!

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  • I will be thinking of you hun!

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     Ayla 10/02/2013, 10:14 am, 6lbs 14oz, 19.25 inches long
    Missed Miscarriage 6w3d 3/02/2010
    I'll hold you in my heart until I hold you in heaven
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  • I know it must be really hard not to think the worst, but I've seen too many amazing stories on here in the last two years to not have a lot of hope for you.  Hang in there, and I'll hope for great results.

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  • I am sending waves of love across the country...
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    BFP #2: 01/31/2010, Identical Twins died in utero due to TTTS, D&E 05/19/2010
    BFP #3: 09/16/2010, natural m/c 9/21/2010
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    BFP #4: 01/11/2011
  • Oh Gummy, you've never left my thoughts. I'll send extra strength vibes your way for tonight and tomorrow.

    Huge hugs.


    BFP #1 via IUI ~ L (Fatal Birth Defect) 4/7/10
    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c

    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11

    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12

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  • Sending you good thoughts and vibes!
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  • Loads of T&P's coming your way! 
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  • Huge hugs and many thoughts and prayers going out for you.  I do pray that the news is good and a relief, and that you can finally relax and enjoy this pregnancy.  It has been such a long, rocky road so far...

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    natural mc @ 10w4d 3/7/10
    DS2 born 9/13/12

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  • I'll be thinking about you and sending you good thoughts and vibes! We all want nothing but a positive outcome.
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  • lots of T&Ps!!


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    TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
    Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14

    I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929

  • Tons of T & P. Hugs.
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  • Piles of good thoughts, vibes and strength coming you way!
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  • ((Big hugs)) to you, Gummy. You can do this!
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  • you ask for as much as you need... Lots of T&P and good vibes headed your way... keeping fingers crossed that things go well.
    BFP #1 04/05/10 EDD 12/11/10 Missed M/C 7w found out at 12w5d You're so missed LO BFP #2 11/27/10 EDD 08/07/11.. Diagnosed with IC 03/17/11 Cerclage put in place 03/21/11 Madilynn Mae born 7/26/11
  • Loads and loads of good vibes headed your way.
  • Thanks guys. It is so very appreciated.
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    Rock and Roll Half Marathon 09/16/12 - Philadelphia, PA
    Philadelphia (Half?!?) Marathon 11/18/12 - Philadelphia, PA
  • Please don't hate yourself. It's perfectly understandable that you'd be having a hard time.

    Sending loads of good vibes your way. (((hugs)))

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  • Lots of thoughts and prayers for you ((((hugs))))
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  • Sending you lots of good vibes and positive thoughts. You are very much in my thoughts and prayers.
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    BFP-11/21/10 M/C-11/25/10
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  • Tons of thought and prayers coming your way sweetie.  ((Hugs))
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  • T&Ps headed your way.  
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    BFP #1 3/27/10 - mmc discovered 5/20/10 at 11w2d - d&c 5/21/10
    BFP #2 11/6/10 - EDD 7/19/11 - Beta #1 @ 13dpo, 104 - Beta #2 @ 20dpo, 3400s
    BFP #3 4/24/13 - EDD 1/8/14 - Beta #1 @ ?, 33 - Beta #2 @ 4 days later, 260
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  • Tons of positive vibes & ((BIG HUGS)).  The odds are still waaaay in your favor, but I know it's hard to focus on that.  We'll keep on pulling for fantastic results for you over here!  
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  • load and loads of good vibes for tomorrow ((big hugs))
  • Definetely thinking good thoughts and prayers for you!
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  • ((Huge hugs)) sending thoughts and prayers your way
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  • You've been and will continue to be in my prayers.
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  • You have every good vibe and wish and T&P I can muster, its all for you tomorrow {{hugs}}
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  • I will definitely be thinking of you and saying lots of prayers. 
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  • Fingers crossed. Lots of luck.
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