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An Ugly Pair of shoes poem (warning DD pics)

Verse... "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.  Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging." Psalm 46:1-3 NIV

Thought for today...  If we had no winter; the spring would not be so pleasant; if we did not sometimes taste adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome. (Anne Bradstreet) 

Video..  This is a really great video.  It is called "God's Chisel" I hope you all watch and enjoy!  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhfUzodLRvk

Poem...

An Ugly Pair of Shoes

I am wearing a pair of shoes.
They are ugly shoes.
Uncomfortable shoes.
I hate my shoes.
Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.
Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step.
Yet, I continue to wear them.
I get funny looks wearing these shoes.
They are looks of sympathy.
I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not theirs.
They never talk about my shoes.
To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable.
To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them.
But, once you put them on, you can never take them off.
I now realize that I am not the only one who wears these shoes.
There are many pairs in this world.

Some women are like me and ache daily as they try and walk in them.
Some have learned how to walk in them so they don?t hurt quite as much.
Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think about how much they hurt.
No woman deserves to wear these shoes.
Yet, because of these shoes I am a stronger woman.
These shoes have given me the strength to face anything.
They have made me who I am.
I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child.

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Re: An Ugly Pair of shoes poem (warning DD pics)

  • Oh wow, I had goosebumps reading this poem, then at the end I had tears in my eyes! It's so true...
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  • I've noticed a few of these posts from you - are you grabbing these from certain a book? The verses are always so well suited for our struggles!
  • Thank you for sharing this...
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  • imageben&tiffanyneff:
    I've noticed a few of these posts from you - are you grabbing these from certain a book? The verses are always so well suited for our struggles!

    No.  They are stuff I have compiled from here and there over the last 3 years of my loss journey.  I do have a couple books dealing with grief that I look at every once in awhile, but its mostly just stuff I have compiled...  :)

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