Was back in the ER last night-bed rest (Long-TMI-DS mentioned)

Fallon621 · January 2011

I had to be rushed to the ER last night (for the 5th time in 6 weeks) at about 10:30 because my blood turned DARK red almost black and I was having crippling cramps that felt just like the contractions I had before. I was screaming and puking for 20 mins. I could barley even talk. They kind of came from no where. I was having mild cramps during the day then when I went to put DS to bed they started getting really bad. Then I went to lay with FI till he had to get up for work and they started hurting so bad that I was making noises out of my control and shaking and crying. So I went to sit on the toilet and puke in the sink at the same time.

When I was done throwing up I went and took an ibuprofen and my antibiotic and puked them right up with the water. So I woke my FI up and told him we needed to go to the ER but I couldn't even move. He called out of work then he called 911 because I was screaming, we waited like 3 minutes and I just said "come on we need to just go now!!!" He carried me to the car and rushes to the hospital.

They took me back right away, hooked me up to an IV and drew some blood. Then we waited for the doc to come in all the while shaking and crying in pain trying to remember to breathe, not knowing what was going on with me and because I couldn't believe this still was not over! They did an X-RAY and MRI to make sure they didn't cut any of my organs during surgery on Tuesday and that was all clear, Then an exam and there was stuff and clots blocking my cervix which was trying to close but also push it out at the same time and apparently I "did not rest enough." They gave me about 6 meds in my IV including dilaudid (spelling) for pain which helped with the "cramping". And some Valium, Percocet and an antibiotic prescriptions. We were there for about 7 hours total. Now I am on strict bed rest for 10 days!

I just can not believe that this is not over yet. I though with the surgery "YES FINALLY this will all be over" and again I was wrong. I just do not know why this is all happening to me. So I am also really upset because I cant even take care of my own son. MIL came today to stay with us for the time I am on bed rest so that when FI is at work she can watch DS for me and cook. I am grateful that I have her here to help but just so pissed off because he is My son and I can't even take care of him.

I will be on once in a while to check in a post here and there but my lap top is broke so not much. (don't forget about me lol) I just need to get my self better and be healthy again. I guess one tiny little good thing came from it and that's that when they did the blood draw they checked my hormone levels and they are finally at zero, and when I go for my follow up appointment I probably will not have to get stuck in the arm again. This has been a roller coaster and I want to get off NOW! I am so frustrated angry and sad! Thanks for listening. You ladies are great!

Gaberinos · January 2011

I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. That is pretty scary

I just wanted to say hi and I hope that you start feeling better soon. Take care!

emeraudecephiro · January 2011

This happened to me after my second loss...I know it is hard, but try not to lift DS or things that are over 10 lbs for awhile. I used to work with dogs and was lifting and doing too much, and that happened.

twistedmetal · January 2011

i am so sorry all of this is happening to you! my t&ps are with you.

you can still take care of your son, just nothing physical. hopefully bed rest will fly by and you can get back to normal soon!

Temp774929562501329 · January 2011

I am so sorry for what you are going through. Rest!!! Get better soon

julesjb · January 2011

Big hugs! Take it easy!

hopefulelise · January 2011

I'm so sorry Sad

Hope you are able to get lots of rest!

Runnergirl2242 · January 2011

I am so sorry that sounds like a terrifying night! I am so glad you are ok! Take it easy, take good care of yourself. I am sending ((HUGS)) to you.

inlovewithB · January 2011

I am sorry you had to go through all of that. Now stay in bed and don't worry about logging on until you are better.

EclairAngst · January 2011

Oh my goodness!! I'm glad you're in better shape now, even if it means having to stay in bed for 10 days. Scary stuff!

So so sorry you're having to go through all this. It's hell and it doesn't make sense and it's not fair. Somehow, you'll get through it though. I'm so sorry. (((BIG HUGS!!)))

johnnys june · January 2011

We won't forget about you!!! *big hugs* STAY IN BED!!! I know it's difficult, but you NEED to rest and take care of yourself. Remind yourself this is for a LONG, HEALTHY future...for you, your family, your son, and any future pregnancies. We're here cheering you on

sending T & P

Izabella22 · January 2011

I'm so sorry you are going through this, please take good care of yourself and stick to your doctors orders (you must know by now how we are about those around here!!! Geeked

) I hope you are well on the road to recovery and the 10 days fly by. Lots of T&P coming your way.

Pachita · January 2011

I'll be thinking of you! Make sure you get plenty of rest and get pampered by your family.

HarperGirl · January 2011

What a nightmare. Get some rest. Hope you feel better soon.

shoefreak85 · January 2011

I'm sorry you had to go back to the ER. (((HUGS))) But, honey, rest!! Take care of yourself!! I'm praying that you heal quickly so you can get back to taking care of your son.

jertie · January 2011

Oh my gosh - that sounds so scary! I hope that you feel better soon and this is the last trip to the ER for you.

mizdiz444 · January 2011

So sorry you had to go through that. That is really scary. I hope you start feeling better soon. (((hugs)))

tiffanysbride · January 2011

I am so sorry for your traumatic experience. It is difficult to say the least to loss a child but to follow up with a medical nightmare is unfathomable. Please know that the best thing for your DS is a mommy that can care for him 100%. I know what you are feeling b/c after Nicholas died I pretty much kicked people out, I wanted to take care of him myself. I felt the same way you do, but in retrospect I know it would have been better if I would have taken a bit more help. Please rest up and get better soon!

Nicks10 · January 2011

I am so sorry you had to go through all of that, it sounds horrible and scary. I hope with the meds and the bed rest that this will all finally be over for you. Good that your levels are to 0. It is so hard when it drags on, and especially with having to go back and forth to the ER. Sounds like you have a great MIL who is able to come help out. Don't feel bad about needing the help, that's what family is for, and you need to take care of your body right now. Rest up and hope to see you back here better than new!

MommyandKate · January 2011

I'm really sorry- I hope you feel better soon.

Carolee · January 2011

That sounds awful and very scary. Take it easy these next few days!

pennynjon · January 2011

I am sorry that you keep having to go through this. I hope you feel better soon!

CashewsMommy · January 2011

I am so sorry! I hope you feel better soon!

tew213 · January 2011

((BIG HUGS)) Take it easy and I hope the next 10 days fly by for you! Feel better!

Fallon621 · January 2011

Gaberinos:
I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. That is pretty scary I just wanted to say hi and I hope that you start feeling better soon. Take care!

Thanks so much for your kind words. It was very scary and the second time it was dangerously scary. I snuck down stairs to check in!

Fallon621 · January 2011

SweetTurnip:
Oh my goodness!!! I'm so sorry you are still going through all this! I hope you feel better and stay in bed! Take care of yourself, hon! **Big hugs**

Thanks so much SweetTurnip. Thanks for the well wishes and don't worry I HAVE to stay in bed they are making me. ((hugs)) right back at ya!

Tapatio · January 2011

I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. I hope you feel better soon. Be sure to get plenty of rest. ((big hugs))

itsmegin · January 2011

I am so sorry for all that you're going through. I hope things get better soon!

haziedaze · January 2011

I'm so sorry this has been such a rough road. Hopefully from here forward you will heal! ((Hugs))

Fallon621 · January 2011

emeraudecephiro:
This happened to me after my second loss...I know it is hard, but try not to lift DS or things that are over 10 lbs for awhile. I used to work with dogs and was lifting and doing too much, and that happened.

Thanks so much! you have also been a great source of support to me the few times I have actually posted anything on here. I have a lot of help here so i'm not really doing much of anything.

Fallon621 · January 2011

twistedmetal:

i am so sorry all of this is happening to you! my t&ps are with you.

you can still take care of your son, just nothing physical. hopefully bed rest will fly by and you can get back to normal soon!

Thanks a lot, all of this love means a lot to me. My son is 5 and very hyper active and am not really even supposed to be out bed, only to use the bathroom but I snuck down to thank every one.

Fallon621 · January 2011

laurc:
I am so sorry for what you are going through. Rest!!! Get better soon

Thank you thank you! I am trying to rest as much as possible but it's so hard to just stay in bed.

Fallon621 · January 2011

julesjb:
Big hugs! Take it easy!

((hugs)) right back at ya! Thanks!

Fallon621 · January 2011

hopefulelise:

I'm so sorry

Hope you are able to get lots of rest!

Thanks so much and yes I am grateful to have MIL here to help me with everything. So I'm getting a lot of rest.

Fallon621 · January 2011

sbjardine:
I am so sorry that sounds like a terrifying night! I am so glad you are ok! Take it easy, take good care of yourself. I am sending ((HUGS)) to you.

(((HUGS))) Thanks so much! It means a lot. And it was very terrifying I'm just ready for this to all be over. It's been 6 weeks now!

VeilSdeGTO · January 2011

I'm sorry this has been such a traumatic experience. I hope you can finally recover after all this time.

Fallon621 · January 2011

inlovewithB:
I am sorry you had to go through all of that. Now stay in bed and don't worry about logging on until you are better.

Thanks it really does suck big time! Haha I am trying to stay in bed bit its hard to do nothing. And I cant help but feel bad for not supporting and also feel like I'm going to miss stuff or you guys are going to forget about me if i dont log on.

Fallon621 · January 2011

EclairAngst:

Oh my goodness!! I'm glad you're in better shape now, even if it means having to stay in bed for 10 days. Scary stuff!

So so sorry you're having to go through all this. It's hell and it doesn't make sense and it's not fair. Somehow, you'll get through it though. I'm so sorry. (((BIG HUGS!!)))

Thanks Eclair! Smile And your right it seems so not fair! I never thought this would happen to me period let alone to have to keep going through all of this! I just feel like I'm being drug through Hell. ((HUGS)) to you too.

Fallon621 · January 2011

johnnys june:
We won't forget about you!!! *big hugs* STAY IN BED!!! I know it's difficult, but you NEED to rest and take care of yourself. Remind yourself this is for a LONG, HEALTHY future...for you, your family, your son, and any future pregnancies. We're here cheering you on sending T & P

Awwww Thanks so much johnnys june and I sure hope not. Like I said I just feel bad for not really being on supporting those who really need it. But I must stay in bed and get better like you said and I have lots of help here. It's just so hard.

Fallon621 · January 2011

Izabella22:
I'm so sorry you are going through this, please take good care of yourself and stick to your doctors orders (you must know by now how we are about those around here!!! ) I hope you are well on the road to recovery and the 10 days fly by. Lots of T&P coming your way.

Thanks so much. I really hope this is finally the end because I do not know how much more I can take physically and emotionally, I'm so drained! But I will listen, Just had to sneak down so I could thank all of you for the support and well wishes.

Fallon621 · January 2011

Pachita:

I'll be thinking of you! Make sure you get plenty of rest and get pampered by your family.

Awww Thanks! I am resting as much a possible. And my FI called a spa and had them make a home appointment, so they came and gave me a Mani and pedi today. He said if I stay in bed like I'm supposed to then he will have them come and give me a massage. Yayy more incentive. Because he knows I hate doing nothing and feeling helpless.

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