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Kate Update

We got the biopsy results back and still have no answers.

Everything is very detailed and confusing but, the majority of the test run came back negative.  However, her bone marrow does show low production of the cells that create neutraphils and the cells that create platelets.

Also, all of the viral tests run on her bone marrow came back negative.

One of the best Pathologists in the world reviewed Kate's slides (side note - I am officially freaked out by the experts that are being brought on to her case - thankful - but freaked out that these medical geniuses need to be consulted about my child) and had a genetic test he wants run.  Blood will be drawn tomorrow and it will take 6 weeks to get results.

Kate is also being tested for cystic fibrosis on January 20.  They are also running test for markers of mitochondrial issues that same day.

At this point, the hematology team is looking at the rare, obscure issues.  Most of them are not curable and a lot of them are not treatable.

We will most likely be meeting with a geneticist in the next few weeks.

Our hematologist will be heading up a meeting with 25-30 doctors in early February ? it will be a mix of hematologists, geneticists, GI doctors, immunologists, and pathologists. They will be looking at all of her lab results, her biopsy slides, and symptoms to see if there are any other ideas about what is going on.

They are also now trying to connect her GI issues (severe reflux, delayed gastric draining, severe protein sensitivities) and hematology issues.

I never thought I would have these thoughts but right now a part of me is thinking that infant leukemia would have been easier.  Survival rates are high and it is treatable.  You know you are at a low place when you wish it was *just* cancer.

Oh, and this is the least of our worries but we are back to preventing.  With the high chance of this being genetic, I cannot chance having a surprise BFP only to have another sick child.

 

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  • Lots of love to you, my friend.  You know I am always a call, text or email away.  <3

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  • I'm sorry sweetie.  I have no words except Kate will be in our prayers.  Hang in there and keep us updated!

     

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  • Oh I wish you'd gotten some answers.  I am so thankful you have such an amazing team on this, but I can only imagine how scary it must be to know you need the pros.  You will continue to be in my thoughts.  I so hope you get some answers (and better yet, some solutions) very very soon.

    Please let me know if there's anything I can do.

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  • Oh hon, I'm so sorry. ((HUGS))

    Not being able to get answers is so incredibly scary and frustrating. I totally understand what you mean about wishing it was infant leukemia only because it's a known quantity and treatable. The unknown is so gut-wrenching.

    You guys in my thoughts, always.

  • I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. Sendy T&P's your way.
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  • I am so sorry, for all of this. I wish you had some answers as well.
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    Kate is also being tested for cystic fibrosis on January 20. 

    Are her blood counts indicative of CF?  My DH's cousin has CF and is leading a very full, relatively healthy life (he's 16).  Fingers crossed for Kate.

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    At this point, the hematology team is looking at the rare, obscure issues.  Most of them are not curable and a lot of them are not treatable.

    Oh dear, that's scary.  Are they all dire conditions??

    I'm so sorry you don't have answers.  How wonderful that you have the best of the best consulting with each other on your precious daughter (even though I certainly understand why you wish they weren't a part of your life right now!).

    As for now, is there anything they are able to do to try to get her blood counts to normal, or are you just going about life as usual?

    Hoping, hoping, hoping for answers for you in the near future...

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  • Sorry everything is still so inconclusive :(  Didn't they do a CF test at the hospital when she was born?  I think they have to.  Sending more prayers your way....and I'm looking forward to seeing you guys next week!
  • I'm so sorry that you didn't get any answers or good news!  (((HUGS)))
  • At first, I wanted to say yay for negative results, but the more I read, well...the unknown just sucks.  It sounds like they are taking a very active approach to getting answers. 

    My heart goes out to you.  We are all here for you!  Big, big hugs to Kate, you, your DH and your family.  I will pray for you.

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  • I'm so sorry that this horrible rollercoaster doesn't have an end in sight right now. I will keep Kate in my throughts and prayers. Hang in there and it sounds like the best people are looking out for your little girl
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  • I am so sorry you didn't get any answers, this is just unbelievable.  Huge hugs and prayers.
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  • Seasoul - several of the senior hematologist have seen CF present with GI issues and unidentified blood issues.  Lung issues usually don't come until a bit older (according to these doctors).  The test is easy - it's a sweat test - so we are moving forward with it so we know.

    The specific genetic issue we discussed today is pretty scary b/c as of now, there isn't any type of treatment.  You just live until it impacts you so much that you can no longer function. 

    A lot of the others are issues that have a big range as to how they impact a patient at any specific time.

    I'm sure there are a few things that are not as severe but the issues brought up today are not things I want to be dealing with.

  • Sending prayers your way...
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this and still don't have answers. I hope you will get some good news very soon.
  • God, I am so, so sorry you didn't get more answers from her biopsy.  I can't even imagine how scary this all is but at least Kate is having the best of the best helping her through this.  Hopefully the further testing and physician conference will lead to some answers for you, Alex and Kate.   Lots of love and hugs, sweetie.
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  • ugh. I'm so sorry you have all of this confusion and uncertainty to deal with. ((Hugs))
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    I'm sure there are a few things that are not as severe but the issues brought up today are not things I want to be dealing with.

    Of course not.  *sigh* what a terrible situation to be in...  If they are as perplexed as they are, I wonder if it's within the realm of possibility that the condition will simply improve on its own.  Stranger things have happened!

    Wishing all the best for you and your family.

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  • I am so sorry that you didn't gain any clarity yet on Kate's situation. While it may be scary to have so many specialists involved in your child's care, I am so happy to hear Kate is getting the attention she needs and deserves.

    I'm hoping you get some more information and some peace of mind very soon. (((hugs)))

  • I'm so sorry that you still don't have any answers.  I will continue to keep you al lin my thoughts.  Give that beautiful baby girl a big hug for me. 
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  • I am so sorry that you still have no answers. 

    I will keep sending you guys all of the positive vibes I can.

    I hope all of these extra tests give you some answers.

  • I'm so sorry you are going through this. I wish that you had gotten answers, and it sounds frightening but good that so many experts are looking into Kate's case. *hugs* Hang in there and sending lots of T&Ps to you, DH and Kate.
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  • Oh hon...  While I am so very thankful for the negative test results, I can only imagine how scary it is to still not have any answers.   You are an incredibly strong mother, L.     I'm so sorry you are going through this.    My heart and thoughts are with you guys.    (((HUGS)))
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  • I am so sorry you do not have more answers. It sounds like you could not have better doctors fighting for Kate. Wishing you answers soon! (((HUGS))))
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  • I'm sorry you haven't gotten better and more definitive answers yet.  Keeping little Kate in my thoughts.
  • :( lots of prayers for your sweet girl.
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  • Many thoughts, prayers and love sent your way.  I am thinking about Kate and hope you get some answers soon.  You are a rockstar mom for all that you're going through.  Also sending you lots of hugs.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this, I was so hoping you would finally get an answer.  I hope that with the test nest week and all the consults with the various doctors will shed some light on what is going on and I hope whatever they find is treatable.  Hang in there and yall are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • So sorry.  Y'all will remain in my thoughts & prayers  (((hugs)))
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  • You are such an amazingly strong woman - never forget that!!  I'm praying for you, your DH and most of all Kate. 
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  • i'm sorry for the lack of answers- always praying!!!
  • Oh honey...I am just so broken up about all this uncertainty.  I can only imagine how frantic and helpless you must feel.  The good news is that you have a team of specialists - experts in their field - who are going to get to the bottom of this.  The bad news is that you have to deal with this at all.

    Hugs to you, DH and most especially to Kate.

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  • ((((hugs))))  I wish there was more to say.  Would you mind if I mention Kate to my husband?  He's a prof of Immunology and focuses on innate immunity and some obscure diseases.  actually he just simply knows a sh!tton about immunology and might have some totally oddball ideas. 

    An investigator that I work with here is exploring ways to use cord blood transplants to treat neutropenias.  While I agree that "just" leukemia is easier to understand and even treat with bone marrow transplants - please know that there are more treatment options for immunopathologies -  even obscure ones, on the horizon every day.

    Just keep holding tight to your precious girl.  The answers will come.

     

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  • I wish there was something we could do or say to make this better. It's a horrible situation and I am so sorry you are going through this. I will continue to pray that you get some answers and that it turns out to be something treatable and curable so that your beautiful girl can have the long, happy, healthy life you all deserve her to have. This is so unfair. ((((hugs))))
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  • My thoughts are with you and Katie. It is increadibly hard to know you need the world's top Drs on a case about your child. Sending you lots of strength threw prayer and good thoughts. We are here for you.
  • just sending ((BIG HUG)) thoughts and prayers are coming your way
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  • Gesh,  I am so sorry you are having to go through all this and stil have no answers.  My thoughts and prayers are with you....(((HUGS))))

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  • Poor LCB family.  I'm so sorry hon.  You don't deserve to go through this.  Neither does your sweet baby.  I'm thinking about you all.
  • I'm so sorry you are all going through this and haven't found any answers.  My heart dropped reading your post.  I hope all the experts find a (very treatable) reason for Kate's issues soon.  ((HUGS))

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  • I can only imagine how frustrating it is to get this far and still not have an answer.  I will continue to keep your family and sweet Kate in my prayers.

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