In light of the recent goings on, I felt the need to create this AE. I've been a board member for far too long to even dare say this under my real name, and I don't plan on leaving the boards, so it was best to make an AE.
My UO? If I knew while pregnant that my child was going to be blind, deaf or have Downs, I would abort. 100%. I don't care how far along I would be while pregnant, I would do it.
If I gave birth to a deaf, blind or Downs child, I would put them up for adoption. I don't need to give extra effort and attention to someone due to a handicap.
Re: I had to create an AE for my UO. Sorry.
I thought you posted this under your real SN once, and you were flamed to hell and back.
Why do you feel the need to repost it now?
You are the biggest POS. Worse than Erino. thats for damn sure.
I work with children and one of my favorite students has ASD. He is the SWEETEST most compassionate child. Pieces of garbage like you could learn from him.
I think its easy to say that but a lot harder to do that when you are in that situation.
I just wanted it to be known, but not as my real name. And I don't feel the least bit shiiity about it.
someone did but i cant remember who....
People, please DO NOT respond to this fvcking assshole. She's looking for attention. Don't give it to her.
That's the saddest part. You are one sorry individual.
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And you think I haven't been in this situation because..................?
Right.
OK. I will bite. Why did you want it to be known? I don't care if you feel shitty about it or not FTR. I just wonder why you wanted to post this.
That's a lie because if you didn't you wouldn't feel the need to create an AE. Everyone's entitled to an opinion but there are some things best left unsaid


And you think I haven't been in this situation because..................?
We need to procure the services of a Bump detective. As big as that post blew up, I am sure someone will remember.
So its a confession then?
So its a confession then?
This would probably be best for that child. At least it wouldn't have to be raised by a POS like you.
Then why the AE?
Was it you, T? Did you make a post similar to this? Inquiring minds want to know.
the person who posted this was HollowStar. her baby is not in 12-24 though.
Sorry. I think I'm going to be sick reading that one. My heart hurts.
I'm all for UOs and what not. I'm all for using the internet as a sounding board at times. But when you have an opinion such as that, don't you ever stop and ask yourself if you should just keep it to yourself? Really, what good did you accomplish by airing that for the world to see? There are women on this board who have children with disabilties who read this and it's downright cruel to them.
Please, even if you are an AE, use your social filter next time. Not cool.
I'm not a POS. If anything, I'm smart. I know I couldn't handle taking care of a handicapped child. I know I couldn't afford to take care of a handicapped child. In my situation, aborting or giving the child up for adoption is the smartest thing.
Actually, this isn't really an UO, it should have been a FFFC, how long did you say you've been a bumpie???
Thanks, Mama. Good to see you around.
I guess this throws my someone created an AE to impersonate T or T created an AE to impersonate herself to stir up drama theory under the bus.
Because think about it. We've run people off of this board for far less "shocking" information. I don't want to lose my SN, my poster color, my posts.
This!
Wow, TB is full of assholes lately.
I agree with this, but I also agree that I think it takes balls to admit that you can't handle a special needs child.
While I am sad that people do, unfortunately, abort children for this reason, I do not think the OP is a douchebag or "worse than Erino" simply because she is admitting she doesn't think she is strong enough to handle a SN child.
However, given a current Bumpie's tough news lately, I think this UO has really horribly insensitve timing.