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This is just not okay
First of all: Failwhale is not me. And to whoever it is: Smellycat has been a huge B*tch to me, but even I think you've stepped to a whole new level of low by posting the fat pics to taunt her and making fun of her DD. Just.not.okay.
Secondly, some of you have seriously crossed the line. In the same posts that you call me BSC you also attempt to stalk me on FB, post my real name, and use a barrage of profanity that a house of frat guys wouldn't even use. It's honestly disturbing the anger you all have developed for someone you don't even know that is on a chatboard with you. Suggesting/threatening to get in touch with my DH after thinking you found him online? SERIOUSLY disturbing.
If you look at the time I spent typing up a few recent posts that got you all riled versus the time you've spent with the subsequent bashing and witch hunt, you'll see that you all have spent WAY more time on this than I have, and you might want to ask yourself WHY.
I would like to publicly apologize to Echo, Mommy2B_Hart, and others who shared their stories with me. I didn't mean to hurt you, and I fully take responsiblity for that and apologize.
Those of you who have lost it in the past couple days: please regain your composure (those of you that had any to begin with), and stop posting hurtful things about people. It's really a case of the pot calling the kettle black, and while most people won't stand up to what you're doing I've got to think that the good-hearted bumpies on here are really starting to think less of some of you.
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Re: This is just not okay
I think you owe an apology to all the people that called you out on your lies.
I am sorry for calling you a cvnt. That was a bit much. I don't like you and I wish you weren't still posting - but I realize that I am going to have to get used to you being around.
ETA: this is just another example of how clueless you are. You try and make it seem like somehow you are the better person in this situation. Do you have any idea how shiity the things you have lied about are? Are you remorseful at all?
There is no way you are going to be accepted back into this community as anything other than some crazy waste of time unless you make an effort to show that you realize what you have done over the last year is wrong.
I really hope you look into therapy. Good luck.
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This. It did get a little crazy around here last night. For some reason I don't think that you are the Whale AE. I truly am worried about you Erin. I hope everything works out for you.
1. I've never been more than a *** to you than other posters. AND I know there are others that have been worse than me.
2. I think you're full of BS when you say you aren't the whale AE. Its just too convenient that she showed up and is defending you right after you "outed" yourself.
3. There is no way in hell that you deserve any apology. You put all your information out there. Its not hard to find. Of course people are going to snoop when you act the way you did.
You don't deserve to be apart of this community. You've lied, manipulated and were a *** to some very good ladies on here. There is no way that will ever be accepted or forgotten. Its best you just leave and find another board.
Erino, go away.
My baby is two!!! Baby girl 9/17/09
My other baby is still a baby! Baby Boy 11-30-11
Everything that came out of your mouth was pretty much a lie and people stood up to you/called you out on it. You put personal info out there for the crazies to google and search for. What did you think was gonna happen?? The only person that still trying to stir up drama is you, you keep bringing it back. I'd suggest not using TB ever again and keeping your fb and info private, (if you haven't already). The fact that your personal info is all over here and that doesn't bother you is what is SERIOUSLY disturbing.
EDIT: It's funny how this bothers you so much, isn't this all for your "research" anyways? Wouldn't your colleagues and professor be so proud. Hmmm.
You can write a whole dissertation chapter on it!
How about titling it "People Don't Like Being Lied To: a shocking new psychological discovery."
/dead.
My baby is two!!! Baby girl 9/17/09
My other baby is still a baby! Baby Boy 11-30-11
But I'm pretty sure you are FailWhale. When someone called you
(Erino) out....you responded to that person as FailWhale. See:
I've tried to stay out of this but you should just go away.
Just a suggestion...
Maybe you should write this stuff in your thesis paper instead of trolling the board, instigating more issues.
I've stayed out of this whole thing up until now, but seriously? You really have the audacity to tell anyone to regain their composure? YOU'RE the one who needs to regain their composure.
You've spewed ridiculous nonsense up and down these boards for god knows how long and people are tired of it.
I think you need to step away from the computer and do some serious self-reflection. The things you've said and done are not normal. You do realize this, right?
i think the "good hearted bumpies" don't like feeling bamboozled by your falsehoods, drama and constant crazy.
You know what's not ok? Lying to a whole message board, and then expecting it all to blow over after one day. You need to go away and not come back. I'm not even sure I believe you even have a kid.
It's people like you, that make me want to remove ds's picture from my profile.
Ditto.
Erin, at this point the only way to gain a modicum of anything akin to smoothing this over (begrudgingly at that) after all the sh!t you've pulled, would be to step away from the bump.
Quietly go away please.
A) There is no way I believe that participating in a message board counts as thesis research. Unless you're attending Virginia Upstairs University? You're obviously just using it as a cover for your BSCness.
Sarah - 12/23/2008
Alex - 9/30/2011
"I say embrace the total geek in yourself and just enjoy it. Life is too short to be cool." - Shirley Manson, Garbage
So do you.
Oh snap, ya got me.
Hi Erino, which one of your personalities is this?
Sarah - 12/23/2008
Alex - 9/30/2011
"I say embrace the total geek in yourself and just enjoy it. Life is too short to be cool." - Shirley Manson, Garbage
You have LONG passed the point where an apology (especially a half-as*ed one) or trying to be the bigger person is going to suffice.
Just leave. Aside from the fact that 99.99% of us all think your BSC, your lies were hurtful, and insulting to many posters. If nothing else, leave on that basis alone.
I love that she fervently denies that she's failwhale, then Erino's logged out, and Failwhale's logged in, and she's responding to callouts to Erino. It doesn't take a rocket surgeon to figure this out.
She is like fail incarnate. It's kind of amazing.
Sarah - 12/23/2008
Alex - 9/30/2011
"I say embrace the total geek in yourself and just enjoy it. Life is too short to be cool." - Shirley Manson, Garbage
Hey Erino! The nut house has an open bed with your name on it!!! Whale (which I'm assuming is one of your many personalities) is welcome to join you there.
I'm sure your HUGE house will feel really empty once your many personalities are gone. What will your hubby do with all that extra space...
PPH this!
this. & it fits in perfectly with her "bullying" theme. Now she's taking it to "how would they feel if they were bullied," by talking about someone's kid
. Not cool, Erino just say GBCB & get some help.
I resent the fact you blame your inappropriate behavior on thesis research for cyber-bullying. I have a friend who is actually doing her dissertation on cyber-bullying and no where in her research does it involve acting like a crazy b!tch on TheBump boards.
I feel sorry for you, Erin. Mostly I feel sorry for you because you probably believe all these BS lies you tried to feed us. You are in need of a serious reality check.