My husband and I have been going together. We'll put LO in the carseat in the bottom of one cart and then one of us will push another one for the groceries. But it isn't always practical for both of us to go, and I hate to send him after he gets home from work since this is the only time we see each other during the week.
So, if you grocery shop by yourself with LO, how do you do it? Putting the carseat on the top part of the cart makes me nervous, and I'm 5'3" so I'm not sure I could see over it anyway. There's no room in the cart if I put the carseat in the bottom. There are so many little challenges to having an infant that I never even thought about!
Re: How do you grocery shop?
When I just had Alex, and he was a baby, I wore him in the Ergo.
Now w/ 2 of them, I order groceries for delivery!
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I wear DD in my Ergo and put DS in the cart. DD HATES her carseat, and I'm quite short as well, so carseat really isn't an option for us.
I shop with 2 at least once a week. I either:
1. wear DD and DS sits in the cart. Leaves tons of space to shop but its so cold I hate taking her out of the carseat to put into the ergo or moby.
2. put the bucket in the cart and DS sits in the top part. I usually do this. I just put my stuff all around the carseat and under the cart. People comment all the time about how I will fit my stuff in the cart but I always manage.
Get a wrap or carrier or just go shopping alone.
Wear him or put his carseat in the basket and put groceries around him. Then get a basket for the bottom and fill that up too?
Do you have one of those high chair covers? You could use that in the car seats built into the shopping cart and strap him in that way. I personally have not tried this.
I carry LO in the Baby Bjorn. It takes a little practice to get used to taking her in and out of it but after a while it's a piece of cake! I also find people don't have the opportunity to touch her or get in her face since her face is right up against my boobs lol.
This is the one I have: https://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3359095
GL!
I put him in his car seat in the top part of the cart. I don't see what the concern about it being an accident waiting to happen? Esp not when they are this little. When you push the cart, you're standing right there. Unless you leave the cart for long stretches of time, you should be pretty much within arms reach the entire shopping trip.
Now, if you had older kids I could see where this would maybe be an issue (them pulling on the cart, knocking into the car seat, etc).
When H and I go together, we will use the snugli (or moby, now that I have one), but it's too cold to try and get him into the snugli by myself (in the parking lot). Tag teaming it, we can get him in it and zipped into our coat in about a minute. When I'm buy myself, it's not worth messing with.
He's the single greatest thing I've done in my life and reminds me daily of how fun (and funny) life can be. He's turned out pretty swell for having such a heartless and evil mother.
I put the carseat in the cart and put one of the hand baskets underneath and fill that up. Once that's full I try to squeeze in items around the carseat.
I also grocery shop more often so I don't have a long list of items. Plus it gets us out of the house more.
I agree with pps - use a carrier or leave LO at home with dad at night while you go alone.
This. our carseat seems to fit right along the rails of the shopping cart pretty much perfectly. feels pretty sturdy to me. either way, you can keep one hand on it while you push if that makes you feel better.