Twins lost at 23 weeks and MIL dies on same day

poppyjean · January 2011

Hello. I posted on here during August of last year after a miscarriage at 7 weeks. Never thought I would be back with even more hearbreak. We lost our boy/girl twins a little over two weeks ago. Anthony Paul and Ellia Rose were beautiful and perfect, just too small. They were born alive and we had precious time with them before they passed. And if that wasn't devestating enough my mother in law, who I was very close to, passed away on the same day. Actually, she passed between the birth and death of my son and daughter ( a span of about 5 hours). I feels like a nightmare that I never wake from and I miss them so much it hurts to breath. I am so very sorry for eveyone who has to post on this forum.

lavril · January 2011

Oh honey, I am sooooooooooo sorry for your losses. I can't even imagine what you're feeling right now.

There are some really great women on this board, and I hope you can find some comfort here.

styme46 · January 2011

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry. I had my ultrasound to confirm my M/C on the day of my dad's funeral so I can sympathize with you.

(((HUGS)))

butterflynola · January 2011

Oh that is beyond awful. I'm so truly sorry for your loss. I lost my little girl at 22 weeks. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers ? ((hugs))

KnAbaby1 · January 2011

I am soooooooo unbelievably sorry for your losses. The reason we are all here is awful but the ladies here are wonderful and can help to ease some pain.

npilcher506 · January 2011

I am so sorry for all of your losses.

irisey80 · January 2011

I'm so sorry. ((hugs))

ekmOC · January 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Yes, it feels like a nightmare. Sometimes all you can do is get out of bed and put one foot in front of the other to get through the day. You are not alone.

julieb1218 · January 2011

I am so so so so so sorry. I don't even know what else to say. You will be in my T&Ps. I hope you find support on this board, I know I have.

BellaVita 10.22 · January 2011

I am so sorry for all that you've gone thru. Lots of prayers for you and your family. ((hugs))

Nesting.Away · January 2011

I am so very sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.

clarks415 · January 2011

I am so sorry to hear about your losses. I can't begin to imagine the pain and heartbreak you are feeling. Try to remember to breathe and pray. You and your family will be in my prayers. I am here if you need to talk.

WifeyWynn0626 · January 2011

I'm so sorry for you losses. I can't even imagine going through all that at once. I hope you can find some type of comfort here, even if helps only a little.

Fallon621 · January 2011

Oh My!! I am so sorry for everything you are going through and all 3 of your losses. No words that i can say will bring your comfort. I couldnt imagine what you are going through with all of this happening in the matter of hours. I hope you can find some kind of comfort on this board, these woman are absolutly amazing. Try to take things one day at a time and when you need us we will be here for you!

dana1318a · January 2011

I am so, so sorry for your losses. ((BIGhugs))

LDW80 · January 2011

I am SO sorry for your losses. I can't imagine the pain you must be going through. We had my FIL's funeral 12/27/09 and exactly a year later on that date we found out LO didn't have a heartbeat. I look at it as my FIL wanted a piece of us with him. December used to be a happy time and now I dread and hate December. My heart breaks for you. I hope you can find peace. Your LO's are up in heaven close to their grandma now and she is spoiling them like crazy. Please take care of yourself.

Lorange-8 · January 2011

I'm so sorry, you are in my thoughts and prayers!

jkelly047 · January 2011

I am so sorry for the loss of your twins. I too lost my twin boys at 21 weeks on June 5th due to IC. I don't understand how something this awful happens to so many of us. I am so glad that you got to spend time with your daughter and son - i had a very tough time at first deciding whether or not i wanted to see them no less hold them. i wasn't sure if i had the strength or courage to love them and then say goodbye. but i will tell you i have taken great comfort in knowing that i got to love them for that brief time and also tell them how sorry i was. be good to yourself, let yourself cry, let yourself be angry, let yourself mourn, be there for your husband as he is grieving too - but just showing it in a different way.

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