TTC After a Loss

Tip-toeing into TTCAL...

and whispering "hi"  I have been quietly lurking for the past few days because on Monday evening I got a BFP.  I did not say anything, b/c I have not been here all that long, plus my temp that day was quite low, so I was very cautious that all would be ok.  And unfortunately I was right, woke up on NYE to AF, so a chemical PG for me..sigh...

I just really wish someone out there could tell me when the hell I will get a take home baby.  I have been pregnant 4 times in the past 2 years and I still sit here with empty arms.  Sad

Seriously hoping 2011 is my year!!!!

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  • So sorry for all of your losses. I also experienced a CP recently. It doesn't make it any easier. 

    ((HUGS)) and welcome to the board.

    BFP#1: 7/14/10.  EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
    BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby!                                                                                                                                           BFP #4:  2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15                                                                                                                                                                                      BFP #5:  4/5/15   EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)

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  • I'm so sorry for all your losses.

    Welcome to the board. 

  • (((hugs)))

    I am so sorry for your loss.


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    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • welcome, I hope 2011 is a good year also!!
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses and all you have been through...
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses!  *hugs*

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  • I'm so sorry! Life is so unfair ((big hugs)).
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  • I'm so sorry for the loss and welcome to the board.

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  • Thank you ladies...I did not even cry this time, I just wanted to throw something against the wall in frustration.  And to make matters worse..the same day we got our BFP, we found out some friends of ours were also PG, about a week ahead of where we would have been. 

    The kicker being, they live in her brothers basement and have no health insurance!  I have no idea if they were trying or not, but I can't imagine where they are going to put a baby or how they will pay the costs to have this child, and I have an entire nursery set up upstairs (we had finished painting and put together all the furniture 4 days before we found out about Conner's diagnosis), just waiting for a little one to come enjoy it.

    And of course, I log onto FB last night to see her announce it...at 6 weeks PG...FML.

  • i'm so sorry.....i also just had a chemical pregnancy before christmas.  i hope that things get better for you.  its so tough to go through when everyone else is celebrating. 
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. ((Hugs))
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  • imageTeacherVicky:
    I'm so sorry for your losses. ((Hugs))

    Thank you...but congrats to you!  I posted in the thread down the page, but did want to say it here just in case...I was following your posts while lurking this week..hope this is your sticky baby!

  • I'm so sorry.  Huge (((hugs))).  I hope 2011 is your year too!
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
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  • (((HUGS))) Welcome to the board.  I'm sorry for your losses.
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  • Oh Sara I am so sorry many hugs
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  • imageTeacherVicky:
    I'm so sorry for your losses. ((Hugs))

    Thank you...but congrats to you!  I posted in the thread down the page, but did want to say it here just in case...I was following your posts while lurking this week..hope this is your sticky baby!

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    imageTeacherVicky:
    I'm so sorry for your losses. ((Hugs))

    Thank you...but congrats to you!  I posted in the thread down the page, but did want to say it here just in case...I was following your posts while lurking this week..hope this is your sticky baby!

    That is so kind of you, thank you!

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  • So sorry for your loss. No need to tiptoe in, you're very welcome here! This board has been so wonderful for me, in a multitude of ways. I hope that will be true for you to. I hope your stay will be short and sweet and you will end 2011 with a baby in those arms!
    BFP#1 9/14/10 (EDD 5/21/11); no fetal pole 6w6d, 7w4d, d&c 10/8
    BFP#2 3/16/11, beta 138; 4/12 Baby/HB DS born 9/10/11 at 29w4d due to partial abruption and PTL
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    BFP#3 8/19/13 Another boy! 17P, modified bedrest and Nifedipine helped us have a termie! DS2 born 4/19/14 at 38w5d.
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  • Stupid bump burp...

    Thanks again ladies for all the kind words and hugs..heading to bed now but with a warm and fuzzy feel from your support!!

  • imageTeacherVicky:
    imageSara&Mike07:

    imageTeacherVicky:
    I'm so sorry for your losses. ((Hugs))

    Thank you...but congrats to you!  I posted in the thread down the page, but did want to say it here just in case...I was following your posts while lurking this week..hope this is your sticky baby!

    That is so kind of you, thank you!

    You are most welcome!

  • So sorry for your losses. I wish all good things for you in 2011 (ttcal and otherwise).
    TTC in May 2009.
    M/C July 2009.
    BFP #2 6/1/11(1st cycle on Clomid)
    Norah Lynn was born on 2/3/2012
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  • I am very sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
    5/16/2005: M/C at 7 wks
    5/3/2010: MM/C at 7 wks 6 days
    5/25/2014: CP at 4 wks 3 days

    Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled.  However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15!  Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!

    Surprise!  Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due.  Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!  

                                                        
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  • ((hugs)) Welcome to the board. So sorry for your losses.

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    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

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  • So very sorry for your losses.

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  • I'm sooo sorry for your losses.  I hope 2011 is much, much better to you.
  • *hugs*  I'm so sorry for your losses :( I know how you feel.  I've also had several losses over the last few years.  If you ever need anything, please feel free to pm me. Welcome to the board, I hope your stay is short and sweet.
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  • Oh, I am so sorry to hear about this.  The universe is being so cruel to some wonderful ladies.  I hope you get that BFP that sticks in 2011!
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  • (((Hugs))) I'm so sorry for all your losses. I hope 2011 is a good year for you and all of us.
    Suze
    TTC#1 since May 2009
    PCOS * Hypothyroid

    Bean - BFP May 26, 2010. EDD Feb 3, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 8w5d - June 29, 2010.
    Pumpkin - BFP Feb 8, 2011. EDD Oct 21, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 6w3d - Feb 28, 2011.

    Femera started November 2014. 3 rounds, no luck. Moving to IUI.
    March 2015: IUI#1 - nope.
    May 2015: IUI#2 - nada.
    October 2015: IUI#3 - BFP on Nov 2, 2015! *stick baby stick!*

  • so sorry for ur loss
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  • I am sorry for your losses!! Welcome though I hope you find the support you need here.
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  • I am so sorry for your losses. I hope 2011 will treat you well and that this will be the year that you will get your take-home baby.
    IUIs #1-3 (1x unmedicated, 2x Clomid) = 2 BFNs, 1 m/c at 7w3d
    IUIs #4-6 (injects) = 3 BFNs
    IVF #1 = BFN
    FET #1 = BFN
    FET #2 = BFN
    IVF #2 = BFP, b/g twins lost at 20w due to partial abruption/PPROM
    IVF #3 = c/p 5w2d
    Long-shot Clomid/Prednisone cycle before next IVF = BFP, our beautiful, healthy girl born 6/26/13!
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  • I am so very sorry for all your losses.  Welcome to the board.
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  • So sorry for your losses, but welcome to the board.

    Married August 20th, 2005 to the love of my life.

    1st BFP August 6th, 2010. Missed MC discovered at 13 weeks. 

    2nd BFP January 5th, 2011. Beautiful Harper born September 28th, 2011.

    3rd BFP March 15th, 2013. Treated with methotrexate for ectopic pg at 7 weeks.

    4th BFP August 2nd, 2013. Sweet Micah born sleeping at 21 weeks with full T13. 5th BFP July 1st, 2014. Praying for a healthy, full term rainbow!

  • I'm so sorry for your losses! 2011 is going to be the year for us TTCALers! I just know it. Many :::HUGS::: to you!

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    BFP-11/21/10 M/C-11/25/10
    Clomid Cycle #1-BFN
    Clomid Cycle #2-BFP-1/18/2011 M/C-1/26/2011
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  • I am so sorry for all of your losses. (((hugs)))
  • I am so sorry for your losses.  Welcome to the group.  I feel the same way- I wish someone could answer that question for us. I hope and pray that you get your take home baby this year!

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  • I'm so very sorry for all of your losses. I can't imagine.

    I hope 2011 proves to be a better year for you and for all of us!

    This board is a group of incredible ladies that are amazingly supportive. 

    **All WELCOME!**
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  • So sorry for your losses. Welcome but as always, hope your stay is short!
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  • Hello and welcome.  I'm so sorry for the losses you have been through.  I hope 2011 is a great year for you.
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