...I had a really traumatic experience with my last time...after a huge long battle with courts, MIL's who were lawyers and other things, I let my little girl go for adoption at 3 weeks and went spiraling down into very very bad depression. I have heard of other scary stories about postpartum depression and am worried that I might have to deal with feeling a lack of interest in our new baby when he/she is here. I love him/her so much already and it's just the size of a raspberry, I can't imagine feeling uninterested in any way, but I know these things happen due to hormones and such....please help ladies! I need advice on how to avoid this!
Re: not to this point yet...but
DS born 8/2010 - preliminary stages of SN int'l adoption - fur mama to 2 shelter dogs; cloth diapering, babywearing, EBFing mama