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Frusterated and confussed

melissamcveymelissamcvey member
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Hello ladies~
Hope everyone had a great holiday weekend.  I'm starting to loose my mind.  So we decided to TTC and i started feeling natious and tired everyday like clockwork about 2 weeks ago.  I took a HPT and it was -BFN which made me sad but it made me more confussed than anything.  AF is due on New Years Eve and I know it's time to test again but I can't manage to get the nerve up to do it.  I guess I just hate seeing the no.  Although I have decided I'm never using the digital read out tests again because seeing NO is way more harsh than the lack of a line.  I know its all in my head but thats ok.  DH thinks I should just wait and see if AF comes and then test if it doesn't show on New Years eve and I don't know what to do.  Advice please. 
And I am well aware of the rule if you get +BFP move to the pgal board.

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  • LilMaggsLilMaggs member
    First, thanks for being respectful.  I can't begin to tell you how much that means to me.  I'm the same way, lack of a line is just easier.  Only you can decide when to test.  I can tell AF is coming with temp drops, nasty cramps, and spotting.  If those don't show, I might just go ahead and test.  MF is the cruelest joke, and I want to stab it, lol.
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    imageLilMaggs:
      Only you can decide when to test.

    This is one of those moments I wish I wasn't an adult who had to make all the freaking decisions. lol.  And I totally agree with the stabbing.

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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
    imagemelissamcvey:

    Hello ladies~
    Hope everyone had a great holiday weekend.  I'm starting to loose my mind.  So we decided to TTC and i started feeling natious and tired everyday like clockwork about 2 weeks ago.  I took a HPT and it was -BFN which made me sad but it made me more confussed than anything. 

    **So, 2 weeks ago did you get AF? 

    AF is due on New Years Eve and I know it's time to test again but I can't manage to get the nerve up to do it.  I guess I just hate seeing the no. 

    **If you did get AF 2 weeks ago, do you have just a crazy short cycle? I mean that would have been only 8-9 days to your cycle pre-O, and with a 10 day LP, AF would be here 12/31, like you mention!? 

    Although I have decided I'm never using the digital read out tests again because seeing NO is way more harsh than the lack of a line.  I know its all in my head but thats ok.  DH thinks I should just wait and see if AF comes and then test if it doesn't show on New Years eve and I don't know what to do.  Advice please. 
    And I am well aware of the rule if you get +BFP move to the pgal board.

    And if you started feeling nauseous and tired two weeks ago and havent had AF yet, that all would have happened pre-O!!

    It would be helpful to know more about your cycles, when you O, or do you chart?  That would be helpful also, there just doesn't seem to be a lot here that makes sense.  GL!

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    I'm confused. What does confussed mean?
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    Dear Sweet Baby Jesus...

    I am so confussed on what your asking. Are you wondering if because your feeling sick 2 weeks ago the test should be positive?

    You know how your body works correct? You have a period, you than ovulate, and than you either get KU or don't. Implantation happens 6-10 days past ovulation. So without tracking ovulation you don't know if you did ovulate.

    I can say my body works like clock work, don't mean it actually does.

     

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    Why does the bump keep doing that? ARGh - Confussing.

    I was trying to say, that, if you were feeling nauseous and tired 2 weeks ago, but AF is due on New Year's Day, then you are confused, because you would not have even ovulated yet 2 weeks ago.  And if you were KU two weeks ago, then AF would have been due around then, and you would certainly have gotten a BFP by now if you had tested.  I agree - Taking Charge of Your Fertility is a wonderful resource to help you understand your cycles and when you are most fertile.  Good Luck!

     

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