TTC After a Loss

Multiple Loss Check-In

Merry Christmas ladies - may this year come to an end! xo

*~*Multiple Loss Checkin*~*

 

 

 

 

 

 

3ltlones

 

3 m/c 4 babies lost BFP 06/15/10

 

 

 

 

ade2be

 

1mc & 1 etopic

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ad Interim

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

aksVA

 

3 mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

ala_1220

 

1 late loss & 1mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

ambrandau2

 

1 loss & 4mc

 

BFP 08/09/10

 

 

 

 

armysis24

 

1 etopic & 1mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ashley858

 

3mc

 

BFP 11/16/10

 

 

 

 

AutumnLeavesFall 3 losses

 

 

 

 

 

 

babes12

 

1 late loss & 1mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

babygirlpriest

 

3mc (4 babies lost)

 

 

 

 

 

bbhalphen

 

3mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

BBHME

 

2mc & 1cp

 

BFP 06/06/10

 

 

 

 

bconnell123

 

2mc

 

BFP 06/12/10

 

 

 

 

BeachCole

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

Becka1208

 

2mc & 1 loss

 

 

 

 

 

 

BELOVEDCARAMEL 2mc & 1cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

butterfly843

 

2mc (3 babies lost)

 

 

 

 

 

*Blessed*

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

bmb84

 

2mc & 1cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

CAB'smommy

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

californiastars

 

1mc & 1cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

candylies

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

carebear08

 

2 mc & 1 cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

cdib

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

cfwinston

 

1mc & 1cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

christyjolee

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

chutch831

 

2 mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

ColindaP

 

4mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

crystalknopp

 

1cp&1etopic

 

 

 

 

 

 

csquared426

 

2mc & 1cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

cutebride73

 

1mc & 2cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

damabo80

 

1 loss & 1cp

 

BFP 11/07/10

 

 

 

 

dandyelle

 

3mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

denise_m

 

1 baby lost, 2mc & 1cp BFP 03/02/10

 

 

 

 

dondraandluis

 

3mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

erinbmore

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

erinrae1011

 

4mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

Etta07

 

2mc

 

BFP 06/11/10

 

 

 

 

Erin RN

 

1cp & 1mc

 

BFP 02/15/10

 

 

 

 

Fififa21

 

1mc&1cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

fit4ever1379

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

happylala0914

 

1mc & 1 ectopic

 

 

 

 

 

 

hbkises

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

heather&jesse

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

hopefulelise

 

2mc & 1cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

HugginAngel

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

ikissedthecook

 

2mc

 

BFP 10/06/10

 

 

 

 

itsmevkb

 

2mc

 

BFP

 

 

 

 

Izabella22

 

1mc & 1 ectopic

 

 

 

 

 

 

jay-tea

 

2mc

 

BFP 06/18/10

 

 

 

 

JayandTay09

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

jen629

 

3mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

jesmckenna

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

jetskreemr

 

1mc & 1 still born

 

BFP 11/17/10

 

 

 

 

jillcanada

 

2mc & 1 late pg loss (twins)

 

 

 

 

 

jmrsdve

 

1mc & 2cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

jms2005

 

3cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

johannaknip

 

1mc & 1 cp

 

BFP 06/10/10

 

 

 

 

julmoura

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

kazpin

 

2mc

 

BFP 04/30/10

 

 

 

 

kbel424

 

2mc

 

BFP 9/21/10

 

 

 

 

kellbell618

 

2 mc & 1cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

kew243

 

1 etopic & 2 mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

kimber926

 

2mc & 1cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

klio79

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

KMLP

 

1 mc & 1 etopic

 

 

 

 

 

 

kndeckar

 

3mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

kristyn&ken

 

3mc & 1 etopic

 

 

 

 

 

 

laurakat81

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

LilMaggs

 

8 mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

lovethebosox

 

2mc & 1cp

 

BFP 05/22/10

 

 

 

 

Lorange8

 

1 late loss & 1mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

LynnZMommy

 

3mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

maceymay1816

 

3mc & 1 etopic

 

 

 

 

 

 

Marriedandlovingit 3mc

 

BFP 06/11/10

 

 

 

 

maymaymia

 

3mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

mindyschaller

 

3mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

mlmtgg

 

2 mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

momto3cats

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mrs.EmmaLouise

 

1 pmp & 1cp

 

BFP 06/04/10

 

 

 

 

MrsEzStar

 

3 mc

 

BFP 02/14/10

 

 

 

 

MrsNJTiger

 

1 cp & 3mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mrs.PinkPearls

 

1 mc & 1 cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

MrsR25

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

nemattox

 

2mc& 1 partial molar & 1cp

 

 

 

 

 

nidan7

 

1mc & 1 loss

 

 

 

 

 

 

nikki1219

 

1mc&1cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

noah-bear

 

1cp & 2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

nomadicprincess

 

2cp & 1mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

OrangeCrush9

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

PeetiePie

 

2 mc

 

BFP 04/25/10

 

 

 

 

pigtails1031

 

1mc (2 babies lost) & 1 vanishing twin BFP 09/21/10

 

 

 

 

rjl07

 

1mc&1cp

 

 

 

 

 

 

samm1983

 

6mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

shanna82

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

schen0510

 

1mc & 2 losses

 

BFP 08/12/10

 

 

 

 

sherd

 

1mc & 1ep

 

 

 

 

 

 

shemico

 

1cp&3mc

 

BFP 06/26/10

 

 

 

 

shouldbworkin

 

2 mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

smacb

 

5mc & 1etopic

 

 

 

 

 

 

SoulfulWhim5862

 

2mc

 

BFP 5/19/10

 

 

 

 

sugardumpling

 

3 losses

 

 

 

 

 

 

sunsetlove

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

swanck

 

2 mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

SweetieD21

 

2 mc

 

BFP 08/27/10

 

 

 

 

Tapatio

 

3 mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

tashobrien

 

2 mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

TeacherVicky

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

teulu07

 

2mc

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Re: Multiple Loss Check-In

  • I never clicked on this post in the past and then it hit me this morning that I now have had multiple losses.  Crying

    I would like to be added to the list.  I've had 2 m/c.

    Thank you.

    1.  I'm hanging in there, I guess.  At the drop of a hat, I'll start to cry because I am so devastated.  It's been 2 weeks since my D&C, 2w1d since finding out about our 2nd loss.

    2.  One good thing from 2010 that I will remember, sounds crazy, but the joy of finding out we were pregnant for the first time.  Both of our instances have turned sour, but I just love the first initial joy.  I hope to never forget it.  It changes when you get PGAL because all you do is worry.

     

    Married my best friend ~ May 31, 2008
    Adopted our furbaby Kona ~ January 17, 2010
    Trying to grow our family ~ June 2010

    1st BFP 7.6.10 ~ EDD 3.15.11 ~ mmc 8.6.10 ~ d&c 8.11.10
    2nd BFP 11.4.10 ~ EDD 7.15.11 ~ HB 6w3d ~ No HB 7w ~ mmc 12.8.10 ~ d&c 12.9.10
    3rd BFP 7.12.11 ~ EDD 3.22.12 ~ HB 6w5d 124 bpm ~ Team Green ~ 
    SHE STUCK!
    4th BFP 6.20.13 ~ EDD 3.1.14 ~ HB 7w5d 153 bpm ~ A/S revealed due date possibly 2.23
    *~*~*~*EXPECT MIRACLES*~*~*~*
    Praying for peace in God's ultimate plan ~ "Be still and know that I am God." -Psalm 46:10


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  • Meh, I'm sick. But work is done till Monday so at least I get to be sick at home. I fluctuate rapidly, one minute I'm ok the next hysterical mess. Af isn't helping and the fact that this won't be my last af before we're trying again. Originally I was really looking forward to this af. :(

    One good thing, well there really are a lot of them but the biggest one was been that I realized this year I've become much more confident with my horses, driving, riding, and their care. I even impressed my vet b/c I picked up on some things that he says other owners never notice till he tells them. So that is a good thing, I'm not a "new" owner anymore.

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  • QOTW:

    1. How's everyone doing this week? (vent or happy thought worthy).

    I'm ok this week. My mood really varies by the day. I'm do get happy when I notice my ticker counting down. One more month and I'm back to TTC!

     2. I know that 2010 has been a horrible year for many of us, but I hate to dismiss things completely. What is one good thing you will keep/remember from this year?

    The one good thing this year was being diagnosed and knowing I have a plan in place for the next pregnancy. I know there are no guarantees but I'm slightly comforted by feeling like I'll get a chance to be more proactive next time around.

    Natural MCs 2/4/09, 8/22/09 & 4/7/10
    Dx with Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome (APS)
    BFP #4 5/14/12
    5/17/12...1st Betas- 176, P4 3.6
    5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
  • QOTW: 1. How's everyone doing this week? (vent or happy thought worthy).

    I'm doing ok.  AF came this AM and I'm at peace with it.  We weren't hard core TTC this month and I knew she would probably come, it was really nice to have a cycle where I wasn't obsessed and anxious.  Not sure what the future holds for us with re: to TTC and I'm ok with that too.

    2. I know that 2010 has been a horrible year for many of us, but I hate to dismiss things completely. What is one good thing you will keep/remember from this year?

    We took a great family vacation this summer and DS started KG.  So, it was a big year for us in that respect. 

    DS1 age 7, DD age 5 and DS2 born 4/3/12
  • Eh - I had a rough day yesterday and I feel like I'm always on the verge of tears.  It's exhausting.  Huh?

    QOTW: The one good thing that came out of this year is me and my DH being closer than ever.  I didn't think it was even possible, but having these two losses has made us even stronger and I can't believe how lucky I am to have such a great guy. 

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  • This week, I've been in tears.  All of these stupid FH's who just had to wait until right before Christmas to announce their BFP's, plus the video pg announcement, and everyone texting me with "did you hear so and so is KTFU?" is getting old.

     The best thing that's come out of this year is the new job.  If we get (and stay) KTFU, the entire pregnancy will only cost me $230.  The health insurance is killer, and it's going to make for a bit more in the way of extra cash.  

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  • QOTW:

    1. How's everyone doing this week? (vent or happy thought worthy)  I really could be doing better.  I really thought I could get some of my work done when the Job Corps students are away but with meetings and other training, I have yet to get caught up.  This morning my car got stuck in our driveway and none of my friends were able to help me because they were working.  I asked my neighbor upstairs if he could help me and his reply was, "No, because I'm not dressed for it."  But, he was certainly dressed to watch me try to dig both tires out of the snow.  I wasn't going to guilt trip him or anything because if he's going to pull out that excuse, I knew he wasn't going to really help me anyway.  Luckily, my DH's friend came over and got me out.  The silver lining of this situation is that I got the chance to meet one of the other neighbors and I got to talk to her for a bit before our friend came over.  It's been a so-so week.

     

     2. I know that 2010 has been a horrible year for many of us, but I hate to dismiss things completely. What is one good thing you will keep/remember from this year?  I won a VIP package to meet the Backstreet Boys and take a backstage tour with one of the members.  I got a personal picture with AJ and I doing the can-can, got my VIP pass autographed, picture with the rest of the boys and heard their soundcheck.  I even got a bear hug from Nick Carter (when I was younger, he was my ultimate favorite).  That night I had front row to their show.  Even though the hubby hates BSB, he had a great time too.  It definately helped us get through one of the hardest times in our lives.    

    5/16/2005: M/C at 7 wks
    5/3/2010: MM/C at 7 wks 6 days
    5/25/2014: CP at 4 wks 3 days

    Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled.  However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15!  Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!

    Surprise!  Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due.  Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!  

                                                        
    Third times the charm!  BFP on 4/18/2019, EDD: 12/18/2019
    PgAL/PAL welcome
    PAIF/SAIF welcome too!

  • It's been a rough week and I'm ready for this year to be over. I hope one year I will enjoy the holidays like I used to.

    I became much closer to a friend of mine who has been so supportive of me.

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • I'm doing well actually--in the 2ww and anymore, it seems to be the only time that I have some hope.  Even if they usually do get crushed by the end of it.

    Good things for this year were before we were pg, we were in Pasadena last NY for the Rose Bowl--that was an awesome trip.  Then of course getting my BFP was awesome.  And the first 7 weeks of the pg was great.  After the loss, DH and I had a really good trip to San Fran. 

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  • 1.  I am just so relieved to be on Christmas break for 10 days!!!  I really need it!  Right now I am not thinking too much about being in the 2 ww yet, it just started and we are so busy with doing things for Christmas - baking, shopping, wrapping, celebrating - I haven't had much time for TTC thinking.  Well, except of course triggering and having to fit sex in - lol.  I am sure I will start to get excited and anxious though being that we used injects this time and there was more than one follie. 

    2.  Let's see - it was a rough year with the miscarriages and DD being in the hospital twice, having new principals and just a host of other things.  But, I still try to be thankful for having a house and jobs and our general good health and that of our families.  As well as having some wonderful friends. 

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  • Doing OK. I had the week off from work (good), but we're staying at my IL's and SIL is mad at me for borrowing her pen without asking permission (bad, but thankfully only two more days....two more days before we go home).

    The one good thing that happened this year is that found out I actually CAN get pregnant (3x). Now, whether or not I can STAY pregnant will be determined, but I figure getting PG is half the battle. For about 2.5 years there, I was thinking it wasn't possible.


    BFP #1 via IUI ~ L (Fatal Birth Defect) 4/7/10
    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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