Multiple Loss Check-In

TeacherVicky

Merry Christmas ladies - may this year come to an end! xo

*~*Multiple Loss Checkin*~*
3ltlones		3 m/c 4 babies lost		BFP 06/15/10
ade2be		1mc & 1 etopic
Ad Interim		2mc
aksVA		3 mc
ala_1220		1 late loss & 1mc
ambrandau2		1 loss & 4mc		BFP 08/09/10
armysis24		1 etopic & 1mc
Ashley858		3mc		BFP 11/16/10
AutumnLeavesFall		3 losses
babes12		1 late loss & 1mc
babygirlpriest		3mc (4 babies lost)
bbhalphen		3mc
BBHME		2mc & 1cp		BFP 06/06/10
bconnell123		2mc		BFP 06/12/10
BeachCole		2mc
Becka1208		2mc & 1 loss
BELOVEDCARAMEL		2mc & 1cp
butterfly843		2mc (3 babies lost)
*Blessed*		2mc
bmb84		2mc & 1cp
CAB'smommy		2mc
californiastars		1mc & 1cp
candylies		2mc
carebear08		2 mc & 1 cp
cdib		2mc
cfwinston		1mc & 1cp
christyjolee		2mc
chutch831		2 mc
ColindaP		4mc
crystalknopp		1cp&1etopic
csquared426		2mc & 1cp
cutebride73		1mc & 2cp
damabo80		1 loss & 1cp		BFP 11/07/10
dandyelle		3mc
denise_m		1 baby lost, 2mc & 1cp		BFP 03/02/10
dondraandluis		3mc
erinbmore		2mc
erinrae1011		4mc
Etta07		2mc		BFP 06/11/10
Erin RN		1cp & 1mc		BFP 02/15/10
Fififa21		1mc&1cp
fit4ever1379		2mc
happylala0914		1mc & 1 ectopic
hbkises		2mc
heather&jesse		2mc
hopefulelise		2mc & 1cp
HugginAngel		2mc
ikissedthecook		2mc		BFP 10/06/10
itsmevkb		2mc		BFP
Izabella22		1mc & 1 ectopic
jay-tea		2mc		BFP 06/18/10
JayandTay09		2mc
jen629		3mc
jesmckenna		2mc
jetskreemr		1mc & 1 still born		BFP 11/17/10
jillcanada		2mc & 1 late pg loss (twins)
jmrsdve		1mc & 2cp
jms2005		3cp
johannaknip		1mc & 1 cp		BFP 06/10/10
julmoura		2mc
kazpin		2mc		BFP 04/30/10
kbel424		2mc		BFP 9/21/10
kellbell618		2 mc & 1cp
kew243		1 etopic & 2 mc
kimber926		2mc & 1cp
klio79		2mc
KMLP		1 mc & 1 etopic
kndeckar		3mc
kristyn&ken		3mc & 1 etopic
laurakat81		2mc
LilMaggs		8 mc
lovethebosox		2mc & 1cp		BFP 05/22/10
Lorange8		1 late loss & 1mc
LynnZMommy		3mc
maceymay1816		3mc & 1 etopic
Marriedandlovingit		3mc		BFP 06/11/10
maymaymia		3mc
mindyschaller		3mc
mlmtgg		2 mc
momto3cats		2mc
Mrs.EmmaLouise		1 pmp & 1cp		BFP 06/04/10
MrsEzStar		3 mc		BFP 02/14/10
MrsNJTiger		1 cp & 3mc
Mrs.PinkPearls		1 mc & 1 cp
MrsR25		2mc
nemattox		2mc& 1 partial molar & 1cp
nidan7		1mc & 1 loss
nikki1219		1mc&1cp
noah-bear		1cp & 2mc
nomadicprincess		2cp & 1mc
OrangeCrush9		2mc
PeetiePie		2 mc		BFP 04/25/10
pigtails1031		1mc (2 babies lost) & 1 vanishing twin		BFP 09/21/10
rjl07		1mc&1cp
samm1983		6mc
shanna82		2mc
schen0510		1mc & 2 losses		BFP 08/12/10
sherd		1mc & 1ep
shemico		1cp&3mc		BFP 06/26/10
shouldbworkin		2 mc
smacb		5mc & 1etopic
SoulfulWhim5862		2mc		BFP 5/19/10
sugardumpling		3 losses
sunsetlove		2mc
swanck		2 mc
SweetieD21		2 mc		BFP 08/27/10
Tapatio		3 mc
tashobrien		2 mc
TeacherVicky		2mc
teulu07		2mc						</TD

carrieandtim

I never clicked on this post in the past and then it hit me this morning that I now have had multiple losses. 

I would like to be added to the list.  I've had 2 m/c.

Thank you.

1.  I'm hanging in there, I guess.  At the drop of a hat, I'll start to cry because I am so devastated.  It's been 2 weeks since my D&C, 2w1d since finding out about our 2nd loss.

2.  One good thing from 2010 that I will remember, sounds crazy, but the joy of finding out we were pregnant for the first time.  Both of our instances have turned sour, but I just love the first initial joy.  I hope to never forget it.  It changes when you get PGAL because all you do is worry.

 

Izabella22

Meh, I'm sick. But work is done till Monday so at least I get to be sick at home. I fluctuate rapidly, one minute I'm ok the next hysterical mess. Af isn't helping and the fact that this won't be my last af before we're trying again. Originally I was really looking forward to this af.

One good thing, well there really are a lot of them but the biggest one was been that I realized this year I've become much more confident with my horses, driving, riding, and their care. I even impressed my vet b/c I picked up on some things that he says other owners never notice till he tells them. So that is a good thing, I'm not a "new" owner anymore.

Tapatio

QOTW:

1. How's everyone doing this week? (vent or happy thought worthy).

I'm ok this week. My mood really varies by the day. I'm do get happy when I notice my ticker counting down. One more month and I'm back to TTC!

 2. I know that 2010 has been a horrible year for many of us, but I hate to dismiss things completely. What is one good thing you will keep/remember from this year?

The one good thing this year was being diagnosed and knowing I have a plan in place for the next pregnancy. I know there are no guarantees but I'm slightly comforted by feeling like I'll get a chance to be more proactive next time around.

shouldbworkin

QOTW: 1. How's everyone doing this week? (vent or happy thought worthy).

I'm doing ok.  AF came this AM and I'm at peace with it.  We weren't hard core TTC this month and I knew she would probably come, it was really nice to have a cycle where I wasn't obsessed and anxious.  Not sure what the future holds for us with re: to TTC and I'm ok with that too.

2. I know that 2010 has been a horrible year for many of us, but I hate to dismiss things completely. What is one good thing you will keep/remember from this year?

We took a great family vacation this summer and DS started KG.  So, it was a big year for us in that respect. 

HappyLaLa0914

Eh - I had a rough day yesterday and I feel like I'm always on the verge of tears.  It's exhausting. 

QOTW: The one good thing that came out of this year is me and my DH being closer than ever.  I didn't think it was even possible, but having these two losses has made us even stronger and I can't believe how lucky I am to have such a great guy. 

LilMaggs

This week, I've been in tears.  All of these stupid FH's who just had to wait until right before Christmas to announce their BFP's, plus the video pg announcement, and everyone texting me with "did you hear so and so is KTFU?" is getting old.

 The best thing that's come out of this year is the new job.  If we get (and stay) KTFU, the entire pregnancy will only cost me $230.  The health insurance is killer, and it's going to make for a bit more in the way of extra cash.  

jerryliljess

QOTW:

1. How's everyone doing this week? (vent or happy thought worthy)  I really could be doing better.  I really thought I could get some of my work done when the Job Corps students are away but with meetings and other training, I have yet to get caught up.  This morning my car got stuck in our driveway and none of my friends were able to help me because they were working.  I asked my neighbor upstairs if he could help me and his reply was, "No, because I'm not dressed for it."  But, he was certainly dressed to watch me try to dig both tires out of the snow.  I wasn't going to guilt trip him or anything because if he's going to pull out that excuse, I knew he wasn't going to really help me anyway.  Luckily, my DH's friend came over and got me out.  The silver lining of this situation is that I got the chance to meet one of the other neighbors and I got to talk to her for a bit before our friend came over.  It's been a so-so week.

 

 2. I know that 2010 has been a horrible year for many of us, but I hate to dismiss things completely. What is one good thing you will keep/remember from this year?  I won a VIP package to meet the Backstreet Boys and take a backstage tour with one of the members.  I got a personal picture with AJ and I doing the can-can, got my VIP pass autographed, picture with the rest of the boys and heard their soundcheck.  I even got a bear hug from Nick Carter (when I was younger, he was my ultimate favorite).  That night I had front row to their show.  Even though the hubby hates BSB, he had a great time too.  It definately helped us get through one of the hardest times in our lives.    

butterfly843

It's been a rough week and I'm ready for this year to be over. I hope one year I will enjoy the holidays like I used to.

I became much closer to a friend of mine who has been so supportive of me.

shanna82

I'm doing well actually--in the 2ww and anymore, it seems to be the only time that I have some hope.  Even if they usually do get crushed by the end of it.

Good things for this year were before we were pg, we were in Pasadena last NY for the Rose Bowl--that was an awesome trip.  Then of course getting my BFP was awesome.  And the first 7 weeks of the pg was great.  After the loss, DH and I had a really good trip to San Fran. 

cutebride73

1.  I am just so relieved to be on Christmas break for 10 days!!!  I really need it!  Right now I am not thinking too much about being in the 2 ww yet, it just started and we are so busy with doing things for Christmas - baking, shopping, wrapping, celebrating - I haven't had much time for TTC thinking.  Well, except of course triggering and having to fit sex in - lol.  I am sure I will start to get excited and anxious though being that we used injects this time and there was more than one follie. 

2.  Let's see - it was a rough year with the miscarriages and DD being in the hospital twice, having new principals and just a host of other things.  But, I still try to be thankful for having a house and jobs and our general good health and that of our families.  As well as having some wonderful friends. 

damabo80

Doing OK. I had the week off from work (good), but we're staying at my IL's and SIL is mad at me for borrowing her pen without asking permission (bad, but thankfully only two more days....two more days before we go home).

The one good thing that happened this year is that found out I actually CAN get pregnant (3x). Now, whether or not I can STAY pregnant will be determined, but I figure getting PG is half the battle. For about 2.5 years there, I was thinking it wasn't possible.