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Success after IF
It's over....
We went in for our 2nd u/s this morning and the baby's htbt was no longer there. I can't believe we have now lost 4 babies (not to mention how much time, energy, & money). I have to try and schedule a D&C with my regular OB as the RE has no openings. She said she MIGHT be able to get us in next Friday (gee thanks!) I can't believe this is happening again. 
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Re: It's over....
"When it comes to sleeping, whatever your baby does is normal. If one thing has damaged parents enjoyment of their babies, it's rigid expectations about how and when the baby should sleep." ~ James McKenna, Ph.D., Mother Baby Behavioral Sleep Center, University of Notre Dame
So sorry
Hang in there.
~~~hugs~~~
I am so terribly sorry. I can't imagine how hard this must be. Please take care of yourself
I'm SO sorry.....please take care of yourself. I can't believe they said they couldn't get you in until next Friday....that's ridiculous. We found out on a Friday that we lost a baby, and I hate to wait until Tuesday....it was horrible. At my follow up appt, I told my OB that it is so disrespectful to make a patient endure that wait.......
(((HUGS))))
Oh my goodness, I am so very, very, very sorry
That is horrible that your RE cannot get you in.
I will add you and your DH and your beautiful angels to my prayers. Again, I am so very sorry for your loss
I am so sad to hear this. My heart just aches for you and your husband. This is truly not fair and I'm so sorry. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Be good to yourself and let yourself be sad and mad if that's what you feel like. We'll be thinking of you.
Clomid M/C 8 weeks 2/08 *IVF #1-DD born 3/09
*Surprise BFP-T18 baby lost at 13w 1/10 *FET #1-DS born 2/11
I am so so very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.
Oh Sh!t, that is horrible news! I just hate that this crap seems to happen so often to us tttc ladies. I had my ob/gyn do the d&c and got scheduled within 2 days. I'd do it again that way if I had to. Can you get tests for the baby to know what happened? We did and found it was a chrom. prob. Hope your healing goes well. Very sorry to see your post
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Our successful cycle was IVF #2: Microdose Lupron Flare Protocol - 2 beautiful blasts transferred.
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TTC #1: IUI #2 = BFP , Betas 550 (16 dpiui), 1523 (18 dpiui)
Hypothyroid, LPD, FSH 13.0, TTC 2 yrs B4 BFP
TTC #2: FSH 23, AMA, IUI 1, 2, 3 = BFN, IVF #1 = MC
IVF #2 = BFP - Betas 194 (14dp2dt), 366 (16 dp2dt), 841 (18 dp2dt)
(vanished twin ~7 weeks)