Christmas today at my mother's went something like this....
"I bought the sweater with rouching (sp) so that you look slimmer now that you've added that weight"
"Six years ago your brother won The Norse invitational...I never really went to your concerts and stuff because they were so boring"
"I bought Buster something because with the lack of your marriage stability I don't know if I'll ever get a grandkid"
Along with about 10 other things, I finally ended up leaving early cause I couldn't do it anymore.
So about an hour ago this text message arrives,
"thanks for upsetting and ruining MY Christmas with you guys because of your issues."
AAAAAHHHHHHHHH
Re: I've had enough of my mother...
I am willing and ready to dropkick your mom. Just say the word.
That is horrible!!
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This.
It floors me that your mother would say those things to you, talk about poisonous relationships. I'm sorry you have to deal with her.
Mine too. I'm so sorry.
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"There will come a time when you believe everything is finished. That will be the beginning.
Mine three.
Cut her out of your life as much as you can and I PROMISE you will be a much healthier and happier woman.
That said, I am really sorry she couldn't be a compassionate ADULT for an afternoon and that she ruined your day. Ugh.