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Crappy day

crash916crash916 member
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Hi everyone. I had a D&C on December 6th and have been feeling better every day for the most part-- until today. My work had a holiday party, and one of my co-workers brought up that his girlfriend was have a baby. He made it pretty obvious that this was an unplanned pregnancy, and started to complain about how his whole lifestyle was going to change-for the worse. He was complaining about having no money and no being able to go out anymore.

Needless to say, I was upset and really wanted to tell him off. I didn't since I work with him. I just wanted to vent.

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  • teacherbride7teacherbride7
    grrrrr...I am so sorry you had to deal with that.  I admire you for not telling him off...not sure I';m that strong
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  • vitanvitan member

    Mentally sucker punch him! Smile

    Hope tonight is better for you. 

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  • lotus88lotus88 member
    I Had my D&E on the 6th also. We had our holiday luncheon where we exchange our secret santa gifts. My one coworker, who is also a good friend, is 4 weeks farther than I was supposed to be. Anyway, most people don't know I was pregnent or that i lost it. Her secret santa got her this laminated poem about motherhood and I just panicked when she read the title. Thankfully she didn't read the whole thing. She also got a brag book and I hate to admit it, but I was so jealous and so angry. I scream on the inside to everybody. It will get better.
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  • Arlee0711Arlee0711

    I swear, every time I turn on the TV and look through the guide, I see that show "16 and pregnant" or whatever its called is on.  Ugh.  I get so angry thinking of all the people in this world who are not fit to be parents and don't even want to be and here we are typing away on this board b/c we SO wanted to be parents!  It's frustrating. 

    Good for you for not saying anything.  I don't think  could've handled that.

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  • kimmiekpkimmiekp member
    Oh geeze...  That sucks... Yeah I don't know what I would have done in that situation.  That's not true... I would have bit my tongue as you did.  But it SUCKS.....
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  • teacherbride7teacherbride7
    imageArlee0711:

    I swear, every time I turn on the TV and look through the guide, I see that show "16 and pregnant" or whatever its called is on.  Ugh.  I get so angry thinking of all the people in this world who are not fit to be parents and don't even want to be and here we are typing away on this board b/c we SO wanted to be parents!  It's frustrating. 

    Good for you for not saying anything.  I don't think  could've handled that.

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  • dana1318adana1318a
    I hate people who take their blessings for granted.  Hopefully he'll realize soon how lucky he is.
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