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as if today wasn't bad enough

biddy53178biddy53178
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today is my EDD- i was doing ok all morning- my mom just called- my 97 yo grandfather who has been trying to die for the last week has a temp of 102.7 and is barely breathing. likely septic. my parents are heading up there now and think that he will probably go before they get there (they have a three hour drive)- fvck this day!
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  • hbkiseshbkises member
    Oh, I'm so sorry...**hugs**
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  • allybaby85allybaby85 member
    ((HUGS)) so sorry
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  • jinx75jinx75
    BIg hugs!! I am so sorry you're going through all of this today!!! Your parents are in my T&Ps as they travel and I hope they make it in time to say goodbye.  I am sorry about your grandfather! 
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  • TBR23TBR23
    I am so, so sorry Bridget!!  ((hugs)))
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    Wow, what a day.  I'm so sorry. Sad  ((big hugs))
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  • AutumnLeavesFall AutumnLeavesFall
    I am sorry ((HUGS))
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  • ravenorchidravenorchid
    I am so so sorry! Huge hugs to you today. I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this on top of everything. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers today.
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  • EclairAngstEclairAngst
    Oh hun, I join you in fvcking this day on your behalf!  That's way too much for one day!  :(  I'm so so sorry.  (((HUGE HUGS)))
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  • tigers413tigers413
    I am sorry for this bad day! *Hugs*!
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  • cubsgirl13cubsgirl13 member
    Oh, I am so so sorry....hugs to you!
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  • biddy53178biddy53178
    my mom just called- he just died- im feeling very sad-
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  • JulsWJulsW
    Oh hun, I am so sorry. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Big ((hugs)) to you.
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  • ala_1220ala_1220
    So sorry...giant hugs to you and your family.
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  • marriedtoericmarriedtoeric

    (((HUGS)))

    I'm so sorry :( 

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  • CakesABakeCakesABake

    OMG, I am so sorry.

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  • Nicks10Nicks10
    I am so sorry you have to deal with all of this today! What a crappy day.  Sending a big hug your way.
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  • pennynjonpennynjon
    I am so sorry.  ((Big HUGS)) to you and your family today.
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  • Temp774929562501329Temp774929562501329
    ::hugs:: i'm so sorry.  hopefully your grandfather will pass peacefully and will no longer be suffering.
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  • jerryliljessjerryliljess member
    ((hugs)) I'm so sorry
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    5/25/2014: CP at 4 wks 3 days

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  • PrincessDi80PrincessDi80
    ((Hugs)) I am so sorry. Thinking of you all day
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  • TheGregory's07TheGregory's07
    Hugs, I am saying a prayer for your family.
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  • baloneydiscbaloneydisc member
    I'm so sorry ((hugs))
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  • itsmeginitsmegin
    Oh no, I'm sorry. T&Ps for you and your family.
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  • Izabella22Izabella22 member
    I'm so sorry sweetie, that just sucks all around *HUGS* Lots of T&Ps to you and your family.
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  • smallfry5909smallfry5909 member

    :(

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  • W111MRPW111MRP member
    I'M SO SORRY (((HUGS)))
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  • TapatioTapatio

    EDDs are so heartbreaking! Make sure to take some time for yourself today, if you can. That's what got me through last Friday ((bigs hugs)).

    I'm so sorry about your grandfather. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today ((extra hugs)).

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  • mandy6418mandy6418
    I am so sorry. You are are very much in my thoughts and prayers today.
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
    So many hugs today sweetie {{hugs}}}
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  • camdenfaithfulcamdenfaithful

    ((((HUGS))))

    You're definitely in my thoughts today.

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  • bryanandkatrinabryanandkatrina member
    I am so sorry ((((HUGEHUGS))))
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  • HappyLaLa0914HappyLaLa0914 member

    I'm so sorry!  Big {{hugs}} and many T&P for you and your family.

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    I am so, so sorry.  ((HUGE HUGS)) to you and your family.

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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    ((((hugs)))))


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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    Hugs! I'm so sorry.
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  • christyjoleechristyjolee
    I'm so sorry.  My thoughts are with you and your family on this difficult day.  ((Hugs))
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    {{{HUGS}}} I am so sorry. T&P
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  • Junebug060609Junebug060609 member
    I'm doubly sorry to read this.  My thoughts are with you, your little one and your family.

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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    I?m so sorry that today is such a tough day for you. Sending you lots of hugs and you and your family are in my prayers.

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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    I am so sorry.
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