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I Just Miscarried!

Jennymd44Jennymd44
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
I was six weeks pregnant and just miscarried this past Thursday I spent the day in the hospital and I am now back to work and a little disappointed because I was looking forward to it. This was planned and had no intentions to have another but now that it happened and the idea is in my head it makes me a little upset because now I want to try again. I don't really have any questions I'm just venting. My fiance isn't the sensitive type and doesn't really seem to care seeing we weren't trying.....
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  • myaddiwaddi06myaddiwaddi06 member
    I am so sorry. Trying or not it still hurts. Just because you weren't trying doesn't mean you didn't want your baby. It's really hard and scary. MH and I were trying and lost our little one at 8w6d a week ago and MH seemed okay this weekend and it made me so angry but then I remembered he may be hurting too, he is not the sensitive type either but I know he has feelings in there somewhere. Again I am sorry for your loss and sorry that you don't have as much support at home as you would like. The women here have been wonderful. It has really helped me to read their posts. It will help you realize you are def not alone.
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  • mdhealy676mdhealy676 member
    So sorry for your loss. As the PP said, it doesn't matter that you weren't trying.  You lost a baby and that still hurts.  I hope you're able to find some support from all of us here if you can't get support at home.
    Married 6.5.10 BFP#1 6.28.10 MC 7.9.10 BFP#2 9.25.10 missed MC 11.2.10 BFP#3 2.22.11 Hoping 3rd time is the charm!
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  • arwoarwo

    I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you and I have had pretty similar experiences.

    I also miscarried at about 6 weeks, and my pregnancy wasn't planned either. (My husband and I weren't planning to start trying to conceive for another 6-9 months, and I was still on the pill.) I can attest that it really does hurt, even if the pregnancy was unexpected; sometimes it hurts so much that it's unbelievable. My husband also didn't get upset the way that I did. I think it's just hard for some people to understand, especially if they haven't gone through it themselves. Luckily, my husband has been super supportive anyway. I hope that you can find the support you need here.

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  • dana1318adana1318a
    I am so sorry for your loss.  I think that even if you weren't trying , it's completely understandable to be hurting.  I think that we turn into "mom" as soon as we find out we're pregnant.  So we're already in love with our babies the minute we learn they're there.  I'm so sorry your DH isn't understanding how you're feeling.  I always suggest letting DHs read a little on this board (or any board/website dealing with MC) so that they can better understand how deeply this affects a woman.  ((hugs))
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