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U/S update (not good)

The news is not good ladies. I am measuring 5w1d, a week behind what FF says. They tried to give me the old, "Everything looks perfect for 5w1d, maybe you are just off on your dates" routine, but they don't know who they are dealing with. Stick out tongue My chart, temps, HPT and bw at 10,000 suggest otherwise.

So I guess I just wait now. I hope this doesn't drag out. I hope it isn't too painful. I hope I can resolve this quickly and my body does what it should and doesn't hold on too long.

I am OK, really, no tears, no sadness. I expected this since the late BFP and low first beta #, and esp. the spotting. It just seems kind of cruel that they doubled so nicely and I had that big jump to 10,000, that gave me a glimmer of hope.

I wish you all the best of luckSmile We'll try again, though I think I am ditching the FF for a while. I think I am going to switch Dr.s too. I am probably going to take a Bump break, but love FB friends so PM me if you'd like to keep in touch. Hopefully one day I'll be back!!

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  • Not to be all P&R on you... but I hope you get everything you want. 

    I am sorry  ((HUGS))

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

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    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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  • Aw, man. I am so, so, sorry. ((hugs))

    Please keep us posted.  

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  • I'm holding out a little glimmer of hope for you, but understand the need for a break.  Take care of yourself, we're always here for you!!!!
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  • I'm so sorry. ::hugs::
    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

    BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15


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  • I am sorry you are going through this.  Please take care!

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  • Huge hugs. I wish it was better news for you. I'm giving a big FU to the world right now.

    YGPM


    BFP #1 via IUI ~ L (Fatal Birth Defect) 4/7/10
    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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  • I am so sorry. Please take good care of yourself. Hugs
  • Sending you big Texas-sized ((((hugs)))).  I'm sorry the news wasn't better. 
    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
  • Lots and lots of ((((hugs)))))   Im still holding out hope that your Dr may be correct.
  • I wish it was better news.  Take care of yourself.
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  • I'm very sorry.
    Mommy to Alden, born May 19, 2007 - best birthday present ever! natural m/c October 20, 2008 at 8w1d BFP April 4, 2009! Missed m/c discovered May 1, 2009 D&C May 12,2009 BFP March 3, 2010 Chemical pregnancy BFP May 25, 2010 Elias Derek born January 26, 2011! Surprise BFP October 24, 2012 Missed m/c confirmed Nov 26 D&C Nov 30 Surprise BFP February 13, 2013
  • I am so, so sorry. I hate the universe for you right now. If you do take a break, please know that you will be dearly missed. We are always here for you! Please take care of yourself. (((HUGE HUGS)))
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    BFP #1 - m/c on 12.22.09 @ 8w3d
    BFP #2 - d&c on 07.22.10 @11w1d
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  • Oh gummy, I'm so sorry to hear this update.  Take good care of yourself, and I hope to see you back here once you're ready.  ((big big hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry for your news.
  • ((hugs)) I am so sorry
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  • I'm going to hold on to some hope for you, but understand the need for a break.  Please take care of yourself, ((HUGS)). 
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  • So sorry Gummy---I really wish you had better news.  ((big hugs))

    I hope you come back soon--we will miss you! 

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  • ((BIG HUGS))
     
    I'm so, so sorry.   
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I am hoping for the happy post in a few weeks....BIG BIG hugs!
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  • I am so sorry gummy. BIG ((HUGS)). You'll be in my thoughts.
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  • I am so sorry.  ((hugs))
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  • Okay, so here's the deal...FF can suck it!!  If everything looks good for 5w 1d, I'm gonna hold on to hope that tomorrow, everything will be great for 5w 2d and that a week from now, everything is great for 6w 1d.  I know you just want it to be over and I totally understand that.  You can accept it for what it is, and I'll take care of the holding on to hope, okay??  I'm just not ready to see you leave us.  And, I'm not on FB, so if your not gonna be here, I won't be able to keep tabs on Flyer (*shakes head*) fan friend.  I'm not okay with that, SO I'll keep hoping and praying for this one.  

    I'm so sorry this is happening.  I wish with all my heart that your u/s would have had a better outcome.  Humongous HUGS to you.

    All my love. 

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    Al~4.5.2008~born big and healthy @ 38w~7lbs 9.5ozs
    Lil man~5.20.2011~born big and healthy @ 39w (after one he!! of a pregnancy)~8lbs 1oz
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  • I'm so sorry. ::hugs::
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  • I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
  • I'm sorry that it wasn't good news.
  • Take care of yourself.
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  • ((BIG HUGS)) Oh honey, I am so sorry the news wasn't better! I wish you all the best!
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  • ((Hugs)) I'm still holding out hope for you sweetie!
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    Finally BFP on 11/23/09 beta#1=36 beta#2 =62 beta#3=139
    Liliana was born on March 27,2010 at 21w5d due to infection and pre-term labor
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  • Oh Gummybear, I am so sorry. 
  • I'm so sorry you're going through this!
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  • I'm so sorry.

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    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
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  • ((big hugs)) keep us posted

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  • I'm so sorry. I'm still going to hold out some hope for you, but understand your need to do what you're doing. Huge hugs
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  • Sending big hugs, I'm so sorry.

    Jenn

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    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

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  • Gummy my heart is breaking for you, I am so so sorry Crying
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  • I'm so very sorry. Big big hugs!
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  • Uuughhhhh!  You're right.  It is cruel.  I know you never let yourself get too into it, but I was really holding out hope for you.  Sorry hun ((HUGS))
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