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Just copied what I wrote on the 2u2 board, then thought you girls would know the answer to this lol (baby brain kicking in) 

 Hi new to this board.  I have a question about a midwife.  What do they exactly do?  The reason why I ask is cause I did not have an epi for my 1st and I really don't want to get one this time.  My 1st time I wanted one but I had no chance.  I was wondering if they are going to help me not get the epi. this time. I know that not ever delivery is the same.  Do I use my dr. and a midwife?  TIA for all your help

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    MmeBPMmeBP

    I don't know what they are "supposed" to do, but mine guided me through my pregnancy.  

    Gave me my pre-natal classes, etc. and was the one guiding me through my delivery.  She would have done the same though whether I got the epi or not.

    The doctor actually followed the pregnancy in terms of the baby's development and health and then came in at the end of my delivery to stitch me up.

    I don't think I was any help whatsoever.  Sorry. 

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    Temp308688937504427Temp308688937504427 member
    No you were do you think she helped?  Would you use her for a 2nd time or is it really for the 1st time.
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    trevesstrevess

    A midwife does the exact same thing that an OB does...sees you for each appointment, does exams, etc.  The only difference is that midwives are not certified to handle high-risk pregnancies, and in that case, the coordinating doc would step in. 

    A doula is someone who coaches you through your labor & can aide in natural pain relief, positioning, pressure, etc. 

    I would suggest that if you want to go nautural for #2, do your research now (looks like you are) and find a midwife in your area.  Then research the type of birth you want, and write up a corresponding birth plan.  I highly suggest reading "Your Best Birth" by Abbi Epstein & Rikki Lake- it talks about your more natural birthing options.  I can also send you a copy of my birth plan if you'd like- & please feel free to ask me more questions! 

    A natural birth isn't for everyone, but I sure know it was the best option for me.  I'm sure Lib & Blayne will also chime in here- as they also did it natural!  =)  (Sorry if I left anyone else out- those two gals just immediately came to mind!)

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    MmeBPMmeBP

    I would use her again.  She was more personal than my doctor and truly made me feel more at ease for any type of question that I had not just medical.

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    imagetrevess:

    A midwife does the exact same thing that an OB does...sees you for each appointment, does exams, etc.  The only difference is that midwives are not certified to handle high-risk pregnancies, and in that case, the coordinating doc would step in. 

    A doula is someone who coaches you through your labor & can aide in natural pain relief, positioning, pressure, etc. 

    I would suggest that if you want to go nautural for #2, do your research now (looks like you are) and find a midwife in your area.  Then research the type of birth you want, and write up a corresponding birth plan.  I highly suggest reading "Your Best Birth" by Abbi Epstein & Rikki Lake- it talks about your more natural birthing options.  I can also send you a copy of my birth plan if you'd like- & please feel free to ask me more questions! 

    A natural birth isn't for everyone, but I sure know it was the best option for me.  I'm sure Lib & Blayne will also chime in here- as they also did it natural!  =)  (Sorry if I left anyone else out- those two gals just immediately came to mind!)

    I am not sure if I can say I had a natural birth I did have the pit. which caused me not to have the epi plus a change of shifts. lol 

    I have asked my dh to help me not get the epi but I am not sure if really is going to help me.  He was good the 1st time just a little anxious I guess, thankful his mother helped me and calmed him down.  I know he will not be as anxious this time, well I hope. I will look into a doula.

     Thank you 

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    MrsBlayneMrsBlayne member
    Carollyn answered your question pretty well. It sounds like what you want, if you are planning on keeping your doctor, is a doula. Or you could see if your doctor has a midwife in his practice. In my case, I had to switch from my doctor in order to use a midwife but it is not always that way. The midwife did all of my prenatal visits once I switched and the whole delivery (there were actually two midwives there for the delivery). She had a doctor as backup for emergencies but I never met him. I have heard that contractions with pit are way worse than without so if you already did it with pit I bet you will do fine!
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    libertadwlibertadw
    My midwives did the same check-ups as my OBGYN. I switched to a midwife halfway through my PG. They were very much into natural medicine, giving me natural alternatives for pains/ailments during pregnancy before they would prescribe something. During labor (although I had a really fast labor) they were there to help you through labor and delivery drug free. The midwives had their own floor in the hospital for natural births where they had birthing tubs and a home like setting for each room. I am very happy that I decided to switch to a midwife. Also, there was very little intervention after the birth also. Marcos was placed directly onto my chest for about an hour before he was taken away to get weighed and measured and checked out.
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