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heartbroken and venting

kteacher46kteacher46
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DH and I started ttc for the first time at the end of July. I finally got my bfp last Friday and was filled with excitement as well as nervousness. It took a couple of days for it to sink in DH head that he was actually going to be a father and was as happy as can be. Well 2 days ago I started spotting and read that spotting was normal and that it could be old blood. I took 2 more pregnancy test and the lines got lighter and lighter. I decided to go to the Emergency Room to see what was going on and to my surprise I was having a miscarriage. I made the mistake of telling some of my family members on Thanksgiving Day that I was pregnant and then had to deliver the bad news. I just don't want to be bothered with anyone and can't stop crying. I feel like I did something wrong and I just can't figure it out. Thanks for listening everyone.

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  • BlondeBride82BlondeBride82 member
    im so sorry for ur loss i completely understand what ur going through. It sucks i cried for almost a week cause all i could think what what did i do wrong. The pain will never completly go away but u will start to feel better soon. For me being on this board and seeing that im not alone and also all the great women on here did make me feel better. Hang in there Smile
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  • MrsR25MrsR25
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • mrs.geemrs.gee member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  And you did nothing wrong - please don't blame yourself.  
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  • mkwtmkwt member
    Oh sweetie, I am so sorry for you!!!  I miscarried and had a D&C on Tuesday so I know exactly how you feel.  I can tell you that crying and talking about it has helped me, I am still so heart broken but I do know that this will pass!!  I hope you can find comfort in family and friends.
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  • dana1318adana1318a
    I'm so sorry for your loss :(  We're here for you anytime you want to talk((hugs))
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