Infertility

It's negative

IVF # 6 is over and not the results we were hoping for. It must have been my period on Monday....

We also had nothing left to freeze. The fail with DS also confirms that it is probably not going to be possible due to my age.

I'm not sure what happens from here. DH is not on board with DE because they can't give us odds higher than 40%. We are not willing to go through the adoption process after all we have already been through and spent on IVF.

I'm so scared right now because I don't know how to move on or what to make of my life.

Thanks so much for all the support...you ladies are amazing and I couldn't have gotten this far without you.

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Re: It's negative

  • (((hugs)))  I am so sorry.
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  • I am so sorry to hear that.  I know there is nothing I can say to make it better, but we are all here for you.  Sending tons of T&P your way.  Big big (((HUGS)))
    SAIF and PAIF Always Welcome
    07/14/97 - Stillborn twins at 22 weeks
    12/20/99 - Miscarriage #1 - 11 wks 4 days laproscopic surgery due to rupture of tube
    07/01/01 - Divorced
    05/30/09 - Re-married to a wonderful man!
    11/11/09 - Miscarriage #2 - 10 wks 3 days, D&C
    Dx: Unexplained
    07/30/10 - 10/19/10 - IUI #1 - IUI #4 clomid cd2-6 + premarin cd7-13 + HCG Trigger=BFFN's
    11/10/10 - IVF #1 Start stims ER#1 11/22, ER #2 11/24, ET 11/29=BFFN
    03/14/11 - IVF #2 start stims, ER-03/26/11, ET-03/31/11, beta 04/08/11 = BFFN
    05/16/11 - Hail Mary Cycle - Inj+TI =BFP!! 06/08/11 Beta #1 71.8, 06/10/11 Beta #2 201, U/S 6/20-1 sac. U/S 6/28 sac and hb of 118!!
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  • Oh Ginger, I am so, so sorry. You are in my thoughts.
    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • I am so so sorry Ginger.  (((hugs))))
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  • I am so so sorry ((hugs))
    *P/SAIFW* TTC since 1/08 Clomid, 2 IUIs, 4 IVFs, FET 7 losses Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm so so sorry. Life is so unfair. 
    TTC #1 since 7/09
    Dx: LPD, underdeveloped follicles, blocked left tube
    3 C/P, 1 BO, 1 Ectopic
    IVF#1=BFN (3/11)
    FET#1=BFP
  • I am so sorry.
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  • I am so so sorry :(

    (((BigHugs)))

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  • sending you tons of ::::hugs::::
    S/PAIFW
    Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
    PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
    Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
    Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
    Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
    Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
    IVF #3
  • ((hugs)) So sorry..
    My Wonderful Sister is my GC!!!! 3 IUIs, 2 unmedicated, 1 50mg of Clomid = All BFNs Next step IVF!!!! Melinda & Michael 5*6*06 God Bless The Broken Road
  • I'm so so sorry, how devastating.  Hugs to you and thinking of you both as you evaluate your next steps.  Take some time and be kind to yourselves, you will know what to do next.
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  • Oh Ginger -- I'm so sorry!  ((hugs))  I hope you are able to come to some type of resolution...  You'll be in my thoughts.
    Mr. & Mrs. ~ 09.08.07

    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • I am so, so sorry. ((HUGS))
    Married 08.06
    Started TTC 05.08
    Me: Stage II endo, borderline high FSH
    DH: perfect
    1 lap, 5 IUIs = 4 BFNs and 1 c/p
    2 IVFs, 2 FETs = 1 BFN, 1 c/p, 1 ectopic and finally a sticky BFP in May 2011!

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    1 FET in Aug 2013 = BFP! 

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  • I am so very sorry sweetie. This just isn't fair.
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Oh, hon...I'm so sorry! Maybe you and your husband can take a little time to grieve...then sit down and go over your options and your feelings on them. I wish you the best of luck in figuring out what you can do to be happy. *sending hugs*
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  • GInger, I am so so sorry. This is all so unfair. Biggest of big hugs, and I hope you and your husband can make a decision about what to do next soon.

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  • I'm so sorry!
    Me-28 Stage II Endometrosis, DH-29 Severe MFI TTC#1 since July 2010 DH-Varicocele Surgery 3/2011 Me-Laproscopic Surgery 8/2012 Stage II Endometrosis, removed cysts IVF # 1 October 2012 BCP-9/12-10/2 Follitism 300-10/4-10/14 Ganirelex 10/8-10/15 ER 10/17 (20 eggs retrieved, 15 mature, 13 fertilized) ET 10/22 Beta 1 11/2 375 Beta 2 11/5 951 Beta 3/ U/S 11/12 BabyFruit Ticker Anniversary
  • Oh Ginger, You're in my T&P! I am so very sorry!
    Married '02, TTC May '05

    Dx -Ute cancer, DOR from cancer treatments, and embryo quality issues. NOV 2010 CANCER FREE
    2005-2011= 3 Rounds of Clomid, 5 IUI's, 3 IVF's- ALL BFN's
    After 7yrs TTC, 5yrs of ute cancer, and 11 failed IF treatments, we got a surprise BFP! So thankful!

    Gemma Grace born 09/30/12

    Phillipians 4:6,7

  • I am so, so, so sorry you are going through this Ginger.
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  • [hugs] I am so, so very sorry. I wish I could take away your pain.
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  • I'm so sorry ((HUGS))
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  • I am so sorry. Huge hugs.
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • I am so sorry (((HUGEhugs)))
    Stacy
    PCOS, RPL, & Anti Cardiolipin Antibody
  • I am so, so sorry :( There are no words to make it better..
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  • I am so, so sorry.  You have been through so much.  I wish there were more we could do to make it better.  I'm sorry that you are at a point where it's tough to see the next step. 

    I was curious about the 40% success rate you were quoted for DE - that seems lower than I usually see... Maybe you would have higher odds at a different clinic?  I truly wish you the best.

    TTC with DOR, low morphology, fertilization issues
    IVF#1 Oct 2009 (CCRM) - BFN
    IVF#2 March 2010 - Poor response/cancelled
    DE IVF#1 Aug 2010 - BFN
    DE IVF#2 Dec 2010 - Transferred 1, 2 frozen - BFP!
    TTC#2 FET Jan 2013 - Transferred 1 - BFP!

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  • I am so very very sorry

    ((hugs))

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  • i am so sorry cutie

    GIANT ((HUGS))

    we're here no matter what you decide, you've got us

     

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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
  • I am so so sorry.
    After 3 years of infertility we were blessed with twin girls through private infant adoption.
    Forever our's October 17th 2012
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  • Oh nonono. I am so sorry, Ginger. Huge (((HUGS))) I wish I had something more helpful to say :( I'm just terribly sorry.
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  • I am so sorry, Ginger. :(
    I've probably been on The Bump longer than you have.

    After 31 cycles, baby boy K (IUI) born 11/03/11

    BFP (Femara) - 08/09/13 m/c around 6 weeks. xoxox Baby April

    Rainbow baby girl E (Femara) born 11/16/16
  • I am so sorry. I wish I had more to say. Sending lots of hugs your way.
    DS born 7.30.11
  • I'm so so sorry.

    Big ((HUGS)) 

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  • i'm so very sorry.  :(
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • I am so very sorry, Ginger. This is incredibly unfair and I wish I could make things better for you somehow. Please take care of yourself and know that we are here for you. (((hugs)))
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  • I am so sorry Ginger. I was so hoping this was it for you. It is just not fair. (((HUGE HUGS)))

    SAIF/PAIF Always Welcome!
    TTC #1 May 2008
    6 Rounds Clomid, 1 Round Femera-BFN
    4 IUIs (1 Clomid, 1 Femara, 2 injectables)-BFN
    February 2010-Laparoscopy
    4 months of Lupron
    August 2010-IUI #5-BFN
    October 2010-IUI #6-BFN
    IVF #1 November 2010-BFN
    IVF #2 March 2011-BFN
  • I am so very sorry :( I know nothing we say can make your pain feel any less but know that we are all here for you!

    ((HUGS))

  • I am so very sorry, Ginger! God, I really thought this was going to end the way it should have. Thinking of you!
    Crohn's resulting in colectomy with J-Pouch surgery in 2000/2001.
    TTC since August 2008
    IVF#1: BFFN; IVF#2: BFN; FET with new RE: BFN
    IVF#3: ER 1/15; ET 1/20; Beta#1 1/29: 339!
    Twins girls born via c/s at 37w/3d!!
    "Let it go, this too shall pass."
  • i am soooo soooo sorry =( huge (((HUGS))) 
    ::PAIF/SAIF Welcome::

    TTC since July 2008
    IUI 1,2,3 BFN
    IVF #1 C/P, FET 1,2,3 BFN
    IVF#2 BFP

    it's a girl!!

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  • Ginger, I'm so sorry things didn't work out.  There's nothing to say but know that you're in all of our t&p's. 
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

  • Lots of ((hugs)), Sweetie. I hate this for you.
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