Huge belly sex - help!

Luzesmeralda · October 2008

I know this comes up occasionally. I wasn't so huge before, so I was getting along ok.

I'm thinking sex might be the only thing to get me to go into labor, but it is so hard to do right now. Any tips or positions?

P.S. I heard it should be 3x a day to start labor. I am pretty sure we can't manage that!

LittleEgypt · October 2008

Spooning, doggy style, or any other variation of from-behind. You could try leaning up against a dresser or the bed, as long as your DH is careful not to push your belly up against it. I never have face-to-face sex anymore!

mommee2b · October 2008

I am not quite there but with all the aches and the bulge in front most positions are just too much work! The only thing we have found is laying on our sides with him from behind.. (tmi i know, lol)

cooperl788 · October 2008

3x a day! Well, there goes that idea for starting labor when it's time! DH and I don't do it often, but when we do actually have sex, getting me to the edge of the bed helps him avoid the belly. GL!

Temp6313048411121614 · October 2008

Very graphic, but have you butt right at the foot of the bed, have DH try to stand at the end of the bed, then he's not laying on your belly or anything.

CaitlinJ22 · October 2008

this site is interesting--someone posted it a while back, it doesnt have pregnant ladies--lol--but some of the spooning positions work. Also try both of you laying on your sides facing the left with your left leg btwn his legs and your right on top--its kinda like your body is facing one way and you can still look at him, its like the scissor or somthing

https://www.sexinfo101.com/cross.shtml

oughtonk · October 2008

DH and I have one of those triangle pillows that we use to prop up my hips so he can still be on top but without leaning over me. If that makes sense. It works really well and doesn't hurt. Doggy is good too as long as he's careful to not go to deep.

MrsPedersen · October 2008

The position that has worked best for us is me laying on my side and DH goes in straight...just like if I were laying on my back...but I am intriguged by this cross sex position Wink

Twizzle · October 2008

I was going to try to get DH in a sexy mood tonight to try to induce labor. But this 3x a week thing has me saying what's the point.

Anyway, I second the edge of the bed with him standing up.

Sarahgracesc · October 2008

I have no advice. DH and I tried a few days ago...we were both just in the mood. It was AWFUL. I was trying so hard to not let on how much pain I was in as we were ATTEMPTING to get things where they needed to be, and DH said "No way in hell. Look at your face! You're in pain. I guess we just won't have sex until January. I'm not going to hurt you!" So, yeah, it just did not work out at all for us. No position worked....everything hurt and the angles were just too awkward.

mrskadams · October 2008

Well, the only thing that really works for us is a tall bed so that he can stand, and I can lay on my back. Can't wait to see what happens in the next several weeks though.

Kentuckychick_8201 · October 2008

From the side or from behind works best for me. I am hoping to soften my cervix at least but 4 or 5 times a week is about all I can manage. If anybody can do it 3x a day everyday at this point in their pregnancy they should win an award.

GAMomma · October 2008

We're just doing once a day. *Maybe* twice starting next week if nothing's happening...

Last night I laid on my side, with my top leg sort of crossed over my bottom leg so DH was entering "from behind", but I didn't have to have my big belly wobbling around underneath me. It was actually pretty good Embarrassed

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