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Today would have been my due date...

momofzachmomofzach
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

I am a total lurker so I'm not expecting tons of support, but I just have a need to acknowledge the fact that today would have been my due date.  It has been a very emotional day and my husband and I are planning on having a bottle of wine tonight and having a good cry.  I am hoping that it gets a little easier after today, as this has been the day I've been dreading since the m/c in April.

 Sandra

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Re: Today would have been my due date...

  • katiehansonfankatiehansonfan

    *hugs*

     This must be a really hard time for you.  Like you, I am dreading that date as well.  I'm glad that you have your husband to be a source of support.  

     

    I hope that you are okay.   

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  • njmommaterpnjmommaterp

    I am so sorry! You are in my T & Ps.

     

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  • shanna82shanna82 member
    I'm sorry hon **big hugs**
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  • haziedazehaziedaze member
    There's always support to be found here. I'm so sorry for the loss of your LO. Enjoy your wine and hugs from your hubby!
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  • howleyshellhowleyshell member

    I'm so very very sorry for your loss.

    If it helps any at all I have found that I do better once the due date has passed.

    I hope a new peace finds you soon.

     

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
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  • rvandiver0705rvandiver0705 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  I hope you have a wonderful time with your DH tonight.
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  • samanthahollmansamanthahollman

    I am so sorry. 

    ::hugs::

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  • Luv4MinnesotaLuv4Minnesota member
    I am sorry.  I am glad you and DH can be together today and grieve together.  Cry as much as you need to!
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  • SimoneRISimoneRI
    huuuuge hugs....once you get past this day you may have some relief. Will be thinking about you guys tonight!
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