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I've been MIA...reason...and D&C scheduled

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So remember a couple of weeks ago I told y'all that I was coming back to TTCAL, that my pregnancy wasn't viable and they told me to stop taking my progesterone and Lovenox?  Well, it wasn't completely over.  After a week of no spotting or bleeding, they redrew my HCGs and they went way up...2 days later they went up again.  So, there was a small glimmer of hope. 

Friday I had an u/s and it there was a sac measuring 2 weeks behind.  Today there was no growth and my HCGs didn't get high enough.  I have a D&C scheduled for Friday.  I knew it was coming, but it doesn't really hit you until it's official. 

So, officially, officially, I'm back.  Sad

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GEAUX TIGERS!!!

1st pregnancy: BFP- 6/28/09 - Found out we lost our little girl on 10/9/09 at 19w 4d - D&E- 10/14/09

June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids

2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10

Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful

HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!

Surprise BFP naturally!!! IT'S A BOY!!!

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  • inlovewithBinlovewithB
    I am so sorry! I hate that you were given hope only for it to end this way! (((hugs)))
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    b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
    IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
    b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
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  • martinimommamartinimomma member
    Oh ala_, I am so so sorry that you are back.  ((Hugs)) & T&P coming your way.

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    BFP #2 2/2011
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  • pennynjonpennynjon
    I hate that this is happening.  I am so sorry.  ((hugs))
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  • lorlei13lorlei13 member
    I'm so sorry sweetie.  {{BIG HUGS}}
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  • mandy6418mandy6418
    I am so sorry!! Lots of :::HUGS::: for you!!
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  • StretchadStretchad member

    I'm so sorry. 

    Good luck with the D&C. 

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    Began our IF journey in May '11
    Asherman's Diagnosis (cervical & uterine scarring) - Surgery 8/17/11
    IUIs #1-#5 & 1 canceled IUI, IVF #1, 2 FETs - all BFN
    IVF# 2 December '12, BFP 1/13! EDD 9/21 
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  • Rawr08Rawr08
    I am so sorry you have to go through this!  Sending you love!
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  • camdenfaithfulcamdenfaithful
    O I'm so sorry to see you back here.  (((HUGS)))
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  • jenniann87jenniann87 member
    Im so sorry {{{HUGS}}}
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  • bryanandkatrinabryanandkatrina member
    I am so sorry ((((hugs))))
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  • mundayemmundayem member
    So sorry that you are headed back here again. ((((hugs)))))
    BFP 7/27/10, no hb discovered 9/3/10, natural m/c 9/17/10
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  • Kira98Kira98
    I am so sorry this had to happen after getting your hopes raised.  Big hugs.
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  • kathymariekathymarie member
    I'm so sorry that you had to go through that emotional roller coaster. ((hugs))
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  • VeilSdeGTOVeilSdeGTO member
    I'm so sorry you had to go through such a rollercoaster of emotions.
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    BFP 6.1.10 - 6.10.10 Ectopic M/C @ 5wks
    BFP 10.26.10 - 10.29.10 CP
    BFP 1.30.11 - CVS 3.28.11 (Girl) - EDD 10.11.11 - Born 10.6.11
    BFP 12.18.12 - 12.20.12 CP
    BFP 3.18.13 - CVS 5.21.13 (Girl) - EDD 12.2.13 - Born 11.24.13
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  • Ryan&Kristin062009Ryan&Kristin062009 member
    I am so sorry :(
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  • luckymrs.luckymrs.
    I'm so, so sorry!  Huge (((hugs)))
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    I am so sorry :(
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    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
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  • Mrs.KyzMrs.Kyz member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  :::Hugs:::
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  • SheriBTSheriBT member
    I am so sorry.  :(
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  • psumel13psumel13
    Im so sorry! I really wish you didnt have to come back here! Even though we enjoy having you here! ((HUGS))
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  • sarahandadam1029sarahandadam1029
    Wow...what a rollercoaster. So sorry you have to be going through this. Sad My thoughts are with you, and best of luck with your d&c and recovery.
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  • jolieandscottjolieandscott

    I am so sorry. I was rooting for you on the sidelines. I pray that you will get your sticky baby once this ordeal is over.

    Big, big (((hugs))).

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  • cutebride73cutebride73 member

    (((hugs)))  I am so, so sorry.  That's what I am afraid of for this Thursday - that I will go for my follow up beta and it will have gone up, but still not be viable.  If it's over, I just want it to be over. 

    I hope all goes well with the D&C and that you recover and can move forward very quickly. 

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  • LilMaggsLilMaggs member
    *hugs*  I'm so sorry.  That's just awful.
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  • PrincessDi80PrincessDi80
    I am so sorry ((HUGS))
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  • jamilynn9jamilynn9 member
    I'm so sorry.  Good luck on Friday.  I'll say a prayer for your physical and emotional healing.
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    I'm so sorry hun. I hate that you had to go through this.


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  • kmb585kmb585

    I am so so sorry! What an emotional roller coster.

    Big HUGS!!!!

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  • stillbakingstillbaking member
    I'm so, so sorry.
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    Pumpkin - BFP Feb 8, 2011. EDD Oct 21, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 6w3d - Feb 28, 2011.

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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
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    I am so sorry! I hate that you were given hope only for it to end this way! (((hugs)))
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  • kmountkmount member
    big ((hugs))   How devastating.
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  • rvandiver0705rvandiver0705 member
    I am so sorry to see you back here, even though you were missed.  ((((Hugs))))
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  • mary548mary548 member
    Ala, I'm so sorry you have to go through this :( I'm hoping everything goes well at your D&C. (((HUGS)))
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  • itsmeginitsmegin

    Oh my gosh you poor thing. We had the same issue with being told maybe it was okay and then finally no it was not. The not knowing, get your hopes up stuff is pure torture. I'm very sorry you had to go through that.

    I am sorry you have to come back. 

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) so sorry.

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  • cherylanddougcherylanddoug member
    SO Sorry :( Great big ((HUGS))
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  • linz85linz85 member

    Oh no! I am so soo sorry :(

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  • tigers413tigers413
    I am sooo sorry big hugs!
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  • maymaymiamaymaymia
    I am so very sorry. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Big hugs!
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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    I?m so sorry that you had to go through this...huge hugs to you. Sending you lots of prayers <3

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    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

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