Ew...FB stalker? (not ap related)

Manderlin923 · November 2010

I think I have a creeper. This guy K I went to hs with always had a little crush on me. He was kind of a loner, but very funny, kind of a class clown type. Yet a little weird. I haven't seen him in years. Then today I get a friend request. I begrudgingly said yes, that's before I noticed he sent me 6 private messages. The first one saying he saw me out last night and didn't say hi because he didn't want my friends to yell at him. Then he said, "So, you're married, huh? Any problems? Like in the bedroom? HUH? HUH?"

Talk about inappropriate! That was just the normal message. The other five consisted of Lady Gaga, The French, German "mortal fear" whatever that is, this old southern lady who likes him, etc, etc. He ended with, "I bet you're glad I'm back in your life again."

Whatever. So, I deleted him as a friend asap. Then I got home, checked FB and saw another friend request from him and 6, yes 6, more messages! In one hour time span. They just got weirder and weirder.

I am so creeped out right now. I've blocked him and changed my privacy settings to even stricter but still....I'm buggin. Sorry, just had to vent.

Kestrel84 · November 2010

Oh goodness. Does he know where you live? Do you have a lot of personal info in your profile?? I hope you don't have any more problems from the creeper.

Manderlin923 · November 2010

I already had my settings to only friends could see my email, photos, and info. But I made it even stricter and he can't see my likes/pages or anything else. And I blocked him. But still, it's weird and I have way too active of an imagination and think he's going to find me and kidnap me or something!

I don't live in the same city I went to hs in and only about five/six of my hs friends know my address or where exactly I am and I know they won't tell him.

Kestrel84 · November 2010

Manderlin923:
I already had my settings to only friends could see my email, photos, and info. But I made it even stricter and he can't see my likes/pages or anything else. And I blocked him. But still, it's weird and I have way too active of an imagination and think he's going to find me and kidnap me or something!
I don't live in the same city I went to hs in and only about five/six of my hs friends know my address or where exactly I am and I know they won't tell him.

That's good! He's probably just acting out online in ways he wouldn't have the guts to do in person. Try not to worry too much about it.

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someflower6 · November 2010

oh that is so weird. can you block him or something?

robinadorno · November 2010

Carabiner252:
Wow, that sent chills down my spine. I would document everything. Stalking is a crime so if he continues I would talk to a lawyer or the cops. Just in case. It may turn out to be nothing but better to be safe than sorry. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

this. print out and save the all messages he has sent. what a creeper.