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Sad about 1st Period...

haziedazehaziedaze member
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I was totally surprised to be sad about my first period after m/c today. I've been focusing on how it is a good thing and means we can move on and start TTC again. I was expecting to be happy/relieved esp. since it happened less than 4wks after my m/c (I think I didn't ovulate). But I'm said, I think it's the finality of it. It's also hard because I have 2 people at work who are very pregnant. I'm not jealous per se, as one of them had a miscarriage and now is having other complications with this pregnancy, it's just the what ifs, "what if I was still pregnant", "what if I was getting my cute bump right now." I think it's also hard with the holidays coming up, I was sooo looking forward to a bump at Thanksgiving and knowing the sex around Christmas.

Oh well, here's to an easter bump... :o)Drinks

BFP#1 9/14/10 (EDD 5/21/11); no fetal pole 6w6d, 7w4d, d&c 10/8
BFP#2 3/16/11, beta 138; 4/12 Baby/HB DS born 9/10/11 at 29w4d due to partial abruption and PTL
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BFP#3 8/19/13 Another boy! 17P, modified bedrest and Nifedipine helped us have a termie! DS2 born 4/19/14 at 38w5d.
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Re: Sad about 1st Period...

  • MorgansMommy1MorgansMommy1 member
    cheers!!  Drinks
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      Daisypath Anniversary tickers



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  • njmommaterpnjmommaterp

    Hugs to you all!!!

     Like the idea of an easter bump Beer - I am more of a beer girl!

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  • Shazmia1Shazmia1 member

    How sorry I am to her of your loss. I must say that it is oh so very hard for the first flow, following a loss. You don't know what that experience is going to bring. I lost my son at 19w5d, due to an IC. I was very overwhelmed by the sight of the first flow, because it did mean that it was actually true, that the end was actually here. It will get gradually easier as they happen. Just keep your eyes set on your future and remeber that the sight of a flow means that your body is re-preparing its self for your new bundle of joy.

    Tons of hugs to everyone and good hopes to your Easter bump Yes

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