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two years

ringer10ringer10
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It's been two years today that we sat in our u/s room and saw that baby j had no heartbeat, when he did a week before. I held our LO extra tight before he left for DC today. It makes me so sad to think of that time, but in all that despair I had no idea how full my heart would fill now. The pain is not gone, but it has gotten easier. If I think about it too much, it really gets me down- so just trying to focus on my LO today.

I did say something to my H, but I know nobody else will understand besides the ladies on this board. thank you for being there for me then and now!

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Re: two years

  • Mrs. DissMrs. Diss
    I'm sorry. I hate "anniversaries" like that.  I think extra cuddles today are a good idea!  ((HUGS))
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  • nferrantenferrante
    I would do the same...keep your LO close and lots of cuddles!  Just think of all the good things that have happened the past few months since your LO was born and that will help too!
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  • tiffanylaw06tiffanylaw06

    I'm so sorry Ringer. I was telling DH the other day that we'd have an almost 2 year old right now if we didn't have our first m/c. It's so hard when you start thinking of those things. We all definitely understand. ((hugs))

    I hope you are able to have a really wonderful weekend with your baby.

    After 2 m/cs, dx October 2008 with hetero factor v leiden & mthfr & low progesterone; third time was the charm - BFP 3/19/09 on first cycle of clomid. Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • KelanneKelanne

    ((( HUGS )))

    My 2 year "anniversary" was about 2 weeks ago.  It still hurts, but has gotten better.  I'm like you, I can't think about it too much or I start to cry.

    Glad you got to hug your LO today :-)

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