After 6 months we finally had O completely potty trained during the day. He stayed that way for 2 whole months. And then the poop accidents started. We shrugged it off at first but then it was happening every day. I can't figure a way to stop it.
He just does not see anything negative with going in his pants. We've tried everything including putting him back in pullups and diapers. He loves it when we do that because it means that he no longer has to stop playing to pee in the potty either. He'd happily wear those every day. We've tried taking away privileges but that hasn't worked either. I can not find any incentive for him to go back to pooping in the potty.
He very matter of factly told me yesterday, "Mom, when I poop in my pants you can just change me". It's no big deal to him and he doesn't see why it's a big deal for us. If he were younger I'd just give up on this potty thing for a while but he's 3 years 7 1/2 months, plenty old enough for me to no longer be changing his diaper. I don't know what to do.