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How are things at home? Are you and SO back together?
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  • unknownuser3596unknownuser3596

    Some of us care also!  do tell how things are going.

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  • Melly MelMelly Mel member

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    you too!

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  • xoxBabyBubbaxoxxoxBabyBubbaxox

    This is what I sent to Mel -

    Things are okay. He brought him back on time, and we went out to talk late last night. He stayed at his moms yesterday. I'm just trying to keep busy, I'm sure he'll be back soon lol. He's really stubborn.

    She said men are babies. Amen to that.

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    imagexoxBabyBubbaxox:

    This is what I sent to Mel -

    Things are okay. He brought him back on time, and we went out to talk late last night. He stayed at his moms yesterday. I'm just trying to keep busy, I'm sure he'll be back soon lol. He's really stubborn.

    She said men are babies. Amen to that.

    I'm glad he brought LO back!  I hope that you guys can work things out.  Did he say anything else about SIL?  Is he done with her or is he going to continue going over there and having arguments?!

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    This is what I sent to Mel -

    Things are okay. He brought him back on time, and we went out to talk late last night. He stayed at his moms yesterday. I'm just trying to keep busy, I'm sure he'll be back soon lol. He's really stubborn.

    She said men are babies. Amen to that.

    I'm glad he brought LO back!  I hope that you guys can work things out.  Did he say anything else about SIL?  Is he done with her or is he going to continue going over there and having arguments?!

    Me too. He did tell me something interesting about SIL's H. I guess her H said Adam (My SO) couldn't see his kids until he apologized about the whole fight that we got into. (that's confusing lol). But... she can see my child when she doesn't talk to me? Lol.

    They're nuts. 

    I'm going nuts, too. 

    He told me for now he's going to continue to stay away until it either boils over or we get along.

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  • unknownuser3596unknownuser3596

    I say take the high road and apologize for "over reacting" even though you probably dont think you were.  Try and smooth things over with SIL by writing a very kind letter.  To me it seems like SIL is not going to do anything remotely similar and since you are able to be the bigger person then just do it!

    Just make sure you set some ground rules with SO about SIL and Family but do it in a way that you are not demanding but just asking or just talking. 

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  • Luv-a-BugLuv-a-Bug

    I think that both sides should apologize for whatever hand they had in the argument, and that there needs to be an agreement to be civil and adult on both sides of the table.  This means:

    No making digs at the other party's parenting skills

    No eye-rolling

    No hitting

     

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    I say take the high road and apologize for "over reacting" even though you probably dont think you were.  Try and smooth things over with SIL by writing a very kind letter.  To me it seems like SIL is not going to do anything remotely similar and since you are able to be the bigger person then just do it!

    Just make sure you set some ground rules with SO about SIL and Family but do it in a way that you are not demanding but just asking or just talking. 

    I actually already wrote a really nice, apologetic letter to her through Facebook since that was the only way I could get to her.

    She replied something along the lines of, " I don't care."

    That's why it irks me so much. I tried to be civil, but she wasn't having any of it.

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  • unknownuser3596unknownuser3596
    Well then your SIL is a douche and I would want not part of her.  I would just try not to be so demanding of your DH when it comes to SIL, unless of course it is that he must be present when LO is around SIL for fear that she might lose her cool again.  Dont bad mouth her in front of him like pp said.  Hopefully that will show SO that you care enough about him and his family even if they are jerks.
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  • yankeebaby2yankeebaby2 member

    I think you are insane for even considering letting him back in.

    He's not just stubborn; he is a stubborn douche.   

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  • MrsMammayMrsMammay member
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    I think you are insane for even considering letting him back in.

    He's not just stubborn; he is a stubborn douche.   

    This!!!

    I realize that you are young & the idea of being a single mom at any age is scary, but he's a total asshat.  You are signing up for a lifetime of his family coming first & him running to mommy when things aren't going his way.  I can't fathom living like that.

     

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  • robinsokjrobinsokj member
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    I think you are insane for even considering letting him back in.

    He's not just stubborn; he is a stubborn douche.   

    This!!!

    I realize that you are young & the idea of being a single mom at any age is scary, but he's a total asshat.  You are signing up for a lifetime of his family coming first & him running to mommy when things aren't going his way.  I can't fathom living like that.

     

    I agree with this.  He needs to change, stat, but odds are it won't happen.  


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  • zitiqueenzitiqueen member
    The only one in this whole mess who deserves any sympathy is your son. His father is an immature_asshole and his mother is so desperate to have a man -- any man -- in her life that she'll settle for somebody who comes right out and tells her to her face that her feelings mean squat to him. He's going to grow up thinking all of this is normal and he'll behave the same exact way towards women that his father does. And you're the one teaching him that it's perfectly acceptable. Good job.
    fiizzlee = vag ** fiizzle = peen ** Babies shouldn't be born wit thangs ** **They're called first luddz fo' a reason -- mo' is supposed ta come after. Yo Ass don't git a medal fo' marryin yo' prom date. Unless yo ass is imoan. I aint talkin' bout chicken n' gravy biatch. Then yo ass git a all-expenses paid cruise ta tha Mediterranean n' yo ass git ta hook up Jared Padalecki on tha flight over while bustin yo' jammies. But still no medal.
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