Trying to heal, then get angry.. ergh.

SheriBT · October 2010

I am trying to make life as normal as possible again but then I think about things and just get bitter/sad. I know everything is still so new and all but damnit, I just wish things would go back to the way they used to be. It just plain sucks and I needed to vent.

CakesABake · October 2010

Ugh I know how you feel, I am so in touch with those same feelings almost EVERYDAY!

cherylanddoug · October 2010

anger is a healthy part of the grieving process. Embrace it, recognize it, then try to move past it. ((hugs))

rvandiver0705 · October 2010

Vent away! Even though I know that my life will be better one day, I still hate that it will never be the way I thought it would, and that Bryce won't be as active of a part as we wanted him to be. Crying

jertie · October 2010

I understand that completely. Everyone says that these are the steps of grief but I'm with you, it sucks. I also find that I prefer bitter and angry over sad, it's so much easier to handle (but sad still sneaks in every now and then).

lookingformommyland · October 2010

Vent away!

Izabella22 · October 2010

I'm sorry you are having a rough time. Try to remember that anger is a part of the healing process and that its completely normal to feel that way sometimes. Its hard to adjust to the rollercoaster of emotions, but at some point you do adjust to a new "normal" - you're still healing so don't be too hard on yourself. Some days its a step forward, others you feel like you slide back. Just hang in there and vent it out here as much as you need to! We get the angry part, and I totally agree w/ jertie, I am way better at expressing anger than I am sadness. Besides crying I just don't know how to explain that "Gee, I'm just sad today" without feeling like I need to make some excuse. Mad is easy in comparison. *HUGS*

Ryan&Kristin062009 · October 2010

I am so sorry

It's still so fresh in your mind.. I feel like I was in a fog for at least 2 months after our loss, and there are still tough days. Again, I am sorry for your loss.