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Moody...

teegrllwcteegrllwc
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So as a pregnant woman, I am aloud to get moody, indecisive, bitchy, tired, snappy, etc.  But since when is ok for my fiancee to act the same? He has been very snappy with me lately and yes we only had sex once in the past two weeks but that is because I have a YI.  So where is this coming from?  Every conversation we have starts out great but ends like I kicked his poor dog in the stomach and he yells at me then goes off whimpering, but he always wants me to console him after his little tantrum. 

Is anyone elses significant others acting like this? 

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  • teegrllwcteegrllwc
    imageCTGirl30:

    No - DH has been very supportive and amazingly patient with me in spite of my occasional outburts.  I think you need to be asking your FI where it's coming from and not us. (Also, you have a fiance, not a fiancee).

    I'm sorry it's been stressful but this is where communication is really key. Pregnancy brings up a lot of emotions in both the expectant mom and dad.

     

    Thanks for your response, however, I was asking whether any other women were experiencing this, hence the question, "Is anyone elses significant others acting this way?"  I was not asking you to evaluate and diagnose the problem. 

    (Sorry I misspelled fiance sometimes I do not catch my spelling but I guess I should prepare to be automatically enterend in a spelling bee here on The Bump!) 

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  • teegrllwcteegrllwc
    imageCTGirl30:

    No - DH has been very supportive and amazingly patient with me in spite of my occasional outburts.  I think you need to be asking your FI where it's coming from and not us. (Also, you have a fiance, not a fiancee).

    I'm sorry it's been stressful but this is where communication is really key. Pregnancy brings up a lot of emotions in both the expectant mom and dad.

     

    Thanks for your response, however, I was asking whether any other women were experiencing this, hence the question, "Is anyone elses significant others acting this way?"  I was not asking you to evaluate and diagnose the problem. 

    (Sorry I misspelled fiance sometimes I do not catch my spelling but I guess I should prepare to be automatically entered in a spelling bee here on The Bump!) 

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  • drpaynedrpayne member
    imageteegrllwc:
    imageCTGirl30:

    No - DH has been very supportive and amazingly patient with me in spite of my occasional outburts.  I think you need to be asking your FI where it's coming from and not us. (Also, you have a fiance, not a fiancee).

    I'm sorry it's been stressful but this is where communication is really key. Pregnancy brings up a lot of emotions in both the expectant mom and dad.

     

    Thanks for your response, however, I was asking whether any other women were experiencing this, hence the question, "Is anyone elses significant others acting this way?"  I was not asking you to evaluate and diagnose the problem. 

    (Sorry I misspelled fiance sometimes I do not catch my spelling but I guess I should prepare to be automatically entered in a spelling bee here on The Bump!) 

     

    Well that was super-biitchy.  It's a message board.  You don't get to dictate how people respond.  Wow.

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  • drpaynedrpayne member
    And by the way, you DID ask "So where is this coming from?"
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  • Disneygeek77Disneygeek77 member

    Sorry I have no advice either.  I really don't use the pregnancy card to be a b*tch to someone I love.  If I ever do act like that, I apologize and work hard to not let my hormones get the best of me.  I also wouldn't be surprised if my husband "fought back" so to speak because someone can only put up with b*tchiness for  so long before it gets to them. 

    Seriously you are a grown up.  You can control yourself and when you don't you can at least apologize for your behavior and work on not letting it happen again. 

    I wouldn't blame your fiance for getting a bad attitude also. 

    Here's an idea.  Why don't you try treating him with respect, kindness and dignity and you might notice he will return the favor. 

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  • teegrllwcteegrllwc
    Excuse me----Nothing but Bitchy people in here today, including myself!!! I asked where is this coming from as a question I am asking myself not to you all.  But that is fine.  Take it how you want to take it and I will take your response how I take it.  Have a great day!
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  • drpaynedrpayne member
    I'm not surprised that your fiance is responding that way.  Crazy hormones or not, you still have to make an effort.  40 weeks is along time to put up with an attitude like that, even for the most patient man in the world. 
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  • teegrllwcteegrllwc
    imagestw_77:

    Sorry I have no advice either.  I really don't use the pregnancy card to be a b*tch to someone I love.  If I ever do act like that, I apologize and work hard to not let my hormones get the best of me.  I also wouldn't be surprised if my husband "fought back" so to speak because someone can only put up with b*tchiness for  so long before it gets to them. 

    Seriously you are a grown up.  You can control yourself and when you don't you can at least apologize for your behavior and work on not letting it happen again. 

    I wouldn't blame your fiance for getting a bad attitude also. 

    Here's an idea.  Why don't you try treating him with respect, kindness and dignity and you might notice he will return the favor. 

    Ok I see I misspoke, I didn't mean that I was acting bitchy or moody towards him.  I actually would talk to him with respect and kind words.  I only became moody when he would become moody. And if I was bitchy to him first, I would apologize but I haven't been bitchy this pregnancy.  Tired but not bitchy.  I was just asking if anyone else was experiencing this. 

     I mean geez, I understand what it is to be an adult.  Talking to my fiance is definitely one way of being one and being in a relationship.  Talking to you all helps me get through some tough times too.  I am not asking to be yelled at but just seeing if anyone has experienced this.  That is all!  If you haven't then I am happy for you.  If you have then you can empathize with me.

    So from now on I will just ask a question and not include the background if that will help get a question answered. 

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  • teegrllwcteegrllwc

    imagedrpayne:
    I'm not surprised that your fiance is responding that way.  Crazy hormones or not, you still have to make an effort.  40 weeks is along time to put up with an attitude like that, even for the most patient man in the world. 

     

    Embarrassed

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